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Chasing Silhouettes: How to Help a Loved One Battling an Eating Disorder Paperback – Oct 1 2011

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  • Paperback: 201 pages
  • Publisher: Ampelon Publishing (Oct. 1 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0984009558
  • ISBN-13: 978-0984009558
  • Product Dimensions: 21.3 x 13.7 x 1.5 cm
  • Shipping Weight: 249 g
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars 1 customer review
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As a mother watching my daughter struggle on and off with an eating disorder, this book was so insightful and helpful. I came across an advertisement for it in a hospital waiting room, which was not by coincidence, but by God's providence. Our daughter is finally acknowledging she needs help, and this book is the perfect resource for one who wants to help their loved one. I had ordered 2 copies, gave one to a friend to help with her daughter, and am now ordering more copies for myself and the church to have on hand.
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HASH(0xa0b8fc24) out of 5 stars Chasing Silhouettes Oct. 4 2012
By Michelle DeRusha - Published on Amazon.com
Format: Paperback
There are so very many misconceptions and misperceptions surrounding eating disorders, and this is one of the many reasons why Emily Weirenga's book, "Chasing Silhouettes: How to Help a Loved One Battle an Eating Disorder" fills such a critical need. My assumption, for example, that boys don't succumb to eating disorders is simply wrong. Of the estimated 8 million Americans who suffer from anorexia, bulimia or other eating disorders, one million of them are male.

Not only does Emily weave her real-life story of suffering and recovery from anorexia with research and facts about the illness, this book is also a spiritual guide for those of us who love someone suffering from an eating disorder. As is often the case, a book like this might answer our questions from a physical or even an emotional perspective, yet it often leaves the spiritual perspective untapped. Emily artfully weaves all three perspectives together into a coherent, gracefully written narrative.

I appreciate, for instance, that Emily includes a prayer at the end of each section. So often, when we are ravaged by hopelessness and fear, we simply can't pray, we simply can't find the words. Emily offers these words to us to pray when we fear prayer is impossible.

This book is not a dry, statistic-filled, how-to tome. Written in honest, evocative, lyrical prose, Chasing Silhouettes shines truth, hope and grace into the darkest corners of an illness that ravages so many millions of women and men. And while she doesn't shy from telling the hard truth, Emily also insists that the reader comes away from her story, and this book, with the knowledge that all hope is not lost and that, above all, those who suffer through this disease are never alone.

A person I love struggled with this disease. I dearly wish Emily's book had been available to my family in the midst of that darkness.
6 of 6 people found the following review helpful
HASH(0xa33a36f0) out of 5 stars A very inspiring and helpful book Sept. 25 2012
By Laurie - Published on Amazon.com
Format: Paperback
After reading Emily's book, Chasing Silhouettes, I wished I had this knowledge when my daughter's life was turned upside down. My two oldest girls tested the dieting world, so when my youngest daughterstarted skipping meals I figured she would just grow out of it. But she didn't. She was always a stubborn child and dealing rationally with her was already a struggle. Emily talks about her alternate identity and that is how I would describe her without food. When her eating habits became noticeable on her body, I had no idea where to go for help. Her pediatrician just told her to eat more while she told my other daughter to eat less. I had done my own research on the Internet and every article stated that it wasn't my fault. Chasing Silhouettes reinstate this fact but points out that there are triggers. It haunted me all the time wondering what happened to make her stop eating. After changing pediatrician, she suggested a doctor at our local hospital. They diagnose her with anorexia and suggested we put her on the Maudsley Method. This method makes the child eat what is prepared by parent with no exceptions. Because my daughter was so full of rage, plates and food went flying across the room. This tiny girl became a monster and her words cut like a knife. I really felt and understood what Evonne went through. Therapy didn't make her eat and even admitting her in the hospital didn't help. She would eat what she had to just to get out. For a long time, I felt alone in this battle. Professionals weren't helping and family was in denial. Godly professional who worked with eating disorders are impossible to find in my area. Time after time, prayer is mentioned in the book. I wish I had done that more. I was angry with God for not answering my prayers.

After six months of no weight gain, she was placed in an eating disorder facility almost 2 hours from home. It was a relief for me and I didn't have to worry about what she was eating. I didn't have to fight with her too. Thirty days later she emerged a calmer person. I think the thought of going back there kept her eating just enough. It has been about 2 yrs since then, and she has maintain a reasonable weight. She still comments about gaining weight and I believe this will be a life long struggle for her. Emily's book has taught me to put my trust in God because He loves her more than I do. These struggles have purpose and Emily's purpose was to help others and shed light on this disease. She was brought into my life by Divine intervention and I am grateful for her example of faith. This book will help those struggling to love those people in their lives who don't love themselves.
4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
HASH(0xa18bf8a8) out of 5 stars Helpful for families. Nov. 11 2012
By Chris Funkhouser - Published on Amazon.com
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My wife recently had a relapse with an eating disorder after thirteen years of relative quiet in regard to her Anorexia. I did not always know how to feel about what was happening, but when you read others stories you hear your own story in the book and it helps you process the reality of it all. There are many helpful recommendations as well.

The only con I have to the book is really just a side-effect of one of its strengths. The book is written from many different points of view at different stages of the disorder, so sometimes it can seem a bit disjointed.

But overall I benefited greatly from reading about other people's stories and emotions especially as many of them had faith backgrounds.
3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
HASH(0xa33a3bdc) out of 5 stars A story about pain, tragedy and hope Sept. 25 2012
By Glynn Young - Published on Amazon.com
Format: Paperback
I'm haunted by the eyes of a nine-year-old girl - a nine-year-old girl who thinks she's too fat and begins to starve herself.

Nine years old. Those eyes belonged - still belong - to Emily Wierenga, and she's now writing about what happened.

"Chasing Silhouettes: How to help a loved one battling an eating disorder" may well be one of the most important books published for the church this year. That's right, I said for the church. Because eating disorders don't just happen outside the church; they happen in the church, too, to pastors' daughters like Wierenga. And the church can do great good - and great harm - in how it responds.

The book is a painful read. It is also a hopeful read.

Wierenga has structured each major section of "Chasing Silhouettes" with a story, including perspectives of both the person with the disorder and family and friends; observations and insights by medical professionals; practical advice on what to do and not do if you're trying to help; and then a prayer.

What this structure does is to provide a comprehensive look at what constitutes an eating disorder - it is physical, biological, emotional, and spiritual. Those are the roads Wierenga takes us down as she opens up her own experience, mind, and heart. And one of the critical points she makes is this - you cannot heal a loved one of an eating disorder. They have to decide that they want to be healed, and you cannot make that decision for them, no matter how much you love them.

And it happens to girls as young as seven. And to young men, whose commitment to physical training crosses a line into obsession.

So this is a book for people suffering eating disorders and the people who often have to watch in pain and agony as someone lives through - and sometimes dies - from an eating disorder. As Wierenga writes in the prologue: "I was that girl you are trying to save. The one who is all rib and screaming and slamming the door., the one who once laughed, who now wants to die. And this is killing you...While I was that girl, I'm now a woman who wants desperately to live."

"Chasing Silhouettes" is about pain and tragedy, yes. But it is mostly about hope.
2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
HASH(0xa0d414f8) out of 5 stars Hope For Those Who Struggle With Eating Disorders Sept. 26 2012
By Linda Chontos - Published on Amazon.com
Format: Paperback
Emily Wierenga is a wife, mother of four boys (two of whom are hers), artist and author of "Chasing Silhouettes: How to Help a Loved One Battling an Eating Disorder," available here. She is also one of the dearest people I know, with a passionate love for her Savior and others.

That love runs through the pages of her book - a book birthed out of the pain of her own suffering - as she reaches out to those with eating disorders.

The book tells the story of her struggle with an eating disorder that nearly took her life. She has included stories from other people, each coming from different circumstances, but all with the same terrible struggle.

Family members and friends tell how living with someone with an eating disorder affects them and offer advice on how to react and what to say. No one escapes the pain. When a loved one suffers, we all suffer.

Then there is the perspective from medical professionals. It is a comprehensive look at a problem faced by so many families. In a time where outward appearance seems to be everything, and the standard so skewed, it offers hope and sound, practical advice.

Emily has included a prayer at the end of every chapter - moving, heartbreaking words to a God who loves us just the way we are.

While reading it, even though I don't suffer from an eating disorder, I found wisdom for my own life. We all have battles we must fight. It is so encouraging to know there is hope.