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by Maggie Callanan (Author), Patricia Kelley (Author) "Joe paced anxiously-back and forth-at the foot of Laura's bed ..." (more)
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Impressive insights into the experience of dying, offered by two hospice nurses with a gift for listening. The ``final gifts'' of the title are the comfort and enlightenment offered by the dying to those attending them, and in return, the peace and reassurance offered to the dying by those who hear their needs. Callanan and Kelley describe a phenomenon they term ``Nearing Death Awareness''--which resembles somewhat the near-death experience sometimes reported by individuals revived after being clinically dead. Nearing Death Awareness, however, develops slowly, and the dying person seemingly drifts for a time between two worlds. Attempts by the dying to communicate about this awareness, often expressed in symbolic language or gestures, may be misunderstood by those around them, who dismiss the expressions as mere ``confusion.'' According to the authors, dying messages fall into two categories: descriptions of what they are experiencing (such as the places they see, the presence of others no longer alive, or their knowledge of when death will occur) and requests for what the dying need for a peaceful death (a reconciliation, for instance, or the removal of some barrier to departure). To illustrate, Callanan and Kelley include numerous examples of Nearing Death Awareness from their years of caring for the dying. And they offer practical advice not only to involved family members but also to professional caregivers on how to recognize, understand, and respond to a dying person's messages. No lugubriousness or false cheerfulness here, but acute observations and astute advice on a difficult topic. -- Copyright ©1992, Kirkus Associates, LP. All rights reserved. --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.


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“A treasure–clear, authentic, responsible, and profoundly moving.” —Sandol Stoddard, author of The Hospice Movement

“Beautifully written, illuminating and reassuring…Final Gifts is truly a gift to us all.” —Judy Tatelbaum, author of The Courage to Grieve

“These richly told stories enable us to respond to the dying in new and authentic ways.” —Ira R. Byock, M.D., author of Dying Well: The Prospect for Growth at the End of Life

“Impressive insights into the experience of dying, offered by two hospice nurses with a gift for listening…They offer practical advice not only to involved family members but also to professional caregivers on how to recognize, understand, and respond to a dying person’s messages.” —Kirkus Reviews

“A hopeful, helpful work…provides a gentle way to think about the unthinkable.”—Publishers Weekly

“A treasure…‘must’ reading for anyone working with the dying, or living with a dying person or life-threatening illness, or thinking about the process.”—Vital Signs

“Maggie Callanan and Patricia Kelley have garnered a wisdom and sensitivity, and cultivated a keen observation that only the dying could teach.”—Sunrise

“Insightful. Final Gifts is a significant contribution. Experienced hospice nurses Maggie Callanan and Patricia Kelley shed important light on human experience at the end of life. I highly recommend this helpful book to all who care for the dying.”—Dr. Balfour Mount, Professor of Palliative Medicine, McGill University

“Irrespective of belief system, age or diagnosis of the dying person, Final Gifts conveys the awe and profundity of the moments surrounding death that we all feel.” —Madalon Amenta, R.N., M.D., Public Health Editor of The Hospice Journal

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5.0 out of 5 stars The last handbook you'll ever need, Nov 14 2004
All of us will have to experience loss at some point--some more than others. And no amount of religion, soul-searching, friends, or estate and trust planning can really prepare us for the event. Having seen over thirteen of my family members die over the years, not to mention friends and co-workers, I can only say that I wish this book had been available for me then. The insights into dying and the reactions of those around the dying provided by the astute author(s), are quite impressive. But the best thing about this well written book is that it doesn't pander; there is no cheerleading or false hope--only the truth, told in a professional and caring manner.

Lately, because of my interest in the subject and how it affects not only those dying, but those around the aged and ill, I've been reading everything I can get my hands on. I've come across two other excellent books on this subject. One is titled "Necessary Losses" and is along the lines of this book. the other was a collection of stories about loss called "The Children's Corner" by Jackson McCrae. Stories about death, be it physical, spiritual, or emotional. Some are acutally quite funny and others are touching. Still others are dark and painful. One story "Crook" deals with Alzheimer's and is moving without being manipulative. All-in-all, two other great books to help you think about dying and the process.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Prolific,Emotional, Feb 4 2006
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A prolific and emotional journey through the life and death of those diagnosed with illnesses where there is no turning back. One would think this book would be to sad to read, but instead celebrates life and how to communicate and understand the life and death of those we love.
Also recommending: SONG OF CY (Katlyn Stewart)**
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5.0 out of 5 stars Final Gifts - a must read book!, May 12 2004
By Eva M. Satori "Eva in Brentwood" (Los Angeles, CA USA) - See all my reviews
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I read the book on the year anniversary of my father's death. It was well-written. It was highly recommended by a colleague and is a very moving book written by these hospice nurses. A must read for BEFORE the dying process, but helpful for after the death of a loved one!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Helpful and comforting
A friend gave this to me when my mother was dying at home with the wonderful help of Hospice workers. Read more
Published on Jan 14 2004 by Toni

5.0 out of 5 stars Read BEFORE death is imminent... change lives and deaths
"Final Gifts" was suggested to me after I spoke to an old friend who called to talk to me after being told he had a week to live. Read more
Published on Jan 6 2004 by Julie Jordan Scott

5.0 out of 5 stars HELPED ME TO FEEL NOT QUITE AS SAD
I bought this book after the death of a very good friend. I felt empty and lost and was looking for something to help me to start to understand the logic (or lack of logic) of... Read more
Published on Dec 31 2003 by Julie

5.0 out of 5 stars Insightful
Final Gifts is a gift to all who read it. The authors tell compelling stories that illustrate the needs and communication of the dying. Read more
Published on Dec 14 2003

5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent Book
You would think that the subject matter would be depressing, but the book is so enlightening that you just don't think of it that way. Read more
Published on Jul 10 2003

5.0 out of 5 stars Helpful
Lots of case histories, although each very brief. An explanation of Nearing Death Awareness. What to expect from a dying person and how to respond to him/her in a loving,... Read more
Published on April 24 2003 by Sue

5.0 out of 5 stars A must read
The last gift we can give someone as they approach death is to journey with them unafraid. Final Gifts gives you insight to the communication of the dying. Read more
Published on April 22 2003

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Final Gifts is one of the most helpful books I have ever read. Being a Hospice volunteer, it has helped me in dealing with patients and their families. Read more
Published on Mar 1 2003 by Mary West

5.0 out of 5 stars An Absolute Must Read
A friend of my mother sent us this book while we were spending the final weeks of my father's life taking care of him at home. Read more
Published on Dec 5 2002 by relentless98

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