• List Price: CDN$ 21.95
  • You Save: CDN$ 2.21 (10%)
FREE Shipping on orders over CDN$ 25.
Only 5 left in stock (more on the way).
Ships from and sold by Amazon.ca. Gift-wrap available.
Quantity:1
The Bully, the Bullied an... has been added to your Cart
FREE Shipping on orders over CDN$ 25.
Used: Very Good | Details
Condition: Used: Very Good
Comment: Very good copy, minor signs of wear.
Have one to sell?
Flip to back Flip to front
Listen Playing... Paused   You're listening to a sample of the Audible audio edition.
Learn more
See this image

The Bully, the Bullied and the Bystander Paperback – Aug 18 2003

4.8 out of 5 stars 4 customer reviews

See all 2 formats and editions Hide other formats and editions
Amazon Price
New from Used from
Paperback
"Please retry"
CDN$ 19.74
CDN$ 10.00 CDN$ 0.01

Harry Potter and the Cursed Child
click to open popover


Frequently Bought Together

  • The Bully, the Bullied and the Bystander
  • +
  • Kids Are Worth It: Raising Resilient, Responsible, Compassionate Kids
  • +
  • How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk
Total price: CDN$ 52.58
Buy the selected items together

No Kindle device required. Download one of the Free Kindle apps to start reading Kindle books on your smartphone, tablet, and computer.
Getting the download link through email is temporarily not available. Please check back later.

  • Apple
  • Android
  • Windows Phone
  • Android

To get the free app, enter your mobile phone number.




Product Details

  • Paperback: 272 pages
  • Publisher: Collins; 1 edition (Aug. 18 2003)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0006394205
  • ISBN-13: 978-0006394204
  • Product Dimensions: 15.2 x 1.9 x 22.9 cm
  • Shipping Weight: 340 g
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars 4 customer reviews
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #96,371 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
  •  Would you like to update product info, give feedback on images, or tell us about a lower price?

Product Description

About the Author

Barbara Coloroso is the author of the international bestseller Kids Are Worth It! and Parenting Through Crisis and is an acclaimed speaker on parenting, teaching, conflict, resolution, and grieving. Featured in Time, the New York Times, and on many radio and television shows, she lives with her husband in Littleton, Colorado.


What Other Items Do Customers Buy After Viewing This Item?

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars
5 star
3
4 star
1
3 star
0
2 star
0
1 star
0
See all 4 customer reviews
Share your thoughts with other customers

Top Customer Reviews

Format: Paperback
XXXXX

"A child who plays `the bully' dresses, speaks, and acts the part, as do `the bullied' and `the bystander.' It is the posturing, the words, the actions, and the consequences of these elements combined that is the concern of this book."

The above extract comes from the beginning of this extremely informative book by Barbara Coloroso. Coloroso, a former teacher, is an internationally recognized speaker, and author in the areas of parenting, teaching, school discipline, non-violent conflict resolution, reconciliatory justice, and grieving.

Besides telling the reader everything about the bully, the bullied, and the bystanders who observe the bullying, there are insights from selected others (psychologists, etc.) also included.

What makes this book especially powerful are the true stories of those children who "made a tragic and final exit" due to bullying. As Coloroso tells us:

"The common thread in all of these accounts is that these children are bullied relentlessly and, in most cases, the bullying went on without substantial objections, indignation, adequate intervention, or outrage."

Finally, to get the message of this book across effectively and to make it easy to access information, the author includes many lists. I found these most helpful.

In conclusion, this book, in my opinion, is the definitive guide to this problem. I leave you with some of the author's final words:

"The bully, the bullied, and the bystander--I hope you now have a clearer understanding of these roles and how the interactions involved in such role-playing, though common-place in our culture, are not healthy, not normal, certainly not necessary, and in fact are devastating to the children playing them.
Read more ›
2 people found this helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes No Sending feedback...
Thank you for your feedback.
Sorry, we failed to record your vote. Please try again.
Report abuse
Format: Paperback Verified Purchase
I especially like the attention Coloroso gave to the role of the bystander. These people could turn the situation around if they could be brave enough to use their power.
One person found this helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes No Sending feedback...
Thank you for your feedback.
Sorry, we failed to record your vote. Please try again.
Report abuse
Format: Paperback
I had the pleasure of not only meeting Barbara but watching her speak a few weeks ago. I was blown away by her presentation, ideas and solutions to the bullying epidemic. I work with teens-girls mostly-and the info in this book is invaluable to anybody working with kids or teens today. Bullying is a bigger issue than most of us would like to believe, but this book will open your eyes and show you what you can do make a difference whether at home or at school.

Kate Whitfield, author of The Empowered Gal's 9 Life Lessons: Keys, Tips, Strategies, Advice & Everything You Need to Know to Be a Confident, Successful, in Control Gal
2 people found this helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes No Sending feedback...
Thank you for your feedback.
Sorry, we failed to record your vote. Please try again.
Report abuse
Format: Paperback
This book provides a different outlook on bullying from who can be held responsible to an effective way to serve justice. This book is good for anyone who works with children or adolescents.
One person found this helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes No Sending feedback...
Thank you for your feedback.
Sorry, we failed to record your vote. Please try again.
Report abuse

Most Helpful Customer Reviews on Amazon.com (beta)

Amazon.com: HASH(0xa39ec7a4) out of 5 stars 2 reviews
HASH(0xa374c990) out of 5 stars great for middle school teachers Jan. 25 2014
By Mary Saffold - Published on Amazon.com
Format: Paperback Verified Purchase
good tips i can use in my class and practical advice
is it a magic bullet? no, but it has some good points
HASH(0xa3246144) out of 5 stars Five Stars Aug. 15 2014
By dorfman - Published on Amazon.com
Format: Paperback Verified Purchase
Use it regularly


Feedback