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The Man Who Would Be Dad (Hardcover)

by Hogan Hilling (Author)
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When Hilling, an instructor of expectant fathers and the founder of several Orange County fathers' networks, held his newborn son for the first time, it felt "awkward and anticlimactic." Only a few years later he was a stay-at-home dad devoted foremost to nurturing his three sons. In the brief, impressionistic vignettes that make up this tome, Hilling describes how he learned to be a father, shares stories about his kids and offers advice for other dads who may feel nervous or confused about their roles in their children's lives.
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In this lovingly inspirational book, Hogan Hilling tells the story of how he became the father he is today. Written in lyrical vignettes, Hogan passes along wisdom and humor in the stories he tells about being a stay-at-home father for his three sons, one of whom is severely handicapped. Hogan is completely genuine in his desire to be the best dad he can be and to help other dads achieve this too.
Hogan Hilling is a father, first, last, and foremost. He co-founded the Fathers Network of Orange County and Camino Dads in Action, and for many years was an instructor for Boot Camp for New Dads, a program for expectant fathers. He is currently developing a Proud Dad program in cooperation with Los Angeles hospitals and local businesses. For his dedication to strengthening California families, then California Governor Pete Wilson honored Hogan with the 1995 Courage to Care Award. Parents and Kids magazine also honored Hogan with the June 1995 Parent-of-the-Month award. He recently appeared on the âOprah Showâ in an episode about fatherhood and will be appearing on âThe Other Halfâ later this year. He writes regularly on fatherhood for the Orange County Register.

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Cloth, 1-892123-95-9, 180 pp., 6x6, $19.95

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1.0 out of 5 stars Did we read the same book???, Feb 24 2004
By Jallen (Oregon, USA) - See all my reviews
First clue that this would be a book I wouldn't like; the "star" in the upper left of the cover states "A Gift Book for Dads". That's publisher code for "There's no way in heck a dad would buy this for himself".

One reviewer said, "...it was a quick read..." That's because there is practically no text to this book. Some pages consist of only two sentences (using "See Dick run" size text, to boot!).

Speaking of pages...I guess I needed to read the physical description of the book more closely. Anyone else notice the size of the book? I didn't until it arrived. It looks like one of those little books you used to buy in grade school for fifty cents.

Now to content... There isn't any. Well, that's not totally fair. The content is the same stuff you have between your ears...common sense. If you like reading bumper stickers of the "Visualize World Peace" variety, then by all means, buy this book!

As a relatively newly minted Stay At Home Dad (SAHD), I found Mr. Hogan's book to be of little value. Mr. Hogan hits every obvious point about fathering. I guess there might be men out there that might get value from this book. They are the ones that put a "This side up" sticker on their child's head, though.

In conclusion, there are sooooo many better resources out there than this book. I expected more for the price. Talk to your county/state Family Services offices. Hit the web and look up info on SAHD's (or SAHM's). The info and resources you need are out there.

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5.0 out of 5 stars A great book for any Dad!, Jul 16 2002
By Roland M. Vieira (Seattle, WA USA) - See all my reviews
Hogan,
>
> I received and read your awesome book on Dads - Thank you! In my house I
am
> a major player in raising my two girls. At times, I am the major parent,
> and, well, this is good. I enjoy my role as their father, and when I get
> physically tired, I tell myself this is a good kind of tired, because I
know
> this is what I need to do now, and my being a loving, patient parent who
can
> provide structure for my girls, will greatly benefit them later on. Being
> the best dad I can also help me grow, and reading your book helped
reinforce
> this benefit.
>
> I enjoyed the sincerety of your stories. It was clear these came from
your
> heart. I also enjoyed the realness of your stories. Some were just about
> simple events that happened to you and your boys. No glamorous frills to
> spice up your book. The realistic tone in the narrative provided all the
> appeal needed to keep my reading.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A View of Fatherhood from a Female Perspective, Jun 25 2002
By Sally von Zirngibl (San Diego, CA USA) - See all my reviews
This very readable book should not be missed. It is both entertaining and educational. Hogan Hilling writes with sensitivity, understanding and a sense of humor on the topic of fathering three sons. He illustrates the importance of really listening to your children and viewing life through their eyes. In a time of hustle and hassle, we need more material written that honors the family. As an educator, I have recommended this book to many parents, not only fathers. It makes a great gift to all fathers or fathers-to-be.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Hogan Hilling - The Man Who Would Be Dad
This is an excellent book for fathers and fathers-to-be. I enjoyed reading Mr. Hilling's accounts of his feelings and emotions of becoming a father, the learning experience of... Read more
Published on Jun 16 2002 by Regina Clemmer

5.0 out of 5 stars A Glimpse into the World of an At Home Dad
In his book, Hogan is able to share many of the unique experiences, issues, and concerns that one faces as an At Home Dad. Read more
Published on May 30 2002 by abbajl

5.0 out of 5 stars A Warm-Hearted Look at Fatherhood.
Hogan Hilling, author of The Man Who Would Be Dad, provides an insightful and humorous look at the day to day challenges of raising children. Read more
Published on May 25 2002 by Anthony

5.0 out of 5 stars Celebrating the joys of fatherhood
This book is a beautiful reflection of one man's journey into fatherhood. Through very personal and candid reflections on the day to day joys and challenges of being a stay at... Read more
Published on May 22 2002

5.0 out of 5 stars Learning One Mans' Dad Journey
I needed to read this book to help my two young sons understand what is is to be a father to their children. Read more
Published on May 21 2002 by sherdm

4.0 out of 5 stars Touching and insightful
This book is a quick read and well worth it. It contains many great moments of what it is to be a father, and the thoughts that many of us have. Read more
Published on May 9 2002 by larsentk

5.0 out of 5 stars Perfect Gift for the Man in Your Life!
What a lovely story! Hogan Hilling writes of the journey he took from being a nervous, detached first time father to a full time, stay at home dad who has appeared on "Oprah,"... Read more
Published on May 9 2002

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