She Comes First (Hardcover)

Moreover, he stresses on the importance of communication between the two lovers. The woman should feel comfortable enough to share with him what feels good and what doesn’t. I think that this important and probably often neglected aspect of sex is properly discussed in this book. Additional book I found very helpful and valuable is “Scientifically guaranteed male multiple orgasms and ultimate sex” by Alan Ritz.

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More to the point, I personally could have made great use of this book more than a decade ago. It surely would have saved me a great deal of trial and error, and anguish too, anguish at never quite attaining the expected marital bed bliss on a diet of penetration focused sex. For a younger person I would recommend it whole-heartedly. Even for those older "whimpy little tongue lickers" among us I think there are fine points to expand our technique, and certainly just immersing yourself for a time in the pro-female pleasure mindset is useful, and reassuring. The author is a bit verbose for my taste. I suspect the book could have been boiled down to quite a brief little tome, but then what a blockbuster it would have been - the secrets of bliss in 40 pages or less! Of course we would never quite believe that was all there was to it, so one can perhaps forgive the author his verbosity, in the name of building credibility. Otherwise the information all seems quite on the mark. One issue I would raise is the author's preference for waterbased lubes like Astroglide. I realize everyone is different but based on the success my wife and I have experienced I would heartily recommend a product called Herbal Select Body Creme from Biotone. This is a hypo-allergenic massage creme made from natural oils and marketed primarily to massage therapists (available on the web). It has wonderful glide properties, is taste-free and contains no glycols or other similar compounds to irritate tender tissues. I suspect similar products are available from other massage related vendors, as well. The only other oversight would be his recommmendation of simple battery powered vibrators over some well known wall current versions of far greater effectiveness. But these are minor complaints. One can only hope that this book does indeed become the classic it deserves to be, and women everywhere including Tulsa, Oklamhoma reap the benefits of an informed male population, at long last accurately schooled in the art of pleasuring a female partner. And women everywhere attain the level of self esteem that they recognize the deservedness of enjoying with such a partner, their own birthright sexual pleasure.

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