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Primrose Path
  

Primrose Path (Turtleback)

by Carol Matas (Author)
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The Primrose Path is not a story about the usual afflictions of adolescence: crippling insecurity, alcohol or drug addiction, and sexual peer pressure. Debbie Mazer's life is marred by something far more disturbing and sinister, something that even the author of this book refrains from naming outright. I shall name it for her: it is sexual abuse and pedophilia. Admittedly, this is not something new. We are no longer shocked, or should I say surprised, by stories of sexual molestation of children. And yet I was shocked. Carol Matas has managed to be very original by creating a setting for this tale of sexual aberrance that is unlike any I have ever encountered. It is this context which lends the story the strength to keep its reader captive-repelled and at the same time fascinated. It is this same context that ultimately weakens the story and may alienate many readers from what is essentially a well-written and thoughtful book.

The Primrose Path is about a fourteen-year-old Jewish girl (beautifully brought to life by Carol Matas) who, along with her parents and baby brother, moves to a new city and finds herself unexpectedly part of a small Orthodox community. The founder, mover, and shaker of this community is Rabbi Werner. He is both the principal of the Orthodox school that his synagogue houses, and Debbie's teacher. He is also a practised sexual molester, who touches and strokes his students' bodies under pretext of tickling them and being otherwise physically demonstrative. Needless to say, this backdrop of Jewish Orthodoxy is what makes this story so different.

Carol Matas is unquestionably a very capable writer. Debbie Mazer is a living breathing adolescent whose preoccupations and concerns-about school, friends, and her parents' troubled marriage-elicit genuine empathy from the reader. Matas's writing is generally effective by virtue of its simplicity and directness. It is the premise of this book, not her skills as a writer, that I would like to take issue with.

Her objective is, I believe, to reinforce the message that sexual abuse and molestation can happen in the most unexpected places; the perpetrator may be an accomplished and respected individual. Our refusal to believe that such a person is guilty can be almost as damaging to a child as the abuse itself. Stressing this point is certainly worthwhile. However, Matas's decision to use an Orthodox rabbi to convey her message has unfortunate ramifications. To a large extent this is due to the fact that Rabbi Werner is the focal point of Matas's Orthodox setting; and it is Werner who spearheads Debbie's and her mother's conversion to Orthodoxy. Another strong character representing Orthodoxy might have served Matas well by counteracting some of the negative associations with Orthodoxy that Werner's centrality evokes.

Matas does attempt to demonstrate that Rabbi Werner's conduct is not an aspect of Orthodoxy. For example, the reader learns from one of the minor characters that physical contact between an Orthodox man and a girl over the age of three is not permitted. Similarly, Debbie's father insists that we are dealing here with "two different issues. Orthodoxy and the Rabbi. After all, Orthodox rabbis don't behave this way." I would argue, however, that Matas's efforts to protect the image of Orthodoxy do not go far enough. What we hear, when all is taken into account, are a few weak and scattered denials that simply do not amount to much in the face of the insidious and overwhelming ugliness of Werner's behaviour, his abnormal predilection for young girls, and his manipulativeness and hypocrisy. Moreover, Matas undermines her own effort to isolate Werner from both Orthodoxy and Judaism in general, by allowing Debbie's mother (who is also victimized by Werner) to lose all interest in observance. "Mom won't set foot in any synagogue," Debbie Mazer tells us. In other words, however faulty her logic, Debbie's mother has made a connection between religion and Werner's reprehensible conduct, a connection that Matas should not have allowed her to make. Everything she has learned about Orthodox Judaism-rules relating to the observance of the Sabbath, the kosher preparation of food, etc. (there is truly so much beauty and wisdom in Judaism)-loses its appeal (and, perhaps, its validity) because it was Werner who instructed her. This is what I find so objectionable about this book. By assigning Rabbi Werner the dual role of charismatic mentor (the source of this newly acquired knowledge about Judaism) and despicable villain, Matas has unwittingly permitted Orthodoxy to sustain considerable damage.

Debbie's aunt's assertion that Rabbi Werner's congregation is a cult supports this conclusion. This is an interesting statement, one that may prompt the reader to wonder whether there is any real difference between a cult and a congregation whose members are governed by a strict set of rules that have a far-reaching effect on their everyday lives. Here I would like to say that any religious congregation distinguishes itself from a cult by virtue of the voluntary nature of its members' association. Rabbis have traditionally assumed the role of teachers and counsellors, when it was asked of them, but their role in Jewish communities, though a highly respected one, has been of a limited nature.

I am acquainted with a Lubaviche (Orthodox) rabbi who never forgets a face or the name of its owner. He is also one of the most tolerant people I know. Whenever we meet he asks good-naturedly when my family and I will at last move to the vicinity of a Lubaviche school so that my children can attend it. I am certain he realizes that this might never happen, but the question itself (and his manner of asking) is a gentle effort to give us direction; by no means does it constitute coercion or any other attempt at bullying. As for Carol Matas's book, the premise-a rabbi who can't keep his hands off young girls, and who gets away with it in public-strikes me as highly improbable. I have never seen an Orthodox man touch a woman other than his wife; rules forbidding such contact are very strict and are strictly observed. Can I say with absolute certainty that what Matas describes in her book is impossible? I cannot, and that may be the exact point Matas is trying to make. Olga Stein(Books in Canada) --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.



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Everyone says, tell the truth. But for Debbie telling the truth could turn everything she loves--her parents, her new friends, her community--upside down and even against her. Especially when that truth involves a powerful figure in her Jewish community whose attention she once sought out so trustingly--a man so well respected that even to question his motives is unthinkable. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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5.0 out of 5 stars A Powerful, Utterly Realistic Story, Nov 3 2002
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This review is from: The primrose path (Paperback)
Carol Matas writes brilliantly. This story is powerful, realistic, disturbing, emotional, and frusturating all at once.
Told from the point of veiw of Debbie, a young Jewish teenager growing up in the nineties. When her Baba dies unexpectedly, her family decides to move.
Everything is different from then on. She goes to a Jewish Orthodox school now, something she is not used to. Things are starting to go well. She's meeting new, interesting friends, becoming more spiritual, and she likes her young teacher, Rabbi Werner. Even if the Rabbi does act a little strange around the girls... He tickles them, kisses them, hugs them, touches them...
But as he gains Debbie's trust, she becomes uncomfortable with his attention towards her. He often touches her innapropriately.
When Debbie does decide to tell someone about the Rabbi, it turns her world upside-down. Her mother, who has recently been taking classes with the Rabbi, accuses her of being a liar. Everyone believes that the Rabbi is too good of a person to do such terrible things. Everyone thinks the tickling is just a game.
The story is frusturating, because the Rabbi has enough power to convince everyone, even his victims, of his innocence. The story is realistic, because you feel Debbie's emotions and confusions and everything seems so true.
The story is powerful, because Debbie fights.
It becomes clearer and clearer that Rabbi Werner has pulled many into his trap. Debbie, her friends, and her mother find themselves under his power and following his absurd rules.
Debbie is shunned. And shut out. And punished, because she stood up. But she knows what the Rabbie does is wrong.
Through stages of denial, confusion, and depression to a suicidal point, Debbie comes to the truth about Rabbi Werner and his relationship with her and the other girls, and even the grown women that he teaches.
This book expresses universal denial. And the abuse that has to stop.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Catholic priests do it. Why can't Orthodox rabbis?, Nov 21 1999
By Lisa (Los Angeles, USA) - See all my reviews
This review is from: The primrose path (Paperback)
Why is it so hard to believe that an Orthodox rabbi would be capable of doing such a hideous crime? We hear all the time on the news and in the paper about Catholic priests who sexually abuse children and yet you can sit there at your computer and tell me that Orthodox rabbis are not capable of this. You are doing what most people like to do when we don't like what we see - look the other way. We are all humans and unfortunately some of us don't understand or are incapable of understanding right from wrong. So the next time you decide to read a book with some subject matter you're not exactly hip to, please try to look at it with more of an open mind. This is the real world please try to live in it. If anything the author should be praised for portraying reality no matter how ugly it is.
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5.0 out of 5 stars The Primrose Path is a Groundbreaker!, Nov 16 1999
By Lisa (Los Angeles, USA) - See all my reviews
This review is from: The primrose path (Paperback)
I was shocked to read the reviews written about this book. Judaism teaches us to be unbiased. These reviews are a clear example of what Carol Matas so skillfully portrays. Just as in the story, the community circles around itself when one of its own is accused. They're provoking a witch hunt by denying the abuse. ANYONE can be a child molester, even an Orthodox Rabbi. Remember that man is human. You would charge Matas with blasting the Orthodox tradition by having the characters in the story shy away from Orthodoxy. If the sexual abuse had occured in a school and the district circled its wagons to deny what had happened, wouldn't you be reluctant to go back? The abuse occurred in a temple, a supposedly safe place, and the Orthodox community circled its wagons to deny the abuse. What's the difference? Learn to read between the lines before you're blinded by them. Then read this book again.
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1.0 out of 5 stars Primrose Path takes the reader down one.
This is a further comment on this book which I already critiqued for having a plot hinged on a character, the Rabbi, which I do not find believable. Read more
Published on Aug 5 1999

1.0 out of 5 stars This book stings the sensiblilities of Orthodox Jews
Carol Matas is careful to note in the introduction to her book that the story bears no relationship to any real person, living or dead. Read more
Published on Aug 4 1999

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