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My Darling, My Hamburger
  

My Darling, My Hamburger (Hardcover)

by Paul Zindel (Author)
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Four friends,
Two couples,
One year that will change their lives.

Liz and Sean, both beautiful and popular, are madly in love and completely misunderstood by their parents. Their best friends, Maggie and Dennis, are shy and awkward, but willing to take the first tentative steps toward a romance of their own. Yet before either couple can enjoy true happiness, life conspires against them, threatening to destroy their friendships completely.

--This text refers to the Paperback edition.


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Four high school seniors struggle with the responsibilities of growing up, particularly the problems of an intimate relationship. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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3.0 out of 5 stars Can I have some fries with that shake?, Jul 8 2004
By E. R. Bird "Ramseelbird" (Manhattan, NY) - See all my reviews
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Some early young adult novels (it's a fairly new form of literature, you know) age gracefully and seamlessly. I'm thinking of course of Robert Cormier's "The Chocolate War" and (to a lesser extent), S.E. Hinton's, "The Outsiders". Unfortunately, I have a nasty suspicion that these books are the exception rather than the rule. For every "Forever" there's a "My Darling, My Hamburger" that contains a great story bogged down by changes in the world. While Paul Zindel's classic tale of four teenagers and their relationship problems is at times both moving and perfectly toned, mostly the problems presented in it are as dated as they come. Even a plot synopsis makes this apparent.

Friends Maggie and Liz aren't exactly close, but they hang out frequently together. Liz is the more beautiful and popular of the two with Maggie often following behind. When Liz and her boyfriend Sean decide to hook up Maggie with his friend Dennis, the blind date is as incredibly awkward as they come. Throughout the book the narrative switches between Maggie and her tentative relationship with Dennis and Liz's problems with Sean. Sean, like any normal teenager, is as horny as they come and is continually pressuring Liz to have sex. She'd like to, but she worries that it might end up in pregnancy. Unsurprisingly, that is exactly what happens and soon the big question in the book is whether or not Sean will do the honorable thing and marry Liz (!!) or if Liz will seek out an illegal abortion on her own.

It's this last plotline that struck me as dated. The book was originally written in 1969, a full three years before Roe V. Wade and in many ways this abortion issue (while it still looms large) isn't the same. Sure, many girls will sweat over what to do with an unplanned pregnancy, but crossing the border to a state where abortion is legal is probably a more up-to-date literary solution than getting a back alley job. Then there's the debate about whether a girl should marry the guy who gets her pregnant, regardless of how old they are or what their future plans are. Maybe there are pockets of the country where this really is the only honorable solution to such a problem, but it's really not how the majority of teens would handle it today. The book is additionally riddled with small cultural time capsules as well. Talk about how Orientals kill themselves for honor, going to the movie theater to watch a documentary on pygmies, and the complete and total lack of any mention of STDs all combine to make this book an interesting window into the past.

To some degree it does still speak to teens today. I was especially amused by the Sex Ed. teacher's advice on how to stop a guy from going all the way, (suggest going out for a hamburger). The characters were interesting as well. Liz, unfortunately, isn't a character you're going to identify with intrinsically. Yes, it's sad that she doesn't get along with her parents. But she's such a self-absorbed person, constantly ridiculing her best friend and at the same time dragging Maggie into horrid and uncomfortable situations, that by the end you feel zippo pity for her. In fact, you're supposed to end this story hating and pitying Sean who got her pregnant in the first place. Curse those lustful young men that refuse to marry their knocked up girlfriends! Curse them! This book probably read very well in the 1970s and I could even see it having some interesting points in the 1980s. But by the 1990s with the advent of AIDS better known and the options available to teens widening, books like this one began to read more as cautionary tales than as contemporary novels. I've no doubt that "My Darling, My Hamburger" was riveting and shocking when it first came out. Unfortunately, that's certainly no longer the case. I recommend it as a glimpse into the America that once was. If you'd like to know more about the history of the Young Adult novel, this is a good book to pick up. Just don't expect it to have too many insights to offer today. I'm afraid it's no longer that meaningful.

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5.0 out of 5 stars My Darling My Hamburger, Nov 11 2003
By A Customer
Book: My Darling My Hamburger
Author: Paul Zindel
Number of Pages: 122
Publisher and Publication Date: 1969 Harper and Row publishers
ISBN: 0-553-27324-8
Price (if available) and whether it is paperback or hardback: Hardback

Imagine if you had parents that never trusted, or that never would believe you. Or even worse what if you had a stepparent that would call u some pretty bad names and your mom would take his side. Well that is kind of what this book is about.
The main characters in My Darling My Hamburger are two girls named Liz and Maggie. They are of course best friends. They are also both seniors in high school. It is about time for prom and they both have dates. But you'll never guess what happens next!!!
I think that this book is a really good book. Personal I loved My Darling My Hamburger. It has a really good moral. It was just like a real story. Everything in this book is based on what is happening in real life. That is just my opinion.
When I read this book it reminded me of one of my friends sister. She has just graduated and basically the same thing that has happened to one of the girls in this story. I am not going to tell you the rest but I guess that you will just have to read and find out for your self.
I would definitely recommend this book to People in 6th-9th grade. The main gender that would want to read this book would be girls because of what the story is based on and because they can relate to it the best. The people that wouldn't like this would be boys. Why? Because of what it is about.
If you really want to know what happens then I guess that you will just have to read and find out what happen next.

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5.0 out of 5 stars The Truth, Oct 19 2003
By naudia greer (Avon, OH USA) - See all my reviews
In My Darling, My Hamburger, they talk about many topics amoung teens today. In the book a senior named Liz faces problems like: I love my boy friend, but do I love him enough to have sex with him; and If I do get pregnant what will I do? Will I have the baby or get an abortion? Paul Zindel did a great job writting this book. It expresses many problems that teens face today like dating, sex, teenage pregnancy, and many others. This book was one of the best books I have read ever.
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1.0 out of 5 stars Horrible
If there is any tool of education which highlights our depraved society, it is this book. I am sure Paul Zindel means well, but his outlook on human life is simplistic at best... Read more
Published on Sep 27 2003

5.0 out of 5 stars Funny Book
I read this book in high school and loved it. It was written in a way that felt just like my life at the time. I just bought it again recently and I still love it. Read more
Published on Mar 18 2003 by paula jean moody

2.0 out of 5 stars Disoriented
This book was a delight at first to read, then it started to use issues that I think were very disgusting and since I am in 8th grade I refused to write my book report on this... Read more
Published on Dec 11 2001 by ******* ********

5.0 out of 5 stars excellent
i love this book and would reccomend it to any teenage person...male or female. i usually hate stories of teenage life, but this was very good..highly recommended!
Published on Dec 7 2001 by Diane Warren

4.0 out of 5 stars Amanda's Thoughts
I read this book because it was on my reading list and because my mom had read it when she was in school. I really liked this book and I read it all in one night. Read more
Published on April 26 2001

4.0 out of 5 stars Great Book!
This is an execellent book about teenagers and all the usual problems teens go through. One of those problems is dating and sex. Read more
Published on Oct 31 2000

2.0 out of 5 stars Not too good
This book was more a series of sparse vignettes than an actual story. The fact is, something will happen, and then on the next page it will have come to a conclusion without any... Read more
Published on Aug 26 2000 by ziggyz_queen

3.0 out of 5 stars My Darling, My Hamburger
My Darling,My Hambuger is a well written novel by Paul Zindel that might illustrtate the life of a teen durign hi high school years. Read more
Published on May 30 2000 by jorge centeno

5.0 out of 5 stars A must read for all teenagers
I read this when I was in junior high school over 20 years ago. Now I felt that it was a great depiction of teenage life that I wanted to share with my teenage daughter as she... Read more
Published on April 22 2000

3.0 out of 5 stars Not my fave Paul Zindel book
I expected better from him. I enjoyed the warm silliness of his other books,like The Pigman. This one was dramatic and true-to-life. However,it bungled in many places. Read more
Published on Jan 1 2000

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