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Abba's Child: The Cry of the Heart for Intimate BelongingExpanded Edition New Preface and Discussion Guide by the Author

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It's been a decade since Brennan Manning wrote ABBA'S CHILD, and the book as a whole is every bit as fresh and powerful in the 21st century as it was in the 20th. In the intervening years, many Christian authors have added an "amen!" to Manning's message about the need for authenticity and vulnerability before God and other people. His, however, is one of those rare books that stands up to repeated readings. The addition of a thoughtful study guide, written by the author, should make this particular edition attractive not only to new readers but also to longtime fans.

Manning begins by beckoning Christians to come out of hiding, the place to which we retreat out of shame or guilt in the misguided belief that God is berating us as harshly as we are berating ourselves. In that place of hiding, we further nurture our false self, which the author calls "the impostor" --- also the title of the chapter that has generated more responses than all the other chapters combined, Manning writes in the preface to the revised edition. Apparently, it's an image that resonates with a lot of readers.

Our masks, our pretenses, our hypocrisy, our outward displays of saintliness, Manning contends, rob us of the thing we crave the most: intimacy with God the Father. That intimacy is far more attainable than we can possibly imagine as we refuse to come out from hiding and expose our true selves to God, to other people, and most of all, to ourselves. It is only when we shed our false identity and accept the unconditional love of our Abba --- our heavenly "Daddy" --- that we can experience the passionate love relationship with Him that we have long craved.

Manning's gift as an author lies in his often brutal honesty about his own failures. That's what sets his works apart from those of so many other Christian leaders, the ones who preach authenticity but admit only to their prettier and pettier and less frequent "mistakes." Manning is unafraid to expose in print his own sins, including those that are ugly, major and chronic. As a result, he has earned the right to speak into the lives of people who need to be equally transparent with God about the ugly, major and chronic sins they try so hard to keep hidden.

Now for the "I wish he hadn't written that and I suspect he does too" part: Manning uses the term "inner child," which was a whole lot more acceptable in the early '90s, although there were plenty of us who cringed whenever we heard the phrase even back then. And while it may rankle our present-day sensibilities, it's easy enough to get past. But newcomers to ABBA'S CHILD --- particularly those who are unaware that the original text is 10 years old --- need to understand the context of the time in which it was written. "Inner Pharisee" is another term that might sound a bit dated. However, since the inner Pharisee is still very much alive and kicking and doing its dirty work in us --- don't ask me how I know this --- that phrase probably warrants continued usage.

Those who have come face to face with their own brokenness --- and those who need to --- will find both comfort and hope in ABBA'S CHILD, particularly through its many memorable anecdotes and illustrations, such as the story of the "rabbi's heartbeat" --- which became the title of another Manning book that was released earlier this year. Saturated with the themes of God's grace and love, ABBA'S CHILD is one of those treasured books that manages to be profound, challenging, convicting and delightful, all at once.

--- Reviewed by Marcia Ford

This is what we all need - to get away from it all, and spend the solid, intimate time with God. Alone, without distractions! Isn't that what our Father in Heaven wants - to worship Him in Spirit and Truth. And when we return from whatever contemplative situation we may find, we are refreshed and able to gain the spiritual strength which the workaday world requires. As long as we do this, Manning, suggest, we are "plugged into" the Ultimate Source. A provocative read, and for those who are so inclined, it is highly recommended!!!

This book is easy to review, quite simple actually, and it can be done in one sentence: This solid book will not allow you to reject the fact that God loves you unconditionally.

There is a lot more to say about this work, but really it is all summed up in the last sentence. Manning consistently writes eloquently for the masses who are hurting, broken, and need love. He is honest with his own journey and leaves no detail spared of his own personal trials and tribulations. He gives hope to those who might not have any hope, and joy to those who might think they have to be perfect for God to love them. I appreciated the honesty from the author, and the risk he takes in sharing his soul with the reader. Not many authors are willing to do this where it will make a difference, Manning obviously will.

This book is a must read for anyone wondering if anyone cares about what happens in their life, read the book, find out why God loves you. Seems pretty simple to me.

This is the first book of Manning's that I have read, and I am stocking up on many more! This amazing book illuminated so many hazy thoughts and feelings that I have never been able to put words to and helped me deal with a lot of issues. The sense of relief and comfort I have recently found in God is largely due to this book. I highly recommend it to anyone who is struggling with any kind of identity issue, or anyone who just wants to get closer to his/her true Father.

While Brennan Manning is most notably known for his book "Ragamuffin Gospel" this book is Brennan's personal favorite. So many of us face the temptation to believe in what he calls our "imposter" (our false self we show to the world that pretends to have it all together) and show the world someone we are not. This topic strikes a cord in all of us, who have been tempted to be someone other than who we really are and rest confidently in the arms of our Abba Father. You will laugh and you will cry as you read about yourself as you read about Brennan's inner confessions and as you learn to rest in your true identity as Abba's Child.

Refreshing,comforting, and down to the ground in simplicity. Especially written for those folks dug down in theological mediocrity or battling guilt from repeating "the same ol' sin again and again".
Reminds us of our God of endless compassion, who is not surprised by our mistakes, and constantly is begging us to get up on His lap one more time.

This book has kept my heart changing for months. Not to mention it has changed my life. I wish I could give Brennan a big hug...

This is a very touching book. It tells of God's love for His people. It shows us that God's love never fails.

I am on the third reading of this book. I have given this book to many other evangelical Christians who struggle with beleiving God really loves them. The opportunity for "kingdom living" is NOW. This book helps you understand the power of God's love in your life and helps Christians lay aside many encombrances that keep them from loving others and taking our heavenly father at his word. It's top on my list next to the Bible.

How silly we humans are. We are loved beyond comprehension. Still, we try to put on painful masks to hide from our lover. What nonsense! What idiocy. I have been trying to be something I am not almost every second of my life. Yet now I see that my value is not in what I pretend to be...or what I think people want me to be. No...my value is in a love that I never asked for--in a lover I never sought--in a God who calls me to recognize my "impostor" and leave it in order to enter into His love. I thank Brennan Manning for writing a book that forces me to hear my Lover's voice clearly and honestly. I hope that if you read this, you'll get a copy for yourself.