This "real-good-sex in the real-world" text is a quality read with some helpful insights for men, but I found the style of humour to be too patronizing and ultimately immature to upgrade this book from worthwhile library-loaner, to must-have on the male bookshelf. It would be a real pleasure (pun intended? :)) to read a real-world sex guide from a straight / bi female author that was presented in an entirely well-balanced, respectful tone. The side aliases of "Bush Pilot" and "Mr. Goodscrew" are silly, unnecessary, and dampen some of the excellent homework Ms. Dey has completed. In terms of content, this book provides excellent coverage for the physical side of sex and how to increase male stamina in a realistic way. However, the sections on seduction and group sex were disappointing, thin, and lacking real insight. This is where the real opportunity to present useful, fresh information for the audience lies, IMHO. Similar to the "players' guides" written by straight men but with a fresh female perspective, where are the chapters on how to meet random women in the real world in a club or restaurant and consistently create a sexually charged atmosphere within the interaction (e.g. going from "0 to 60 mph, and then the finishing stretch")? How about some useful, practical, detailed advice that actually works on how to "hunt" with your GF or spouse for a fit, attractive female "third-party" for the menage a trois experience? It's the detail behind "how to hunt in the real world in the way women want, yet get the results you seek" type of info that female authors like Dey need to bring to the table in order to truly engage the straight male reader. This would be real innovation in sex authorship, IMHO.