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Her Mother's Daughter
  

Her Mother's Daughter (Paperback)

by Marilyn French (Author)
4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (7 customer reviews)

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Not as shrill as The Women's Room but with a fund of trenchant observations about women's roles, French's hefty new novel, which appears on the 10th anniversary of her fiction debut, is a powerful if flawed work. The writing is rich in detail and insight but marred by an excess of feminist zeal that paints all men as autocratic monsters who are unable to love their children. French limns the lives of four generations of women in a Polish-American family. The narrator, born Anastasia Dabrowski, has by dint of a hard-won career as an intrepid photographer, achieved an independent identity as Stacey Stevens. Nearing 50, twice divorced, she is severely depressed, and she looks back at the lives of her mother and grandmother, and forward to the lives of her two daughters, to try to understand the cause. Stacey finds that in each generation women make bitter sacrifices for the sake of their offspring, while the children, especially the daughters, bitterly resent what they see as their mothers' guilt-producing martyrdom; they, in turn, seem destined to repeat their mothers' lives. Men are the villains here: tyrannical fathers who terrorize or desert their progeny. Eternally victimized in this male-dominated culture, women are deprived of comfort, love, security and peace of mind. French's descriptions of the bone-wearying, endless domestic drudgery of poverty-stricken women are among the most authentic work she has ever done; the travail of the weekly laundry routine is rendered in details no reader will forget. The plight of women who hold down jobs at the same time they are raising families is also depicted with rare accuracy. Writing of the "anger and despair and frustration and weariness" of motherhood, French nevertheless comes to the conclusion that raising and nurturing children are woman's only true and emotionally satisfying role. Strong elements of autobiography seem to be present here (Stacey's mother's name is Isabelle; so is the author's mother, to whom the book is dedicated); it seems that no memory or detail has been omitted. On the one hand, this is a moving evocation of the fears and miseries of childhood and the frustrations of wife- and motherhood; on the other, the sheer mass of intensely recalled minutiae is slow moving rather than dramatic. French's contrasts are too intense; her outrage at men's power and women's double bind of servitude and martyrdom is often strident and vituperative. But the basic truths in this novel, and French's determined telling of them, will strike some resonant chords. Literary Guild main selection; major ad/promo.
Copyright 1987 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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Ten years after The Women's Room , French gives us another captivating and lengthy novel on women's lives. Here, Anastasia narrates her life experiences by blending them with those of her grandmother, mother, and daughter. Each woman has been determined not to make the sacrifices her mother made, instead seeking joy, freedom, and independence. And in doing so, each has become like her motheremotionally drained, alienated from her children, and alone. By probing the past and living the present, Anastasia comes to understand the silent bond between mothers and daughters. Highly recommended. Jeris Cassell, Rutgers Univ. Libs., New Brunswick, N.J.
Copyright 1987 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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5.0 out of 5 stars It's hard to imagine!, May 3 2002
By Diane Pellegrini "Dinie" (Ellensburg, WA USA) - See all my reviews
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I have always known that women were a minority race. This book brought it more to the light to me. I have only a few pages left but I know that I love this book and how it makes me think of the women in the past and all that they were up against!

While reading I would get so angry and life's circumstances and men and women's roles in it. I don't know how the women did it! But I see it is still there - in the air! Men and Women! And I still get angry! And I know that I have those women to thank for the opportunity to say No! when I feel like it. Great book!

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4.0 out of 5 stars An entertaining, insightful read, Jan 31 2000
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I am reading Her Mother's Daughter - its coming to an end, and I know I will miss these characters and their wonderful insights into the lives of women. I am of the younger generation, and I suppose the rules are not as rigid for me , but the roles women are expected to play do not change. As the generations go by, the guilt becomes less ( I hope), but will it ever go away? I spite of having so many depressed women in it- it is suprprsingly not a depressing book, rather, it is uplifting, as introspective books can sometimes be. I would disagree with the other reviewers who have said that the author seems to hate men- it is not so. She does not hate men, only the world-order that favors men... when she says "... it was not a fit life for a man, .. why was it considered a fit life for a woman.."-she brings out the question that every woman has instinctively wanted to ask.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A fantastic discovery, Jan 26 2000
By Turnbull Jacqueline (Antwerp, Belgium, Europe) - See all my reviews
A new door has opened finding this author quite by accident in a second hand book store. Since reading Her Mother's daughter I can't read enough books written by this author. As a woman of 50 I feel -for the first time in my life- that there are other women like me, torn between the old and new way of life. Working and bringing up children. Husbands raised by their parents not understanding that we women are living two lives at the same time and trying to be perfect and please everyone, parents, husband and children and our boss. . The men were not to be blamed, they didn't know any better than we did, it took me 25 years to gently make my husband understand my point of view and to change my own attitude to life. I hope I made a better job bringing up my two sons to this new way of life - the 50/50 way. In my opinion Marilyn French doesn't hate men - as is said in a previous review- , she definitely points out the frustration, torment of forever feeling guilty women our age experience because of the way we were raised. I cannot speak for younger women. The book is compusilve reading, nothing to do with being a feminist, but to understand how women of the fifties and sixties feel and experience life. Fantastic reading, the best ever....and I've read more books than I can remember. I'm certainly advertising this author among my friends and they are just as impressed as I am. Thank you Ms. French.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A fantastic discovery
A new door has opened finding this author quite by accident in a second hand book store. Since reading Her Mother's daughter I can't read enough books written by this author. Read more
Published on Jan 26 2000 by Turnbull Jacqueline

5.0 out of 5 stars The book of my life
This book was as good as anything I have read. Even though it was five years ago I read it it is still stuck in my memory. A piece of art in the feministic writing.

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Published on Jun 2 1999

2.0 out of 5 stars Disappointing unbalanced view of life
This book was a depressing survey of how women perceive that they are slighted by men. The characters in this book (and the author herself? Read more
Published on Mar 3 1999

5.0 out of 5 stars A beautiful page-turner
This book had me hooked from the first page. I never thought I was someone to enjoy something billed as "feminist literature", but if said literature is great... Read more
Published on Sep 10 1998 by eeckert@fas.harvard.edu

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