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You Are Not a Stranger Here: Stories (Paperback)

by Adam Haslett (Author)
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In his debut story collection, You Are Not a Stranger Here, Adam Haslett drags into the light subjects often left in the cellar. Most of his stories are told from the viewpoint of the mentally ill (though one, "The Good Doctor," shows us madness from a caregiver's perspective). The rest of the stories deal with closeted homosexuality: boys who are just learning their identity, men who have never come to terms with it. Haslett is an enormously compassionate writer, and shows a lovely, plain-written acuity about his people. His writing is a convincing inside job--he never romanticizes or oversimplifies. In "The Volunteer," an old woman at a care facility is haunted by the voice of an ancestress named Hester: "For more than two decades, Elizabeth Maynard has done exactly as she is told and the voice of Hester, which has cost her so much, comes only quietly and intermittently. It is a negative sort of achievement, she thinks, to have spent a life warding something off."

Haslett has a gift for writing quietly about sensational topics: men cruising each other in the park at night; an abusive, self-hating relationship between two adolescent boys. The stories can get a bit too fancy: the writer can't resist the ironic twist or the surprise ending. Still, this is a beautifully written collection that's as heartfelt as it is intelligent. --Claire Dederer --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.



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In this affecting debut collection, Yale Law School student Haslett explores the complex phenomena of depression and mental illness, drawing a powerful connection between those who suffer and those who attempt to alleviate that suffering. In "The Good Doctor," Frank, a young M.D., goes out of his way to discover the origin of his patient's illness, only to learn of both her untreatable pain and his own fears and regrets: "The fact was he still felt like a sponge, absorbing the pain of the people he listened to." In "The Beginnings of Grief," suffering becomes a way of healing when a teenager coming to terms with both his homosexuality and his parents' sudden deaths seeks connection wherever he can find it, even in the pain inflicted by a classmate's violence. Often, Haslett convincingly interweaves the perspectives and lives of seemingly disparate individuals. In "The Volunteer," a teenager's awkward incomprehension in the face of his first sexual encounter bizarrely coincides with the breakdown of a schizophrenic woman he visits after school. Not all of the stories are charged with this kind of emotional complexity, however, and some tend toward the sentimental, as does "The Storyteller," in which the clinically depressed Paul, who feels himself to be nothing but a burden to his wife, Ellen, rediscovers his vitality in a chance encounter with an elderly woman and her dying son. Though the thematic similarity of many of the stories dulls their startling initial impact, this is a strikingly assured first effort.
Copyright 2002 Cahners Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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2.0 out of 5 stars disappointed, Jul 15 2004
By tom nguyen (toronto) - See all my reviews
Like many, I was impressed by the stream of positive reviews for this book, especially for a first-time author. The reviews on Amazon seemed to concur with the general opinion that this collection was a major work by a talented new author. I found that the reviews were at best, hyperbole, and at worst, blatant hype. On close reading of the reviews a tone emerges that I feel is one of the secrets to this author's success: the reviews are as not just congratulatory, they are self-congratulatory. We want to like these stories to affirm that we are sensitive individuals, unafraid to peer into the darker corners of human experience. While I think such affirmation is a wonderful thing, I don't read fiction to get it.
The stories could be described in detail but it is far simpler, and no less accurate, to say that they revolve around the themes of death (often violent or due to suicide), homosexuality, and mental illness (almost always bipolar disorder or depression). In fact, it isn't possible to find a story in this collection that doesn't deal with at least two of the above themes, which I felt signified a phenomenal lack of imagination from a writer who had been lauded as this one has. If a character isn't anointed by the death of a parent/ a brush with mental illness/ thwarted homosexual longings they tend to be relegated to supporting roles of neighbours who interrupt dinner parties or shops teachers who dully float through their lives (these lives could be interesting too and you get the feeling Haslett knows it but just can't figure out what to do with them and so they are shuffled off-stage).
A writer has every right to choose the confines in which he feels must express himself but I thought these stories suffered from the constraints: I felt I was reading permutations of the same story over and over again. (Even proper names are recycled - Mrs. Giles in 'Devotion', a boy named Giles in 'Divination', minor quibbles but stuff that begins to wear on the reader). By the third story I was waiting for the author's obligatory other shoe to drop (so when does this character: put their head in the oven/ skip their medication so that the author can do his riff on a bipolar 'voice'/ look deeply into his classmates eyes...). I was never disappointed, which is to say I was greatly disappointed.

I think the author should be praised for approaching 'difficult' subject matter and dealing with it in a way that attempts to give the characters dignity, but there are other ways of invoking sympathy than just the wake of death, there are other voices than that of the character who has skipped his Dapekote. If Haslett can express this, he hasn't shown it here, and he had plenty of opportunity.
But with several stories it becomes clear why Haslett spends so much time cruising the psychiatric manuals, he isn't particularly adept at dealing with emotions that don't arise from a pathologic situation or creating characters that are not wearing ready-made melodramatic yokes. When he attempts it, the result is a curious mixture: stock characters appear, improbable turns ensue.
An example is-hold your breath now-the heterosexual teenage boy in 'The Volunteer'. He is a virgin, of course, whose infatuation with a girl is annotated with every conceivable 'After School Special' cliché, who seeks advice about love and sex from a female psychiatric patient off her meds whose illness has estranged her from everyone except the voices in her head. His questions don't just pop up coincidentally in a conversation either, the character actually phones her up to ply her for insights. While it's true that the boy has few confidantes at home (his mother is, à la Haslett, in the throes of a depression) this interaction is as cloying as it is farfetched. In contrast to these ridiculous machinations, the troubled, orphaned boy in 'The Beginning of Grief' who becomes infatuated with a male classmate is given considerable psychological depth and complexity. As well, the female characters in this collection- from the elderly Scottish woman in 'War's End' to in Hillary in 'Devotion'- are little more than ciphers, used to introduce one injured male character to another or as a barrier between the male characters.
After reading 'Divination', a story where a young boy is able to foretell death (including that of his brother) you realize that you haven't just read a mediocre story, but a mediocre Steven King story aspiring to be a mediocre movie.

There are some passages where the prose, unadorned for the most part, really impresses.
The last paragraph of 'Notes to my Biographer', the strongest story in the collection (bipoplar father: check, homosexual son: check), is especially beautiful and as good as you'll find in any collection. Often that type of beauty is enough, but I found it too rarely in this collection.

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5.0 out of 5 stars A master writer, Jun 9 2004
By Nancy B (Chicago) - See all my reviews
The spare, clean language of Haslett's book belies compassion behind his non-sentimentality. This is a rare gem and easily one of my 2 favorite books I read last year (along with Flanagan's "Gould's Book of Fish"). Haslett has exceptional talent and an ability to transcend the work of the people he admires (e.g. Munro). The perfection of his characterizations, the suspenseful tension of his storytelling, along with uncanny pacing are an inspiration to any writer. In the tradition of Capote, Kuralt and others, Haslett makes his finely honed language seem effortless (though I read he wrote full-time for 4 years to create this collection) and lets his unusual characters tell their stories. He's also done an exceptional job of creating non-cliched characters who none-the-less ring true. I'm envious! He's one of the finests writers I've read in ages.
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1.0 out of 5 stars glossy and empty. fashionable, though., Mar 31 2004
By "gangstafresh" (New Orleans, Louisiana United States) - See all my reviews
I once read a review that used the description "beige-colored realism." That term came to mind immediately after I finished this collection. Haslett's prose is lifeless and flat, his characters self-absorbed and trite. You Are Not a Stranger Here is a perfect example of overly slick hyper-reality. All too often I finished a story and wondered what the point was. Certainly, the language is clean and technically sound, but conveyed no greater substance. Similarly, I consistantly found myself irritated by brick-like moments of artificial poignancy and banal epiphanies ("At last, she feels the warmth of her son's tears in the palms of her hands" and "For a moment, here, in the calm he knows is only the eye of the storm, in the center of a turbulance that, despite everything anyone has ever written or said, might not mean a thing, he can only stare into his friend's gentle face, and listen, with gratitude, to the sounds of the world around him."). Haslett's work exhibits the studied attention to style of a classic creative writing workshop student, but forgets somewhere along the way that the themes of grief and despair are broad and old, and must be handled with care (i.e. freshness and depth), and not treated like dead horses.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Haunting, dark, thought-provoking stories!
My only complaint about Adam Haslett's collection of short stories, You Are Not a Stranger Here, is that I wish there were more of them. Read more
Published on Feb 20 2004 by CoffeeGurl

5.0 out of 5 stars No stranger to strange fiction
Adam Haslett's "You Are Not A Stranger Here" is the best collection of short stories I have read in a very long time. Read more
Published on Jan 24 2004 by Barbara Fletcher

5.0 out of 5 stars Odd but Great
YOU ARE NOT A STRANGER HERE is definitely odd. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. This book is ODD! But it's also GREAT! Read more
Published on Jan 12 2004 by VJ Wang

5.0 out of 5 stars You Are Not a Stranger Here
Excellent! Couldn't put the book down. Each story left you wanting to read the next.
Published on Jan 11 2004 by besssmith

4.0 out of 5 stars Disturbing and Beautiful
Adam Haslett's short story collection represents all that is complicated, sad, and beautiful in this complex world of ours. Read more
Published on Jan 8 2004 by Kris

5.0 out of 5 stars Rescued by a stranger
What a wonderful surprise! I owe a big thank you to Rubem Fonseca for this one (click on the "see more about me" link to read my review of Fonseca's novel). Read more
Published on Dec 19 2003 by Maurice Williams

5.0 out of 5 stars Read it.
Beautiful prose...stories overflowing with empathetic imagination (but, thank god, devoid of trite sentimentality)...an altogether stunning collection. Read more
Published on Nov 17 2003

3.0 out of 5 stars interesting, but...
I don't understand the rave reviews for this book. "The herald of a phenomenal career"? Some of the stories were moving and worked well, but I don't think he's god. Read more
Published on Nov 14 2003

5.0 out of 5 stars Compassion for the Flawed
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