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As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as a Girl
 
 

As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as a Girl (Paperback)

by John Colapinto (Author) "THE IRONY WAS that Ron and Janet Reimer's life together had begun with such special promise ..." (more)
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Once you begin reading As Nature Made Him, a mesmerizing story of a medical tragedy and its traumatic results, you absolutely won't want to put it down. Following a botched circumcision, a family is convinced to raise their infant son, Bruce, as a girl. They rename the child Brenda and spend the next 14 years trying to transform him into a her. Brenda's childhood reads as one filled with anxiety and loneliness, and her fear and confusion are present on nearly every page concerning her early childhood. Much of her pain is caused by Dr. Money, who is presented as a villainous medical man attempting to coerce an unwilling child to submit to numerous unpleasant treatments.

Reading over interviews and reports of decisions made by this doctor, it's difficult to contain anger at the widespread results of his insistence that natural-born gender can be altered with little more than willpower and hormone treatments. The attempts of his parents, twin brother, and extended family to assist Brenda to be happily female are touching--the sense is overwhelmingly of a family wanting to do "right" while being terribly mislead as to what "right" is for her. As Brenda makes the decision to live life as a male (at age 14), she takes the name David and begins the process of reversing the effects of estrogen treatments. David's ultimately successful life--a solid marriage, honest and close family relationships, and his bravery in making his childhood public--bring an uplifting end to his story. Equally fascinating is the latest segment of the longtime nature/nurture controversy, and the interviews of various psychological researchers and practitioners form a larger framework around David's struggle to live as the gender he was meant to be. --Jill Lightner --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.



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Forget sugar, spice, snails and puppy dog tails: discussions of how little boys and little girls are made have become quite complicated over the past three decades, as scientists, feminists and social theorists debate the relative impact of "nature" and "nurture" on gender and sexual identity. Focusing on the real-life story behind sexologist Dr. John Money's famous sexual reassignment case of 1965, Colapinto, an award-winning journalist, has penned a gripping medical melodrama. After Bruce Thiessen, one of two identical male twins, lost his penis during a botched circumcision, he underwent surgery that made him anatomically female, later received estrogen injections and was raised as a girl under Money's supervision at the Psychohormonal Research Unit at Johns Hopkins. All of Money's reports of the case--which quickly appeared in textbooks as a prime example of environment trumping biology--portrayed Bruce (now Brenda) as a well-adjusted girl, although the reality was quite different. Angry, sullen and having always insisted that "she" was a boy, Brenda finally decided at age 15--after "she" finally learned of the surgery-to revert to her original sex and take the name David. Drawing on extensive interviews with the Thiessen family, "Brenda"'s therapists and friends, Colapinto has written a wrenching personal narrative and a scathing indictment of Money's methods and theories, including instances of what Colapinto and David Thiessen see as extraordinarily invasive behavior and sexual abuse in his examinations of "Brenda" and her twin brother. Although Colapinto runs into trouble when he tries to generalize about nature vs. nurture from this single case, his book is illuminating, frightening and moving. (Feb.)
Copyright 2000 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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3.0 out of 5 stars Tragic story, indeed..., Jul 3 2004
By K Baumle (Ohio, USA) - See all my reviews
Incredible book, and one wonders how something like this could happen, but truth is stranger than fiction, they say. What makes this story incredibly sadder is that David committed suicide in May of this year, two years after his twin brother, Brian, died of a drug overdose. I can't imagine the sorrow that is felt by their parents... :(
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5.0 out of 5 stars Meeting David, May 23 2004
By James Hiller (Beaverton, OR) - See all my reviews
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Just sitting in the diner this morning, leafing through a local (...) newspaper, I saw the obituary for David Reimer, once Brenda, once Bruce. Vaguely familiar with the case, but not having read the book, I was still immediately saddened by his death. An hour later, book in hand, I sat to read a compelling book about the unfounded theories of a doctor that led to the tragic life of Reimer, "As Nature Made Him".

The book, penned by Rolling Stone scribe John Colapinto, recounts the horrific, and I mean horrific, childhood of Bruce Reimer, having survived a botched circumcision, only to be forced to live as a girl by two well-intentioned yet ill-informed parents. Now Brenda, his life bascially becomes a living hell, dressing and acting against his very nature. Even worse, he is forced to undergo bizarre and irrational questioning by supervising doctor John Money that literally made my stomach turn.

Colapinto's book moves fast, very fast, through David's life, making for a quick read. Yet the speed in which you can read this book in no way detracts from its central messages. David comes out of the whole ordeal a wounded survivor, possibly an inspiration to others who might befall the same fate. And yet, his demons caught up with him, causing his recent suicide.

Perhaps none of this would have happened if that one failed circumcision never occured. Or if his mother happened to miss a television special with the notorious Dr. Money on it. But it did, and the tragedy of it all loomed over this work. We simply cannot afford, as a society, to play with people's lives for the sake of advancing careers or prestige or fame. People are much too important for that. Let David's life and death be an example, so that this simply will never, ever happen again.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Gripping, Tragic, May 20 2004
By Melissa McCauley (North Little Rock, AR) - See all my reviews
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'As Nature Made Him' is the horrifying true story of David Reimer, who lost his penis as an infant after a botched circumcision. His parents, only under-educated teenagers at the time, believed in the expertise of John Money at the Johns Hopkins Hospital. Dr. Money told them the best course was to castrate the baby and raise him as a girl, that nurture was more important than nature; gender could be changed with willpower, surgery and hormone treatments. The book recounts Brenda's lonely, mixed-up childhood and the devastating effect it had on the entire family. I was filled with rage at Dr. Money, who only wanted to promote his theories and stroke his own ego, no matter what the cost to patients or their families. This book is doubly devastating after hearing the news that David Reimer (formerly Brenda) had killed himself in May, 2004 at the age of 38.
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5.0 out of 5 stars great book tragic ending
I loved this book when I read it a couple years ago and was happy to see David on talk shows doing well. Read more
Published on May 17 2004 by michigan jean

5.0 out of 5 stars Sadly, things don't always end happily...
David Remer, the subject of this book committed suicide yesterday, 5/12/2004. Weirdly, I was talking about this case
just yesterday with co-workers. Read more
Published on May 13 2004 by JP

5.0 out of 5 stars This kind of thing needs to be brought out in the open.
John Money's asinine theories were taken seriously by thousands of doctors, ruining boys and girls whose sexual organs didn't match some arbitrary standard. Read more
Published on May 11 2004 by Nonesuch Explorers

5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent. Why isn't Dr. John Money in jail
As if the accident that mutilated Bruce Reimer when he was an infant wasn't enough. In my opinion Dr. John Money is a self important, sick pedophil and should be locked away. Read more
Published on April 29 2004 by Emily Braun

5.0 out of 5 stars Humanity Overcomes Hubris and Arrogance of Medical Industry
In 1967, six month old twin boys simultaneously develop inflamation at tip of their foreskins. A physician says it's phimosis. Read more
Published on Mar 21 2004 by Richard Russell

5.0 out of 5 stars ITS NATURE NOT NURTURE...
This is a wonderfully written book and a fascinating look into the debate of nature versus nurture in the area of gender assignment. Read more
Published on Feb 9 2004 by Lawyeraau

5.0 out of 5 stars Concrete example of nature vs nurture
Science and religion are often pitted against each other as polar opposites. Science is all that is objective and open to change and revolution; religion is all that is dogmatic... Read more
Published on Dec 27 2003 by Gary Scott

4.0 out of 5 stars A valuable account
In 1967, after a boy suffered a surgical failure during a circumcision, his family agreed to sexual reassignment on the advice of a famous expert in gender identity, Dr John... Read more
Published on Dec 19 2003 by Philippe Horak

5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing story
This book tells the story of David Reimer, who was born a boy, but raised as a girl after a botched circumcision. Read more
Published on Dec 4 2003 by Erika Mitchell

4.0 out of 5 stars Horrible Nightmare for Any Child
When I finished this book, I was absolutely stunned that this poor man had to suffer through his entire childhood and into his adult life. Read more
Published on Nov 18 2003

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