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The Best a Man Can Get: A Novel of Fatherhood and its Discontents
 
 

The Best a Man Can Get: A Novel of Fatherhood and its Discontents (Hardcover)

by John O'Farrell (Author)
4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (18 customer reviews)

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Some men are born fathers, while others have fatherhood thrust upon them. The protagonist of John O'Farrell's The Best a Man Can Get belongs indisputably in the latter category. When his first daughter is born, Michael Adams imagines her as the warden of a prison that will permanently deprive him of his youth and freedom. Terrified by his new responsibilities, he regularly escapes to a bachelor pad across the Thames, pretending to be at work. Another child arrives--and with still another on the way, it is only a matter of time before Michael's wife discovers his double life. At that point, he must make a choice between his family and his hedonistic haven.

By turns hilarious and touching, O'Farrell's book delves deeply into the anxieties of modern parenting. Yet the novel is not without empathy for the 21st-century father. After all, it's easy to imagine the lure of a child-proof hideaway, insulated from sleepless nights and dirty diapers. At the same time, Adams often wonders whether "just being tucked up warm and cosy" is really "the best a man can get." With its charming prose and truant protagonist, this first novel is sure to win over even the most reluctant parent. --Greg Bensinger



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Are the wife and kids getting you down, taking up too much of your leisure time, disturbing your beauty rest? Pretend you're single, rent an apartment and sleep there instead. O'Farrell's (Things Can Only Get Better) has great fun with his monstrous premise in this sharp-witted slapstick set in London. Jingle writer Mike Adams, 32, is a perplexed father of two, shocked to learn that his wife, Catherine, is pregnant again. Knowing he may never realize his dream of being a rock musician, Mike justifies his double life renting an apartment in Balham with college student Jim, porn addict Simon and shy Paul by stressing that his long separations from Catherine solidify their marriage by keeping Mike sane. Catherine believes Mike is really renting a music studio and pulling all-nighters to compose his commercial jingles. Holes develop in Mike's story as he retreats further into his beer-soaked pseudo-bachelorhood, stops payments on the family home in Kentish Town and is tempted by nymphet Kate. Clever psychological riffs Mike feels he is becoming a father figure to Jim, Simon and Paul abound between chaotic parenting and apartment scenes as Mike fears he is emulating his own father, who walked out when Mike was just five. Denial turns to despair when Catherine bursts Mike's bubble, saying she is unhappy that he works so much, leaving her alone to raise the children. As the dark shadows of divorce, financial ruin and creative failure stalk Mike, O'Farrell succeeds in creating a hit single for the Nick Hornby crowd. (June)
Copyright 2001 Reed Business Information, Inc.

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1.0 out of 5 stars Do me a favour, Sep 18 2003
By Bink Finkly (wearysville) - See all my reviews
Yeah right, Nick Hornby, Bridget Jones, Tony Parsons, thats about the mark. If undistinguished hacks banging on about the obvious is your bag maybe this dismal sack of cliches will be bang up your alley. If you prefer Sade to Hendrix, Freddie Starr to Bill Hicks, Blind Date to Blue Jam then this insipid scribble may well light up your life.
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2.0 out of 5 stars Oh Please!, Sep 18 2003
By Bink Finkly (wearysville) - See all my reviews
Is it just me? Am I so jaded that I'm missing something? This just reads like another Guardian columnist's Londonite "insight" into fatherdom, is Dadlit a recognised genre yet? Perhaps fascinating to anyone who's never reared kids, but, aside from the glint of recognition for those of us who have, what are we given? I don't want to sound highbrow but this writing is pretty undistinguished, like a succession of Reader's Digest "funny things that happened on the way to the potty". I even knew a few of the punchlines he was building to, like a Frank Carson routine. I found it poorly constructed, tame and a must-have for Daily Mail reading accountants who like to wear jeans at the weekend and fantasize about being a bit edgy.
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5.0 out of 5 stars The Best a Reader Can Get, Sep 12 2003
By Anthony Mallon (Bedfordshire, UK) - See all my reviews
From start to finish I felt "involved".I worked in Clapham at the time I read the book which helped. It's probably the best laugh I have ever had out of a book.
I'd love to see it made into a film. If done right, with the right characters, it could run rings around Bridget Jones.
The phone box incident and the "gay denial" were classic!!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Any guy with wife+young kids will find this book hilarious
The long tunnel you enter when having one or more small children enter your life -- those bipolar first 1-5 years -- are shocking for a lot of people. Read more
Published on April 6 2003

5.0 out of 5 stars Hilariously Funny!
Have you ever wondered how others make it through the day? Well, John O'Farrell answers that question, and others, with hilarious, sardonic wit. Read more
Published on Dec 19 2002 by Kathleen Funkey

4.0 out of 5 stars Good stuff
This is a thin novel, and not the deepest thing you'll ever get your hands on. But it's well written, poignant, simply hilarious at moments, and it will keep you reading... Read more
Published on Oct 29 2002 by anonymous-pete

5.0 out of 5 stars Few books make you laugh out loud...
But... this is one. Featuring English humour at its most incisive and similar to, but even better than, Nick Hornby's "High Fidelity", "The Best a Man Can Get" surrounds a clever... Read more
Published on Aug 8 2002 by nicjaytee

4.0 out of 5 stars Family values surprise
Songwriter Michael Adams has the perfect life. A beautiful wife ; two wonderful children and a third on the way ; and the best of both single and married life. Read more
Published on Jun 26 2002 by Your librarian

5.0 out of 5 stars Another Undiscovered Gem From Britain
Like Nick Hornby and Tony Parsons, John O'Farrell can be added to the list of hilarious British authors who make the idea of children and fatherhood painfully real and side... Read more
Published on Jun 16 2002 by Brett Benner

5.0 out of 5 stars One of the best books I have ever read!
I enjoyed the book so much that I felt lost when I finished reading it. As a mother of two young children, I could understand what the characters were experiencing. Read more
Published on Jan 22 2002

5.0 out of 5 stars If you are about to get married, or are considering it....
you must read this book. For women, it can be very enlightening, and men will see much of themselves in the main character. It is very funny, but also very thoughtful. Read more
Published on Dec 28 2001

5.0 out of 5 stars The 'Male' Bridget Jones Diary
If your girlfriend wonders why you spent so much time talking about, cars, sport, football and she laughed out loud reading Bridget Jones, then you must read this book. Read more
Published on Oct 16 2001 by david guest

5.0 out of 5 stars A Fun Read
I finished The Best a Man Can Get last night. This book book had shades of High Fidelity only with the main character dealing with kids and marriage. Read more
Published on Sep 1 2001 by Kris S. Thompson

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