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The Game

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This is a fascinating tale of a guy with marginal skills with the ladies (despite fame), who sets out on a life changing mission to master picking up women. I dare you to try and not get hooked in the first few pages. The characters are philanderers, gigolos, wannabes, braggarts, and every dysfunctional category in between. Their quest is obvious, and thrust in your face; to sleep with as many beautiful women as possible. The author Strauss has written several best sellers, as well as for Rolling Stone, and literally has no competition when it comes to spinning tales of this type.

It a follow up email, Amazon recommend maybe ten books in this genre. I recommend picking up the best three. The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed, is written by the guru of the seduction community. His encyclopedia-like book reads like a PHD college course on getting laid; it lays out the techniques, terminology, and methodology that Strauss learns in the Game.

The other great one is The Professional Bachelor Dating Guide - How to Exploit Her Inner Psycho. This is a devious sexual persuasion guide for hooking up, written by a psych doc who cruised the nightclubs with great success for a decade. It also contains an asset protection guide to set up pre-marriage to shield you from divorce.

Get these three, and get ready to laugh and learn. Interesting, provacative books.

Several years ago, when I was fresh out of high school, I stumbled across a website by a guy calling himself Dr. Don; he was giving advice to hapless guys on how to be good with women. At this point in my life, I needed all the help I could get: I thought I was funny, but I wore goofy clothes, had a bowl cut and Harry Potter glasses, and, well, you get the point. I needed help, and when I did an internet search, I found a universe of knowledge on the subject on the net.

After reading the odd 'pickup line', I didn't really do much with it. I tried to work out, practice meeting people in public, being more outgoing, (eg. small talk with the barista at Starbucks, etc), but that's pretty much it. When I was wrapping up my Economics degree, I was still chatting up girls by asking them if they'd bought the textbook for their new courses yet. I'm dead serious. But while I was occasionally trying out a few pickup lines I'd read online (and doing everything wrong), a community was blossoming: an of pickup artists and wannabes, better known as the Seduction Community.

You may have heard of these guys. They wouldn't just post 'pickup lines' online, they would post entire texts (known as field reports), recount entire dates, or entire relationships online, trying to figure out where they'd gone wrong. The goal, usually, was to figure out how to get laid, using what ever means they could, legal, ethical, or otherwise. This book is basically one huge field report. Neil recounts his outings, and his innermost thoughts.

[Note: Field reports are actually a great idea, as long as they don't a) hurt people and b) embarass people. As long as there's a certain degree of anonimity and real names are not used, they can be very useful. In fact, the idea of putting them online and having others critique them, has proven to be very helpful, especially when those commenting are more experienced than yourself.]

Around this time, Neil Strauss, a pretty well-known reporter for The Rolling Stone, was asked to write about the community, but after reading up on it, he wanted to go deeper. He considered himself, if not Harry Potter, a skinny balding dweeb. He needed help. And he was going to be one of the world's first paying pickup students. The teacher was a tall, Vladish egomaniac named Erik. But there would be no names, the dweebs would have to reinvent themselves'their clothes, their hairstyles, their language, even their names. Everyone came up with their own PUA names. And Erik's was Mystery.

This book tells the story of Neil Struass' real life account of meeting Mystery, and going from 'average frustrated chump' to the world's best pickup artist (surpassing his teacher, according to some).

It struck me that while The Game has taken its share of arrows (namely, it's been demonized for the same things that Strauss demonizes the Community for in the book itself, ironically), it remains an extremely interesting account, a non-fiction wrapped in a great story with quirky characters that you won't soon forget. The last time I had anything close to that, was The Richest Man in Babylon, which I adored. Just think, why does Jon Stewart represent the best source of news for many Americans? Because on top of being smart and informative, he's actually super-funny and affable. And likewise, you can tune in to Jim Cramer's Mad Money, for some goofy, but very intelligent stock and investment advice.

You see? These days it's not just about being good, its about being good at marketing too.

But if we're going to demand that all non-fiction writers be super engaging and interesting, there's a risk, and that is, changing the content (or the facts) to make a more interesting story. In Neil's case, many have come out of the woodwork and argued that he characterizes certain people in this book (most of whose names you'll never hear, just PUA handles) unfairly, to make a more dramatic and hyperbolic story. In fact, Neil continues to run very expensive Pickup bootcamps to this day. Does that make him a hypocrite? Somewhat. Because if you ignore that fact, The Game is actually not a guide to picking up girls at all; it's actually a cautionary tale of what can go wrong when you try to fill your empty life (like an addict) with sex.

Like Neil, the best PUA's in the world are businessmen, they're entrepreneurs, selling largely the same skills that Mystery was hawking in online ads 10 years ago, making Neil Strauss' return on investment for the $500 weekend bootcamp about a billion percent.

So what's the moral of the story here? That girls are easy to manipulate if you know the right words? No way. The message is this: imitating someone who's interesting and has cool stories might work for a night, maybe a couple days but eventually as someone gets to know you more, meets your friends, they'll see who the real you is. And if they don't like what they see, they'll run. If you're going to put on a disguise, and pretend to be this 'zany goofy guy' with all these wild stories about stuff you never experienced, it's not really a shortcut to meeting women; it's work. Are we having fun yet?

Since The Game came out a few years ago, there's been a growing segment of the pickup Community called 'Natural Game'' that is.. instead of running around spouting rehearsed lines to every girl you meet (something that kids were doing in their training phase), you actually improvise on the spot, honestly and sincerely. Here's hoping you can talk about something more interesting than asking a girl about her textbooks.

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I've been in the community for a long time (www.seductionboard.com - courses and DVD's), and I've met a number of the people in the book. It's all true, although it's hard for Neil to tell everyone's story. An entertaining and engaging read nonetheless. Recommended.

These are quickly becoming my favorite books. Like others, I think it's interesting to compare the Game (Neil Strauss) and the System (Roy Valentine). I've read both books and think they are the best. Here is a summary:

The Game looks at the underworld of men in search of the sciences of seduction. The book is compelling as it shows the journey of the main characters as they learn and improve their skills in approaching and bedding women. It's an interesting book that is well written. It acts as a window to another world that most of us can only imagine.

The System focus is a 5-step process to pick up women in any situation. The steps are fairly simple and easy to follow and supported by examples throughout the book on how to use them to pick up girls the same day you meet them.

The System is primarily a seduction guide. The Game is about Strauss' adventure in the world of seduction. I would recommend both book for anyone interested in learning more about seduction or the world of seduction.

I was curious when i heard about this book, and a little skeptical at the same time. all of these books on seduction that have come out lately seem a bit tacky to me, so when i saw the title of the book, it turned me off a little. I read a few reviews online, and it was enough to peak my interest, so i ordered the book. I am quite glad i did. the book is not what i had expected at all. You follow the main character on an rollercoaster of a two year adventure. And it doesn't glorify the seduction community either. It's an incredibly entertaining peice of literature, and even has some interesting philosophies at times. i can honestly say i've never read another book like it. It's a book i would only recommend to guys though... i'm not so sure women would get as much from it. But guys, do yourself a favor, and read this book. it's interesting, it's entertaining, and somehow, it leaves you feeling better about yourself, in it's own curious little way

The author describes how his discovery of the secret underworld of pick-up artists leads him to transform himself from a geek to supposedly the world's greatest pick-up artist. The book reads very much like a novel, where the hero, named 'Style', undergoes a personal transformation to realize the errors of his ways (in more ways than one). There is even a villain in the story. The people in the book are so extreme (both men and women) that it is still hard to believe that these are real people and this is a real story. The deeper 'Style' gets into the pick-up world, the more outrageous the story gets. The book is quite funny too. You will not be able to put it down.

The Game has now become one of my favorite books. Why? Well, not only does this book give great tips for guys to be successful with women, but it is also a very good piece of literature. After you read the book you feel a sudden boost of confidence, as if you have just uncovered the hidden secret to picking up girls (His methods on how to get a manage trios is just unbelievable). I recommend this read to anybody who either wants a good confidence boost, or appreciates good literature. You can definitely not go wrong with buying this book.

Just out today and I can't put it down-already on Chapter 5--Wow! The guys are reading it and the women better read it too. It is an amazing book. I have been following this online community for several years no, and reading this book has filled in blanks and made the story and names so real and so very human.

Confused about women and what they want? Or just looking to pick up a few? Well, while I wouldn't say this book is "dating how to" book, there are things in here that can help with the ladies, I found some good tips. In the end, it's about how you apply it. Along with this one, I also recommend "Understanding Women" (Romy Miller). Great reading, tho.

Fascinating tale of a guy who despite having fame as a successful author, didn't secure the right ballsy attitude to get the ladies. (If you weren't aware, Strauss authored Jenna's autobiography, and his Motley Crue book The Dirt is phenomenal). Strauss' tale is a quest to get in panties, but ends up being a journey to find himself. How he gets there is by accident, and is accomplished by living vicarious through some seriously dysfunctional PUA's. Each character (who are all real) has enough quirks and weirdness to fill psych doc offices for months. As far as the overall theme of getting girls, while the results clearly work for these guys, you can't help noticing that they are slaying equally dysfunctional girls, who are easy prey to the techniques. But that's just fine. Most men chose nightclubs as their prime hunting grounds, so this book works. There are dozens of books in this genre, I think combining Brett Tate's Professional Bachelor with The Game will cover all the hunting grounds and various skills needed for any guy to be a serious player. Great stuff, and make sure you buy The Dirt too.