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Do not assault your partner with this! (Far better books exist).
on February 25, 2016
Consider reading this book (critically) if the authors are "preaching to the choir", but I would strongly caution against using this book as an introduction to exploring this topic, especially if you intend to address this topic with other people who might not be as enthusiastic about it as yourself. The book, "Playing well with others", by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams, has a far more positive, respectful, accepting, and inclusive tone. "The Ethical Slut" has useful exercises and resources, but I found the undertone of this work of advocacy condescending and manipulative, carrying the baggage of conflicts where injustices exist on both sides. Read with caution.