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Say When [Audiobook] [Unabridged] (Audio Cassette)

by Elizabeth Berg (Author), David Colacci (Reader)
3.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (36 customer reviews)
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Husbands frequently tune out their spouses, but Frank Griffin makes valiant attempts to ignore Ellen, his wife of 10 years, when she announces she has a lover and wants a divorce in this endearing, undemanding novel by Berg (True to Form, etc.). Griffin (he goes by his last name) struggles to hold on to his normal life-namely his house and his eight-year-old daughter, Zoe-while repairing his relationship with Ellen. Refreshingly, Berg tells the story from Griffin's point of view: he refuses to leave home, insisting that he and Ellen live as roommates, and tries to wear her down with small acts of kindness. A decent man and a good provider, Griffin is also-he comes to realize-a less-than-exciting partner at times, dismissive of his wife's attempts to get him to read poetry and see art movies, or try anything new at all. Eccentric, shy Ellen, an isolated, stay-at-home mother whose only friend is the waitress at her regular diner, has her own flaws. In trying to live out her adolescence 20-plus years too late, she flaunts her new romance in ways that evoke either disdain or pity for her na‹vet‚. Some readers may feel she gives up her quest for more freedom too quickly; others will appreciate the way she explores her complicated feelings about her marriage. Griffin, meanwhile, makes changes, too, trying a stint as a shopping mall Santa and winning a few dates. Berg has a talent for dialogue, and her skillfully crafted interactions between characters-scenes with tomboy Zoe are always a bright spot-are homey and convincing. These days, separation and divorce are commonplace, but a book that treats those subjects with Berg's tenderness and understanding is not.
Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.


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When Frank Griffin's wife, Ellen, leaves home for another man, Griffin's shock, anxieties, and deep sense of betrayal are chronicled in Berg's meticulous prose. David Colacci's performance allows Griffin to grow from a man who can't find his kitchen into a man who can manage his house and daughter as competently as his wife did. Colacci outlines Griffin's early spiteful behaviors toward Ellen with painful honesty, and he brings conviction to Griffin's growing awareness of his part in the disintegration of their marriage. Perhaps things work out too neatly in the end, but novelist Elizabeth Berg has created a tender, truthful look at an ordinary marriage in turmoil. David Colacci's reading captures the wry, self-deprecating humor that makes us believe it. S.J.H. © AudioFile 2003, Portland, Maine-- Copyright © AudioFile, Portland, Maine --This text refers to the Audio CD edition.

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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars Disappointing, Jun 4 2004
By Patricia Kay "author and avid reader" (Houston, TX United States) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Say When: A Novel (Paperback)
This was a fascinating book in many ways. I love Berg's writing and I liked many things about this book, but I couldn't rate it higher because I didn't believe in these people. I liked Frank and I felt bad for him, but I wanted to smack him for allowing Ellen to indulge her immature behavior. And I wanted to shake her for being so immature and self-centered and selfish. On the plus side, even a less-than-wonderful book by Berg is better than the best other writers can produce. Still, I'd recommend waiting for the paperback before plunking down a big chunk of cash for the hardcover.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Marital struggles seen through the husband's eyes, Mar 9 2004
By Beth Cholette "doctor_beth" (Upstate NY USA) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Say When: A Novel (Hardcover)
Elizabeth Berg is a master at telling stories of family drama, and Say When is one of her best books. At the start of the novel, Griffin suspects that something is going on with his wife, Ellen, a sometimes odd woman with a tendency towards sadness. However, he is stunned when she informs him that she his having an affair and wants a divorce. When Griffin refuses to leave the house, they suddenly find themselves negotiating the care of their 8-year old daughter, Zoe, while living as merely roommates.

The fact that the story is told from the husband's point of view is refreshing, as is the fact that there are no bad guys here--both Griffin and Ellen are nice people who have made some mistakes. Furthermore, both are good parents to Zoe, and their interactions with their child are completely realistic as well as touching. In the midst of his domestic turmoil, Griffin gets a job as a mall Santa during the Christmas season, and his conversations with his many young visitors also ring true. The plot is simple yet never predictable, easily engaging the reader in a comfortable way. Overall, this is a delightful little book about marriage, family life, and second chances.

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4.0 out of 5 stars Just wish that I had liked Ellen...., Feb 7 2004
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This review is from: Say When: A Novel (Hardcover)
I enjoyed this book and was relieved at the outcome, but I found that I could not 'like' Ellen. I thought that she was a rather selfish character and though Frank was not always a good guy, my empathy was more often than not with him. I wonder what would have happened if Frank had done as asked initially and left? Most of my sympathy went to Zoe and Donna....you'll know who I mean when you read it! All in all a very good book.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Wake Up Call for People Contiplating Divorce
Characters are very real. It sheds light on a common cause for divorce: immaturity.
Published on Jul 10 2004 by Jeffery A. Lewis

4.0 out of 5 stars Great read
If you think you've read all the novels you can about family and divorce, think again. Ms. Berg manages to tell the unfolding story of a couple dealing with separation, and does... Read more
Published on April 16 2004 by maya_bear

5.0 out of 5 stars Pathology of a Marriage
When Ellen has an affair and wants a divorce, Griffin is (dishonestly) surprised. Zoe, the pampered and loved child is all that matters any more. Read more
Published on Dec 13 2003 by Mamalinde

4.0 out of 5 stars This one hits close to home...
Not in my own marriage- but with several friends' marriages. When did they start drawing apart, one becomes complacent with how things are while the other wants more- "the... Read more
Published on Dec 9 2003 by janlouise

3.0 out of 5 stars Berg doing what she does best
This is a somewhat unusual book. What might normally be told from the wife's point of view: her feelings of unappreciation, feeling suffocated, needing out, etc. Read more
Published on Nov 21 2003 by Alicia Cathers

3.0 out of 5 stars 3 1/2 Stars: Show Me
People sometimes marry someone who reminds them of their father or mother. This is not a problem I would think if for one thing said parent was a good person and secondly once... Read more
Published on Nov 11 2003 by MICHAEL ACUNA

4.0 out of 5 stars Say Yes to This Book
I found myself really caring about the small Griffin family in this endearing and honest book. Husband Frank has to learn through upheaval that he's been smugly self-involved... Read more
Published on Oct 28 2003 by linda ann olson

3.0 out of 5 stars Say Something
Griffin is happy in his marriage and actually enjoys the routine of his life. He knows his wife is having an affair, but chooses to ignore it rather than respond to it. Read more
Published on Oct 1 2003 by Cinnamon Girl

4.0 out of 5 stars ~ Say When ~ ( When )
I kept seeing this at the book store and every time I had it in my hands, but for some reason I would put it back, I saw this at the library and decided to read it and I am glad... Read more
Published on Sep 12 2003 by Lisa

4.0 out of 5 stars Refreshing & well written
I recently discovered Elizabeth Berg and am making my way through her works. I enjoy her perspective and Say When was no exception. Read more
Published on Sep 6 2003 by MO Mom of 3

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