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Orgasms: How to Have Them, Give Them, and Keep Them Coming

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The Big O. is a concise easy to read overview of human sexual response and how to get to the finish line. Lou Paget does an excellent job organizing and giving you all the information out in the world today about sexual release for men and women. This is her third book and written to both genders unlike her previous books which were written for gender specific.

In 260 pages Ms. Paget manages to give you 'The Big O' from conception to completion with some fun stuff in between. 'The Big O' will definitely bring you up to date on the physiological aspects of your important parts to achieve orgasm. Ms. Paget manages to do this with in the realm of education and not being crude.

She also touches on the very important aspect that [love making] begins in the head and the brain is the larges sex organ. She touches on the mental aspects of boredom, anxiety, and arousal.

There are chapters dedicated to both men and women were she describes the different and numerous kinds of orgasms available to both men and women. Both these chapters give you some very specific how to's on achieving orgasm. By far I would say those two chapters will hold your interest and you will want to experiment using some of her ideas unless you knew them already.

Of course no book written on the subject of sexuality is complete today with out a chapter on the medical concerns of [intercourse] today. Ms. Paget has two chapters one dedicated to discussing fitness, depression, desire, and menopause along with diseases that effect sexual response and outcome. She also has a chapter dedicated to sexually transmitted diseases.

Included in her book are chapters on Fun Stuff to try: aphrodisiacs, massage, aromatherapy, exercises, and other toys.

The book does an excellent job on describing mental and physical aspects of orgasm for men and women and touches on lots of other exciting ideas you might want to explore and expand future education. I enjoyed this book and learned a lot about the bodies of men and women and took some mental notes on the techniques offered in the book. Over all I would say this is a great book for your library.

One of the fun things in the book are the snippets of information through out the book titled Historical and hysterical facts and Secrets from Lou's Archives. You will get a giggle from some of these and some valuable information.

I would recommend this book to all.

This book has made the impossible possible. I, a man, would rather GIVE pleasure than receive. Now that is impressive...

I am the type of person who picks up any book about any subject and delves in, and this book was no execption. I received it as a gift, sat down and read the section on female orgasms, and since then the reaction from my lovers has been amazing. I have to admit, I have seen more pleasure given by me than I have recieved, reason being, my partners have been unwilling to take the time to read and reciprocate, which breeds some jealousy...but, that is another stort altogether. Simply, this book is just about all encompassing. There are sections on mental health, physical health, medications, dysfunctions and disorders, and of course, SO MANY techniques. Do you want to blow the mind of your lover? Read this book.

I am not a spokes person. I am not paid to write this. I am just encouraged by the sheer magnitude of orgasmic pleasure that this book has readily available to teach.

I only wish I had had this book when I was younger but even at 68 it has improved my life.

Like all of Lou Paget's books, this is an extremely helpful volume and a good read. Buy it!

I'm a huge fan of Lou Paget's other books: How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure and How to be a Great Lover (my girlfriend and I have the books and the tapes). This is what led us to buy the Big O, but we were disopointed. It's pretty much a rush job that seems to be a repeat of her last two books. Most of the same information is repeated, but phrased differently. It also dosen't cater to male orgasmims much at all. It's more of a guide for women in doing their part to help their man orgasim as opposed to helping men cultivate their own. Paget has a lot to teach and she has helped our sex life a lot, but this book wasn't all it was cracked up to be. If you've read her last two books and want to learn more, perhaps another writer with a different approach would be refreshing. But make sure you get her other two books first!

I can't say I live my life by it, but the book is informative and contains some interesting and humorous anecdotes, as well as tips and suggestions that I enjoyed. It may or may not rock your world, but it certainly won't do any harm! :)

I found this book to be very condescending in tone. The author tends to drive the same point home over and over...and over and over. (How many times do I need to be told that the mind is the most important sex organ? It sunk in after the first 5 times--I didn't need to be reminded in every chapter.)

The author tries to cover a lot of area, but doesn't provide depth in any of them. For example, when describing different sexual positions, she relies a great deal on illustrations to get the point across, and provides very little textual description to enhance your understanding.

There are much better sex guides available, I suggest you pass on this one. Take a look at The Guide to Getting it On instead.

Paget's book, though not literature by any means, provides a fascinating overview of the human orgasm. The author also provides walk-throughs of various techniques, some with illustrations, to spice up your love life, or for those solitary pursuits. A fun book to keep on your shelf -- just in case.

Lou Paget has done it again! She keeps putting information, exercises, and techniques together for men and women in a concise format that leads the reader (and their mate!) to MORE pleasure! I think ALL of her books should be REQUIRED reading for college! She has the knowledge and bibliography that manages to match many that I either own or have read over the years! If you want the latest on Orgasms and sophisticated loving-look no further! You GO Lou!

Lou is one of the very best writers on the subject of sexuality today. Her books are easy to follow, informative and lively! She tackles difficult issues in a way that everyone can put into practice right away. This is another "must have" book for great relationships!! Great job, Lou!