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Detachment: An Adoption Memoir Paperback – Sep 2 2014
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"It's a book that doesn't sugarcoat the challenges of building a family across borders, with children who acutely remember what it's like to have been abandoned. It also lays bare the sometimes-unanticipated impact on marital relationships, on a person's confidence in themselves as a parent." -- National Post
"Detachment: An Adoption Memoir is a frank, tense and fully engaging story of the processes and consequences of adoption. And it's more than this." -- Winnipeg Free Press
"Detachment is a startling portrait of a real Modern Family--cobbled together across continents, haunted by old wars and buried trauma, held together by the stubborn human need for love and connection, for belonging. Maurice Mierau's attempt to understand the people who made him what he is, while holding his own family together, is completely compelling: brutally honest, harrowing and compassionate." -- Michael Crummey, author of Galore
"With wry honesty, Maurice Mierau surprises the reader again and again with the failure, the vulnerability, the surprise, and the tenderness of relationships. For all its coolly detached tone, this story has incredible heart. And the children. Oh, the children." -- David Bergen, author of The Age of Hope
"In the first half of Detachment, Maurice Mierau tells a fascinating story of working through the byzantine beaurocracy of the adoption industry to bring two boys home from Ukraine. In the second half, he recounts the hardest part of the journey, learning the emotional language of being a dad. Maurice Mierau is a smart and unsentimental storyteller, and I loved this book." -- Joan Thomas, author of Reading by Lightning
From the Back Cover
In 2005, Maurice Mierau and his wife, Betsy, travelled to Ukraine to adopt two small boys, age three and five. After weeks of delays while navigating a tangled bureaucracy, they returned to Canada as a proud new family of four. Now what?
In Detachment, Mierau probes not only the process of adoption but what comes after--the challenges of becoming a family, the strain on his marriage. While his son acts out and gets in trouble at school, Mierau feels removed, detached, thinking instead about his own emotionally distant father. Also born in Ukraine, Mierau's Mennonite father has a traumatic and mysterious past of his own. If Mierau can come to understand his father's life, perhaps he can start to make sense of his new sons...
Detachment is a moving, darkly funny, and searingly unsentimental memoir about learning to become a father and a son.See all Product Description
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The book is a story about marriage. Betsy and Maurice struggle with who they are individually and as a couple. The reader gets an intimate, moving and sometimes funny glimpse of a relationship large enough for despair and hope.
It is a story about lives of individuals. The reader gets the clearest view of Maurice but meets the entire family. These folks are fascinating and it is a gift to get to know them.
The book tells a tender, raw, worrisome, hopeful story about international adoption. I highly recommend this book for those who adopt or are considering adoption.
Maurice is an amazing story teller. His writing magically engages the reader. I had trouble putting this book down. Highly recommended!
Detachment: An Adoption Memoir (Freeland Books)