- Paperback: 264 pages
- Publisher: New Harbinger Publications; 2nd ed. edition (March 15 2008)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 1572245611
- ISBN-13: 978-1572245617
- Product Dimensions: 15.2 x 1.3 x 22.2 cm
- Shipping Weight: 386 g
- Average Customer Review: 16 customer reviews
- Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #59,534 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
Children of the Self-Absorbed: A Grown-Up's Guide to Getting Over Narcissistic Parents Paperback – Mar 15 2008
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For those of us who have often suffered the inevitable humiliating regression back to childhood during every holiday with the family
this book offers real help to the reader to develop the self-protective art of indifference, a cloak that can be used at many a holiday gathering
and to understand the subtle yet profound differences between ineffective and effective confrontation, empathy and sympathy, and attaching response and defusing strategy
a completely new cupboard of techniques."
-Joel C. Frost, Ed.D., assistant clinical professor of psychology in the Department of Psychology at Harvard Medical School
"Children of the Self-Absorbed offers practical advice and guidance. The creative techniques and exercises are priceless to both the reader learning how to identify destructive parental behaviors and how to cope with them as well as the reader learning to nurture and protect his or her own developing self."
-Susan Hopper, Ph.D., clinical psychologist in private practice in St. Louis, MO
"Children of narcissistic parents are provided techniques to dig themselves out of impossible relationships with their parents a thoroughly well thought out, useful manual to help adult children move toward more productive connection to their narcissistic parents, to themselves, and to others."
-Joan Medway, Ph.D., LCSW, psychologist in private practice in Potomac, MD
From the Back Cover
Being a parent is usually all about giving of yourself to foster your child's growth and development. But what happens when this isn't the case? Some parents dismiss the needs of their children, asserting their own instead, demanding attention and reassurance from even very young children. This may especially be the case when a parent has narcissistic tendencies or narcissistic personality disorder. From the author of Working with the Self-Absorbed and Loving the Self-Absorbed, this major revision of a self-help classic offers a step-by-step approach to resolving conflict and building a meaningful relationship with a narcissistic parent.
Children of the Self-Absorbed offers clear definitions of narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder to help you identify the extent of your parent's problem. You'll learn the different types of destructive narcissism and how to recognize their effects on relationships. With the aid of proven techniques, you'll discover that you're not helpless against your parent's behavior and that you needn't consider giving up on the relationship. Instead, realistic strategies and steps are suggested for learning to set mutually agreed upon behaviors that can help you fulfill your needs and expectations.See all Product description
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I highly suggest "mind over mood" as well its years of cognitive behavioral therapy and psychotherapy mixed into one. It changes the way you feel by changing the way you think. Stay away from books that may make the problem worse. We all deserve happiness in the end. Good luck to everyone! 😃
If a person is interested in learning this is a great read....
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