Confessions of a Sociopath: A Life Spent Hiding in Plain Sight Hardcover – May 14 2013
|New from||Used from|
Customers Who Viewed This Item Also Viewed
No Kindle device required. Download one of the Free Kindle apps to start reading Kindle books on your smartphone, tablet, and computer.
Getting the download link through email is temporarily not available. Please check back later.
To get the free app, enter your mobile phone number.
Praise for Confessions of a Sociopath
"[A] gripping and important book…revelatory…quite the memorable roller coaster ride.”—New York Times Book Review
"[F]ascinating...part memoir, part psychological treatise, and entirely not to be trusted."—Boston Globe
"The goal of Confessions is to redefine sociopathy—or at least to shake off the stigma associated with it. And Thomas accomplishes both. Through her honest portrayal of herself as a highly capable yet deeply flawed individual, she demystifies her disorder."—Scientific American
“[F]ascinating stuff, and Thomas delivers…riveting…chilling….Her incisive observations about human nature can be breathtakingly pointed.”—Cleveland Plain Dealer
"An essential, unprecedented memoir…intelligent, measured…[H]er arguments against using the diagnosis as an indicator of evil or a pre-emptive reason to imprison are a slam-dunk. This is a critical addition to narratives of mental illness, deepened by the awareness that we're reading someone whose most intense motivation is ‘acquisition, retention, and exploitation of power’.”—Publishers Weekly, starred review
"Fascinating and compelling as well as chilling, Thomas’ memoir offers a window into the mind of a portion of the population that usually remains shrouded in mystery and fear."—Booklist, starred review
"[Thomas] invites us into her courtroom, classroom and bedroom to witness how her behavior has stunted her work life and made her love life difficult....Much here is chilling, but there are also cracks that make you ache for her....A work of advocacy for greater awareness of sociopathy’s reach and conduct."—Kirkus Reviews
About the Author
M. E. Thomas is a diagnosed sociopath and the founder of SociopathWorld.com. But she is not a killer. Quite the contrary, she is an accomplished attorney and law professor who writes regularly for major law journals, donates 10 percent of her income to charity, and teaches Sunday School.
What Other Items Do Customers Buy After Viewing This Item?
Top Customer Reviews
It's full of errors and contradictions. For example, she had a normal childhood. She had great parents. She had parents who abandoned her and her brother at a park, just driving away. Her father beat her, her mother was cold and flippant. She wants anonymity, yet she was on Dr. Phil. Which version is true? She claims to be a successful psychopath, something that's getting more press these days. But she reveals that it's only by the graces of lady luck that she's not in prison. Never mind her impulse to follow and kill a man, she's a thief, a fraud, and an incredibly reckless driver or cyclist. She claims not to harm people, but describes one of her favorite joys as learning about and then ruining people. She claims to be a good friend at the same time as she lists numerous friendships ruthlessly terminated when she is bored.Read more ›
It could have been half as long as it was if she'd quit telling the reader how great sociopaths are. She repeatedly tells the reader how they are actually genetically superior than 'empaths', and she has quotes and statements to back up her claims.
The book is a constant commentary on how charming and how likable she is right after she tells you about the awful things she does just for the sake of controlling and abusing others. I often caught myself rolling my eyes. She's like that associate you just wish would stop talking.
This book is just another way of patting herself on the back. I'm actually irritated at myself for buying this book because I have no doubt it amuses her to know we may not like her, but she still got our money anyway.
At times, it feels like M.E. Thomas (an appropriately selfish pseudonym) has produced a gripping and important book. She fascinatingly recounts how the logic of punishment frequently eludes sociopaths; she has lost count of the times she's gotten sick from eating rotten food because the "risk of injury never sinks in." At others, she sags and goes on for pages about her (uninteresting) childhood or repeats her thoughts about the nature/nurture mystery while simultaneously humanizing and dehumanizing herself.
Readers must also keep in mind that pathological lying and lack of realistic goals partially define sociopathy. Thomas undermines her own claims of leading a moral life by cheerfully recounting leaving a baby opossum to drown in her swimming pool and disowning a friend whose father was dying of cancer because the woman wasn’t fun to be around anymore. By the book’s final stretch, which includes reminiscences of a hedonistic year in Brazil, the chilliness and self-absorption have taken their toll and roller coaster ride has worn thin.
The medium is the message.
Eleanor Cowan, author of : A History of a Pedophile's Wife: Memoir of a Canadian Teacher and Writer
Most recent customer reviews
Very weird and an eye-opener. A strange difference. It made me feel sorry.Published 4 months ago by Michael Kearney
I don't really know what I expected. Actually, I guess I do, I thought I'd be entertained, but for all of the author's professing how likable and intriguing she is, my goodness is... Read morePublished 18 months ago by reluctantm
So interesting! I learned a lot about sociopaths.
Loved the way it is written.
Would like to read more about that subject.