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The Thief of Happiness: The Story of an Extraordinary Psychotherapy
 
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The Thief of Happiness: The Story of an Extraordinary Psychotherapy (Paperback)

by Bonnie Friedman (Author)
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From Publishers Weekly

Transference that alchemy of the psychotherapy session, with all its drama and inscrutability is the subject of Friedman's engrossing second book. Here, the author of Writing Past Dark (about the emotional aspects of the writing process) examines in minute detail her treatment with Dr. Harriet Sing (a pseudonym). Like the poet H.D. (Tribute to Freud), Friedman entered therapy for writer's block. After two weeks, she found herself writing her first book. As a result, she identified Sing as the source of her inspiration, and an intense infatuation resulted: "Little mattered now beside Harriet Sing. Everyone else was merely metaphoric." Friedman emerged confident in her identity as a writer only after seven years of intense self-scrutiny with Sing. By then, the therapist's role had evolved into something far more ambiguous, and it is here that readers may come to understand what really goes on between therapist and patient. Friedman refers to Sing as a "thief of happiness." Though at times self-indulgent (as when the author veers off into half-articulated, dreamy memories, the book is excellent in the way H.D.'s is: it illuminates the intricate, murky relationship between therapy and real life, the ways in which, as the author quotes Adam Phillips, "in one's relationship with the analyst one unwittingly relives and thus discovers one's emotional history." Friedman is at her best when relaying the delicately nuanced exchanges that occur between the patient and therapist. "I can't be in treatment and be happy," she tells Sing. "That's a very interesting assumption," Sing replies. Agent, Malaga Baldi. (Jan. 17)Forecast: Fans of Friedman's first book will certainly like this one, and writers interested in the therapeutic process as a way to ease their block will enjoy it, too. With the right publicity campaign, the book could, like Anne Lamott's Bird by Bird, develop a cult following.

Copyright 2001 Cahners Business Information, Inc.

--This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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This eloquent, stream-of-consciousness case study of psychotherapy entangles the reader from the first page. A patient in therapy for seven years, Friedman (Writing Past Dark: Envy, Fear, Distraction, and Other Dilemmas in the Writer's Life) portrays her thoughts and feelings during the process of analysis through exquisitely painted word-pictures. She shows how she recovered from her writer's block and achieved new levels of self-confidence through what felt like an almost magical process. At the same time, she leaves the reader confused about what's really happening and certain that this woman is seriously helpless and disturbed. As years go by and her relatively normal life continues, Friedman begins to fear that she is dependent on the therapy itself. The analyst would no doubt say that her recovered sense of self was the result of therapy, but Friedman portrays the analyst as the thief who kept her dependent and unhappy for so long. An intriguing book for large public or medical libraries; no notes or index. Margaret Cardwell, Christian Brothers Univ. Lib., Memphis
Copyright 2001 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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1.0 out of 5 stars Zero Stars Was Not An Option, Jun 24 2003
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Now that Bonnie Friedman has successfully completed therapy, hopefully this review will not bother her. Sitting in with Friedman and her therapist Dr. Sing for almost the entire 274 pages is tedious at best. The book is an extremely thorough and intelligent demonstration of the therapy process. However, to those unfamiliar with the therapy process, this book will likely come across as very self-absorbed and whiney, fostering the stereo-type that those in therapy are self-centered individuals who spend time blaming their issues on others. The book is also painfully detailed. For instance, descriptions of the four-hour car journey to the therapist's office left me feeling like I was driving the four hours. Spend your money on therapy, not this book!!!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Absolutely compelling and beautiful, April 5 2003
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Bonnie Friedman's book is mesmerizing in its honesty about the "warts and all" experience of an intense psychotherapy. She has the strength and courage to write about the details that matter in the patient-therapist relationship: how everything becomes imbued with emotion, from the bottoms of one's own feet to the pictures on the wall of the therapist's office. She turns such seemingly tiny moments into a page-turning narrative. Her prose is beautiful, her insights surprising, and again, always so honest. I am grateful to the author for putting this book into the world.
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5.0 out of 5 stars astonishing evocation of the inner life, Sep 27 2002
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Having just finished devouring *The Thief of Happiness* in a few compulsive bites, I am amazed. Friedman manages to evoke (with astonishing precision and illumination) the shifting, ephemeral, intriguing, enchanting, dismaying grace notes and dissonances of the inner life, as we change and grow. While ostensibly and in fact about the process of therapy, it also illuminates any enthusiastic and turbulent process of self-discovery. In an era when so much of our attention is concentrated on the pragmatic outer world, this is a fresh and genuine achievement. Over and over I thought of Randall Jarrell's poem "Seele im Raum;" similarly, albeit over a far longer period, Friedman manages to capture how fleeting thoughts and feelings can arise and rule one's life--and then pass away like a strange fever dream. Her critical eye is always open; even when she is showing you fabulous magical moments of insight, she also lets you see that those moments will dissolve. I am in awe. The book should find an enthusiastic word-of-mouth fan base in book groups, psychology classes, literary circles, and everywhere else that people care about our spiritual and emotional growth.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Hits the nail on the head
Finally, a gifted writer conveys exactly what powerful therapy is really like! So many millions of people have been telling their secrets in darkened offices in pursuit of... Read more
Published on Feb 22 2002

1.0 out of 5 stars Utter waste of time
Bonnie Friedman is certainly a lyrical writer, perhaps her descriptive talents are more suited to works of fiction than non-fiction. Read more
Published on Feb 18 2002

5.0 out of 5 stars Read This Book
I was a little scared to read this book, afraid that it would inhabit the realm of Too Much Information. Read more
Published on Feb 5 2002

3.0 out of 5 stars Overwritten
A fairly interesting read, and Friedman CAN write when she wants to, but this book really could have used some tight editing. Read more
Published on Feb 3 2002

5.0 out of 5 stars Beautiful!
I appreciate Bonnie's courage and generosity in opening up her heart. This is a sad story, but exquisitely and subtly told. Read more
Published on Jan 23 2002

1.0 out of 5 stars Waste of Time
I was so looking forward to reading this book, but I was disappointed beyond belief. I feel that Friedman spent more time in an extremely descriptive free association of her life... Read more
Published on Jan 22 2002

5.0 out of 5 stars Extraordinary, indeed-Astoundingly honest and brilliant tale
Ever since Bonnie Friedman wowed audiences with WRITING PAST DARK -- which remains one of the finest books about the whole writing experience ever written (and destined to become... Read more
Published on Jan 17 2002

5.0 out of 5 stars WOW! A Compulsive Read
Bonnie Friedman has the uncanny ability to take intimatica (that's a word I just made up, meaning "the most personal information a person can reveal about him or... Read more
Published on Jan 11 2002

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