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The Blackwater Lightship

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The book arrived in 10 days in pristine condition. I was going to read and review it for a book club that I had recently joined but since it hadn't arrived in time for me to read it for the meeting I had to wing it. Totally my fault of course because I could have paid for a faster shipping but I chose the cheap way and had to wait. When it arrived I gobbled it up. I love the book, which is a delicious read. A trip to Ireland in the succinct descriptive writing of the author. I loved the dialogue of rich Irish vernacular and lilting cadence. A Chinese book club member who speaks English as a second language said that it was the only book she had ever read that could take her to the place of the story. So well done Colm.

Helen O'Doherty lives in Dublin with her husband and two sons. She is a school principal and set with her life. She is happy and even though she may be a bit more reserved in her marriage than her husband would like, all seems well. When school is over she and her hubby plan a large party in their new home to celebrate. Her husband and children will go the next day to visit relatives, and Helen will follow when she clears up her end of school issues. Helen worries about her life and her children. Are they too needy? Is it right that the youngest needs his parents so thoroughly? Helen seems to be a thoroughly modern woman of the 90's- ready to live her life. Helen's family is off and she is ready to go to school when a friend of her brother, Declan, arrives to tell her Declan is seriously ill and needs to see her. And so it goes.. Paul, Declan's friend tells her he has AIDS and has been ill for quite a while. He does not have a serious relationship right now, and he does need a place to go to recuperate. It is decided by Declan that he wants to go to Grandmother's house, but first, would Helen tell Grandmother and mom, Lily about his disease?
No small deed is this one...Helen has had an on -again off-again relationship with her mother and grandmother for years. In fact, she has only seen them at Christmas time, but neither was invited to her wedding nor have they met her family or children. How will she tell them, what will they say and how will they react? Oh, no, what to do...

Mom- Lily, Helen, Paul and Larry, Declan's friends all move into grandmother's house in a desolate spot on the ocean near the Blackwater Lightship. This place and house has particular meaning to the family-they were brought up here. Lily, the mom as a child; Helen and Declan when they father got sick and died and mom left them, or abandoned them, as Helen and Declan remember. This dysfunctional family now has a chance to reclaim their lost relationships. Paul and Larry are gay, as is Declan, and as they reveal their lives, the lives of the others come into semblance. The living and the dying , the coming and the going, the new and the old all take on extra meaning.

Colm Toibin has written a marvelous study of a family entwined in the everyday business of living and dying in his book "The Blackwater Lightship: A Novel". The relationships in this family are not unusual, but so well written in such a cleverly calm but studied manner. Colm Toibin's knowledge of the clinical process of AIDS is well revealed and accurate. You feel like you are in the midst of Declan's fevers and
pain and suffering. The judgment of being Gay and having AIDS in the 90's is explored and well written. This is a book of the ages- always timely, relationships explored, the pain and suffering of lost time with family well documented. A novel to learn from. Colm Toibin was on the short list for the Booker prize for
this novel. He is an author to be recommended- a writer of fabulous ability- to be enjoyed and thought about for days after the novel is finished. prisrob

I am part of a newly started book club. The novel "The Blackwater lightship" by Colm Tóibín (shortlisted for the Booker Prize) was chosen as the second book to read (my first - as I have just joined the club). The number of girls attending our dinners vary between 3 and 12, all Australian but me. As I joined late, my friend Rachael had already finished the book. She did not care too much for it, so I started out slightly biased to the book. But that quickly changed, and I hadn't read too many pages before I emailed Rachael and said "I really like this book!!"..

The story is set in Ireland in the early 1990'ies, and it starts as a stranger comes to Helen O'Doherty's house to tell her that her brother, Declan, is dying of AIDS. Helen rushes to visits Declan in the hospital in Dublin. Declan tells her that he would like to leave the hospital and spend some time at his grandmother's house by the sea. Helen and Declan spent a lot of time at their grandparent's house as children, but Helen worries that a dying grandson will be to much for their aging grandmother. Nevertheless, they go there, and they all end up living at Dora's place: Declan, Helen, Lily, and two of Declan's friends; Paul and Larry.

Helen and her mother Lily have a very distant and (on the surface of things) unemotional relationship. It really impressed me that a man has with such amazing authenticity been able to capture this complex mother-daughter relationship.

Although Declan is the one who is dying, the book is first and foremost about Helen and how she accepts and understand the past, forgives what was to forgive, and how she grow to be emotionally attached again to her mother Lily.

My favorite character from the book is by far the grandmother, Dora. She is an amazingly strong and strong willed woman. I love how she takes a taxi to town every Wednesday to go shopping, and do her things. I just fell in love with her. My favorite scenes from the book is when Paul is 'having a go' at Lily for not understanding anything - and Dora is on the sideline cheering for Paul. The second scene is when Larry is teaching Dora to drive. Absolutely fantastic!! The ending was lovely too, without being clichéd and predictable or sappy for that matter.

The author has an impressive ability to superbly develop characters. His writing style is in many ways similar to Hemingway, sparse but yet luminous. With "The Blackwater Lightship" Colm Tóibín has written a beautiful book. It's one of the finest explorations of a dysfunctional family I've come across. Highly recommended.

This book has only 288 pages, with its light touch and relaxing statement it can be read in one sitting. But this is a gem indeed. The atmosphere is superb. The story of this struggling family gives me a tranquil, distant, dark and somber ireland beach, with its wind blowing and wave rumbling. It's amazing.

And, come back home, the wounded one.

Toibin has written a sincere, moving account about family frictions and resolutions in a believable manner. It's not easy to do that. The ending was satisfying without being predictable or overly sentimental.

A personal favourite, THE BLACKWATER LIGHTSHIP is a frank, intelligent and always intense work. The novel is about self-examination, opening the closet, understanding the past and embracing the future. It begs you to forgive and forget, and try to see the past another way.

All six of this novel's major characters (Helen, Lily, Declan, Mrs Deveroux, Paul and Larry) are unforgettable, and most scenes created are memorable, and, at times, incredibly painful to read- the depiction of Declan's "mood", the coldness between Lily and Helen, the often irrational behaviour of Mrs Deveroux, the relationship between Cathal and Manus to cite a few.

The car scene with Helen, Lily and Declan would have to be my favourite. The narration of this scene is simply beautiful and emotional. Yes, it could be a bit sentimental, but it will surely touch and nourish your heart and soul. A rare, original dramatic moment.

(Written here also is the most memorable, sensitive account of a 'love that dare not speak' relationship)

Shortlisted for the 1999 BOOKER PRIZE (DISGRACE won), this is one novel you will surely treasure, value and enjoy. I can only recommend this unmissable work by Toibin.

Quite simply, Colm Toibin's "The Blackwater Lightship" is the finest novel or memoir I've read by a critically acclaimed Irish or Irish-American author. He has a subtle, magical way with prose that will keep you thinking about the tale long after you've finished reading it. I am not surprised that this splendid little novel was short-listed for the British Booker Prize. It's one of the finest explorations of a dysfunctional family I've come across. I strongly commend Toibin for having the determination and talent to write well about AIDS, and making it an important, and sympathetic, part of this tale.

"The Blackwater Lightship" is primarily about Helen and how she becomes emotionally attached again to her mother Lily, when they are confronted with the news that her brother Declan is dying from AIDS. The story moves swiftly from Declan's hospital ward in Dublin to the seaside home of Lily's mother Dora, so Declan can enjoy one last glimpse of the sea. The tale also revolves around Declan's two male friends and their relationship with his sister, mother and grandmother.

Colm Toibin's "Blackwater Lightship" is arguably the dark horse in this year's Booker Prize race. The three generation family drama at the heart of this deceptively slight novel may not set any sparks flying but chances are you'd still be thinking of it long after the story has ended and settled into a warm afterglow. Toibin is an unflashy writer. He aims straight for your heart and succeeds in a disarmingly off-the-cuff way. The opening chapters have a luminous quality about them that sets the tone for Helen's subsequent encounter with her mother (Lily) and grandmother (Dora). The event that brings three generations of feuding mothers and daughters together is Declan's terminal illness from AIDS. In caring for and trying to make peace with the dying Declan, they resolve their differences with each other in a chillingly unsentimental and cold eyed manner. Ironically, the characterisation of the three women at the centre of Toibin's novel are a little weak and indistinct compared to Paul and Larry (Declan's friends) who spring to life as the story unfolds. Declan, however, remains little more than a catalyst. His part is curiously underwritten. Tuskar Rock and Blackwater Lightship, two lighthouses out at sea, one still working, the other not, are deeply symbolic of the choices facing the feuding family members. They can either decide to close the chapter and get on with their lives or continue to nurse their wounds privately and watch them fester. The recurring image of the landslide eating into their neighbour's house is also a powerful metaphor for the corrosion of family relationships. "Blackwater Lightship" is a sensitive and quietly enduring piece of work that will surely touch you. The final chapters including an unlikely one with Helen and Paul baring their souls to each other, are absolutely devastating. This is literary fiction of the finest quality that deserves to be read. Not to be missed.

Mr. Colm Toibin addresses an event both common and simultaneously unique in, "The Blackwater Lightship". This book will not appeal to all, as the most extreme may deem the illness that will eventually kill the focus of the book, as something deserved. That the inevitable outcome that has resulted from this new affliction that has gone from unknown killer of a few to a worldwide life taking tragedy is still a stigmatized disease. Expanded outside the principal character in this book, a great irony is that action, which is one of the most basic necessities for the survival of any species, has also become a way to die.

A young man returns to his Grandmother's home. His condition is perilous and the secrets he has kept from his Family must now be coped with along with his frail health. That a tragedy can bring together estranged Family members is not new, however the Author brings together a wider group that is not just the traditional Family but a surrogate one as well. There are the inevitable clashes of those who have cared for him when there was no Family member to be found, his biological Family who feels these friends are intruders, and then the conflicts that have kept three generations of women apart for a decade. The resolutions that must take place so that a daughter will allow her mother to see her children for the first time in that decade, and meet her son in law for the first time as well.

The story is set in Catholic Ireland and deals with issues of non-traditional partners and the Catholic Church that are difficult, and will not be received well by those who hold with tradition. This was a gutsy book to write and well deserving of being short-listed for the prestigious, "Booker Prize". The Author is a very talented writer and even though some will pass his work by due to subject matter they are most certainly the losers. Literature may not always be comfortable to all who read it, readers may not agree with an idea, a theology, or a lifestyle. However to deprive oneself from a talented Author who discusses social issues for which beliefs are passionately held would be a loss. This is a wonderful book about extraordinary people.

Colm Toibin cuts straight to the heart in this sensitive novel of an independent daughter, long estranged from her overly controlling mother, and their attempt to reach some sort of understanding and level of communication. Daughter Helen and mother Lily are drawn to the neutral ground of Helen's grandmother's house in rural Ireland when Helen's brother Declan is gravely ill with AIDS and wants to return to the strand for a last look at the sea. Toibin is both straightforward and graphic in describing Declan's declining health and completely open in describing the romantic relationships of Paul and Larry, Declan's two gay friends who are also attending him at the cottage in Cush. But the focus of the story remains squarely on Helen and Lily and their long estrangement, so intense that Lily was never invited to attend Helen's wedding and, after seven years, still has not seen her grandchildren. In the crucible of Declan's sick room, those attending him are painfully aware of the tenuousness of life, and as they reach out to him with love, they share many of their innermost feelings and the stories that have shaped their lives.

In prose that is so simple and so controlled one wonders how it can possibly carry the weight of these emotion packed scenes, Toibin empathizes with Helen, a daughter whose mother failed to meet her emotional needs when she was a child, and then tried to overpower and control her when she became strong enough to stand on her own. At the same time, he explores Lily's competing needs and the limitations imposed on her by her husband's early death and her need to support her family both financially and physically.

The obvious symbolism of the lightship, the wave-washed strand, and the eroding headland on which the grandmother's cottage perches adds weight and universality to the crises facing the participants in this intense and poignant domestic drama. The involved reader will come away with new understandings of the need for connection, the essence of compassion, and the full meaning of love as the characters in this thematically complete novel find their resolutions.