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Content by K. Hemmer
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Reviews Written by K. Hemmer "kathehemmer2" (Syracuse, NY United States)
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5.0 out of 5 stars
How Easily we are All Linked in this World, Jun 27 2004
For a first book by an author,this is very good.The only objection I had,was the style of the linked characters each telling their story.I thought it jumped around in the beginning and I had to go back and check their status,with each chapter. That said,the story draws you into the failed romance of Dr. Fran Wren,a New York City physician,and her failed medical mistakes.Franny decides to leave her fiance,and return to her roots in Waco,Texas. Outside of Waco,is a women's prison where Franny's Uncle,Dr. Wren,spent some of his time attending to the patients.Dr. Jack Wren,dies suddenly and Franny is asked to temporarily take his place. Reluctantly,Fran agrees to treat the women,some who are on Death Row.The women she finds herself assigned to are distinguished by names like Satan Killer,The Black Widow,(a serial bride who poisoned her husbands), and Karen,who is HIV-positive,and sentenced to die. Karen was terribly abused by men all her life-but she also took innocent life and that is debated in this book,along with Capital punishment. It ends with almost an O.Henry ending,impossible to guess. I hope Ms. Ward writes more books.I am waiting
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You Can't Change a Miller Into a Butterfly, Jun 21 2004
Mrs. Bosley presents this small,but remarkable book to help others.Mainly parents who may not be aware of certain difficulties encountered when adopting an older child,or one who was hard to place in a family. Rather,than scare adoptive parents,I think this will enlighten them.They will be quicker to ask for help with a child with an Attachment Disorder,and Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. Mrs. Bosley regrets some of the old-fashioned advice regarding her daughter.She wishes she listened to a Mothers instinct and held her during tantrums,although she was told to let the chid work it out. Education was stressed,and the importance of a diploma. But a child who never develops social skills is at a total loss in our society,where first you must communicate and understand other people. Anna was probably given more than her adoptive mother realizes. I thought it was miraculous Mrs. Bosley's marriage held together,and her older sons remained unscarred by the upheavel of bring Anna into their midst. Futher,I commend the telling of this story,so another family will not feel they have failed.She continues to be an advocate and facilitator of a support group for other parents whose chidren have this double diagnosis. I hope she lets us know how Anna continues in her Adult life,if there is progress with age and training.
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5.0 out of 5 stars
This is an Author,I am Glad I Discovered, Jun 16 2004
Laura,a middle-aged woman,who makes quilts as a work/hobby,(hence the title)comes from an average middle class family,or so she has thought.She returns to her homestead,where her father has become hospitalized. Laura has a brother Steve,and a sister Caroline,a moody woman. Neither daughter has been close to their beautiful mother,or to each other over the years. A family secret-created so the children will not know the suffering in the family,has been slowly destroying this family. Once you begin reading you cannot put this book down, until you see how the situation is resolved. At times,your mind plays tricks on you and you are unsure yourself,how to deal with the raw, overwhelming emotions of Laura,Caroline,and their Mother. Laura's husband Pete is able to put a compassionate look on the situation and offer advice from a distance.This is beneficial to Laura. In the end,it will be up to the children and the parent,to settle an old score that left some members damaged.
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1 of 2 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars
This is A Great Book that Must be Read and re-Read, May 30 2004
Each time I pick up this book to read,I find more mystery and symbolism.There is the story of Orleanna,and Nathan,her husband.This plays a big part.Then there are the four sisters,different as sisters always are in any family. I believe the author used the sisters'different stories to show us their growing pains along with the great struggle of Africa,itself. I remember the events of 1960,when I was a young girl in school.Daily they were published as these nations,who were formerly under European colonialism asserted them-selves into the modern world. After my third reading and reflecting, I wanted to ask the author,if she was showing us Africa through the missionaries' daughters. Take self absorbed Rachel,with her white blonde hair, yearning for Breck special formulated shampoo,while Congolese chidren are starving within feet of her. It was only natural she would find a haven in South Africa during apartheid.She left her Family,but she never left Africa. Leah,the dominant twin,who admires her missionary Father, (the most narrow dominerring man around)she embraces Africa,wholeheartedly,to the point of marrying a sweet Congolese teacher and bearing his sons.She names her little sons the names of rebel men.She exults in her hunger and poverty,(but I found her tone judgmental.) She too is tied to Africa,forever. Adah,the next twin,told she was deformed at birth,is quite a genius.She watches and absorbs Africa.Usually ignored,she invents her own language,when not reciting Emily Dickensian's poems.She returns with her Mother to Georgia,where a neurosurgeon cures her of her handicapped way of walking.She is proud of her normalacy In private,she locks the door and returns to her crippled walk. Is she cured emotionally ?She is a Dr. specializing Tropical studies for Africa.She too carries Africa in her blood. First,going forward in her physical progress,then retreating to the old ways,so like the Congo she left. Next,lovable little Ruth May.She too never leaves Africa. For a different reason. There is so much to think about.Those were my thoughts without revealing this fascinating story.I believe the author was expressing more, and this is an undertone in the Novel. It is like the old saying.A Novel is like an iceberg,you read the 10% that is showing,and beneath lies 90% of the unseen story.
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9 of 9 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars
They say you can't judge a Book by it's Cover, but I did., May 15 2004
I knew from the cover this would be a book to indulge my senses.The small house pictured with a white couch, with a black embrodiered pillow,centered in the middle along with a vintage candolier drew me in. Every page has a treat for the eyes.White panelled walls,stone walls,and small white beadboard in the bathroom's.A beautiful blue fabric couch centered in an old-fashioned three window setting.Simple but elegant. It shows some new cottage rooms,some a combination: Vintage with new,and some with more vintage style. There is a smorgasbord for every type of decorating, and true appeal for every age group.Some very talented designers left their mark in the rooms. I keep going back to this book for ideas and just pleasure.It helps me to relax. Some fascinating finds were the gothic arches for book storing.Also,the crisp white porches with pillars, that seem to be making a comeback.Hoorah! Their were multiple bathroom choices allowing you a different vision. The flea market style in this book was above what is usually associated with the words flea market. It is used successfully because the objects found have such potential. At the end,are shown easy displays to copy if you are starting out,and don't quite know what to do to achieve a personal look.
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5.0 out of 5 stars
A Talented,Caring,Elegant Woman and Mother, April 28 2004
Audrey Hepburn chose to never write her autobiography because she was afraid of offending someone inadvertandly by careless revelations. Her son,Sean,writes a loving tribute of this lovely lady whose beauty shines through on every page,as it did in her films.Films such as "The Nun's Story",the musical "My Fair Lady"and Truman Capote's "Breakfast At Tiffany's." He also writes of how important his Mothers'work in UNICEF became to her,in her later years,and in turn to himself. Audrey was born in Holland and during World Warll she suffered from malnutrition, brought on by a diet consisting of tulip bulbs and water.She often went without food all day.After the war ended,she was a beneficiary of UNICEF. She understood the chidren of the Third World and their suffering better than many celebrities. In many ways,it is refreshing to read of Ms.Hepburn from her eldest son's point of view.(Audrey had a younger son she adored named Luca Dotti)from her second marriage. This is a true love story. For any woman who admired Audrey Hepburn,this is a perfect Mother's Day Gift.For anyone,this is a gift and the proceeds go to the "Audrey Hepburn Children's Fund."
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A Book to Read About Adoption (Open), Feb 15 2004
This is a Novel but the characters have such strong person- alities, you are drawn into the story. Sara,fifteen years old an honor student,who falls for the tough guy.The type of boy no mother wants her girl to date. The adoptive parents, Eva and George who literally adopt young Sara before her baby's birth,but whose feelings change when they must deal with her strong emotions after her daughters'birth.Jack and Abby,young Sara's parents, who ache when they see their daughter hurt,and want her baby. There are no enemies here. Just a lot of good people, who while trying to do the right thing,manage to hurt each other. Over the process of many years,Anne,the adopted baby grows up,the open adoption having failed.The adoptive parents moved away and somehow failed to tell Anne about her adoption. Anne is a teenager when she finds out her situation and feels betrayed by all. This sets all the earlier problems in motion again. However,the birth mom,Sara,is older and wiser.So are the other people involved in Anne's drama.Although,Anne re-awakens their pent up emotions.The earlier turbulance is handled in a more mature way. This is a book you don't want to end.It would be great to have a sequel.
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5.0 out of 5 stars
I was never Aware How Many Ways Country could be Described., Jan 15 2004
I would call chic country,a place that is relaxing, renewing and comfortable,as the author shows in so many different ways. First is,Blue and White Country.These are ageless colors that represent the sky, water and purity.This can be attained without a beach house purchase.Combine blue and white on a shelf.Whitewash old bricks.Keep areas with blue and white pristine clean and they will be a comfort. Second, Patriotic Country.It is very popular now and old fashioned toys,flags, and pewter all reflect God and Country, and a certain sense of individulism.Not for everybody but attractive,nontheless. Cottages by the sea,look stunning with minimal blue and white.Wicker chairs in brown or white,this is the third choice. Next,Formal Country,a type rarely seen.This appeared to be Spanish or Western,with hand carved furniture and dark beamed ceilings.A close relative of mine built a summer home in the 1920's.It had carved Vic- torian furniture and imported candlesticks.It was a combo of Tudor-Spanish with Jacobean furniture and heavy lead paned windows.As with many families,it became the permanent dwelling after the Depression. Next,a change with Eclectic Country,drawn from many good sources,especially Collector Style.It tends to balance us in our high-tech civilazation.The best is usually drawn and compatable. Harmonious groupings of ironstone dishes mixed with unique quilt squares.Rustic Country,is what most people have in mind, when you say Country.Birdhouses,recycled items,weathered wood and vintage items.Very likeable section,Collectors Style. I personally liked the arragement of the Family photos on one wall.All in different frames they tell a family history,instead of the new all black frames so popular now. It also show how to group them with effect.Many other retro collections are shown to advantage. Lastly,is decorating with White, where you can never go wrong.White rooms with cedar brown beamed ceilings that lift the eye.Vintage white iron headboard and nostalgic birds and birdhouses.Plain white mirrors in a bathroom.And of course lace pearls and strewn white roses.Who could co wrong with this. Every time, I look at this book I find more examples of what I missed.In its' own way,this book tells a history of my America.
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0 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars
An Answer" To My Marriage To a Borderline ", Jan 8 2004
In an earlier review,I wrote it was wrong for the young Anthony,a medical student to consider dating Michelle, another Dr.'s patient.I was fully aware she was not his patient.However,in Nursing School and other professional fields a six month period out of the medical or psychiatric Hospital must elipse,before you date a patient.I blame Anthonys'superiors for giving the go ahead.I now question whether this is still taught to students. Patient's are at their weakest and most vulnerable in the hospital.I have seen two persons fired on the spot for disobeying this rule.Case closed.
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5.0 out of 5 stars
Sickened and Painfully Recovered, Nov 1 2003
This is the saddest book of child abuse I have read since Christina Crawford wrote " Mommie Dearest " a quarter of a century ago.It was written by Julie Gregory so eloquently,I could not put it down. Julie's mother convinces her, that she ( Julie )is an invalid and must take medications like attenlol 25mg.,for her heart.The medications make Julie feel sick and tired most of the time.Sometimes the dose is doubled according to her mother ((Sandy's) whim.This is what Munchausen by Proxy is about.A caretaker,in this case the mother makes a helpless child suffer, in order to garner attention for herself and have re-affirmation from a Doctor in authority. It is the worse scenario of child abuse,because it goes unrecognized. The father,who has been diagnosed as schizophrenic,does not allow the mother to refer to their son,several years younger than Julie as sickly,and nearly kills her the one time she mistakenly does.This saves Danny some abusiveness. The children witness these savage fights. The family lives isolated in a trailer with concrete walls and additions.The mother takes in veterans and foster children,thereby making money for herself and wastes it on pairs of hundreds of shoes,for herself and lifesize ceramic animals for the trailer. The foster chidren are mistreated, and the mother encourages Julie also to physically hurt them-but Julie has human feelings and only pretends to.Her Mother thinks this will bind Julie to her,making them closer. Julie has no girlfriends,and the one time she did confide in a new friend,the results were disastrous.Her new friend did not believe her and dropped her after telling most of Julie's classmates, that Julie made up stories. By this time, Julie has reached her teen years.Her mother continues to make sure she is sickly,and has had a heart catherization performed on her. Sandy, then convinces a physician to do a deviated septum repair of the nose and to shape it less Roman.In other words, repair the septum,so she can breath, then for no reason improve her nose structure. Deviated septum repair is more painful than most people realize.People used to be hospitalized four days and it was a last resort for polyps and painful sinusitis. Most people decline having it done,when the procedure is described to them. I almost stopped reading at this point,but continued, after checking the picture of Julie on the back flap of her book. I did this several times to re-assure myself,that Julie survived her horrendous childhood. There is a great deal more to the story,but suffice it to say Julie survived this horrible Munchausen by Proxy. Through,educating herself,and staying away from the woman who was her mother,Julie states,she rose like a Phoenix from the ashes.After much time and therapy,she checks out Mama again, to convince herself,to look for change, for apology? Sandy,her mother,has adopted two children in Montana. Nothing has changed but location. Julie bravely saves their lives armed with her childhood files and evidence from Ohio's childrens services.Julie who has grown into a beautiful woman with an ethereal quality, has given us her story so we the public,and the professionals she teaches,are made aware of this insidious abuse of helpless children by their caretakers. Thank You,Julie,and may the rest of your life be better.
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