Friends with Benefits: A Social Media Marketing Handbook Paperback – Dec 2 2009
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Darren Barefoot and Julie Szabo have run social media marketing campaigns for national retailers like Best Buy, Future Shop and Brother International. They've been quoted as experts on social media on the CBC and BBC, and in Wired magazine, The Wall Street Journal, and dozens of other magazines, TV, and radio programs. Founders of Northern Voice, Canada's social media conference, they regularly speak around North America on social media, marketing, and emerging technology. Darren has 10,000 daily readers at DarrenBarefoot.com.
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Friends with Benefits spoke to me because I have "lonely nerd" deep inside of me and this book goes all the way back into the yesteryears of 80s computing when I, too, was surfing the proto-Internet via a 1200-baud modem. Like the book asserts in chapter one, we lonely nerds weren't lonely, "the early BBSs were actually very social" and so were we. Fast-forward from the early 80s -- when I was doing dial-up and geeking out in Honolulu Bulletin Board Systems -- twenty years and "social media" is invented. No, re-invented.
Darren Barefoot and Julie Szabo get it and they lay it all out into this book and basically wrote the book on starting and building Abraham Harrison -- or a firm or agency like it -- from scratch. And not just starting an agency but integrating social media marketing into your advertising or PR agency or even adding smart social media capacity into your big, medium or even small business. I am impressed.
According to the book, "social media marketing is using social media channels to promote your company and its products. This type of marketing should be a subset of your online marketing activities, complementing traditional web-based promotional strategies like email newsletters and online advertising campaigns. Social media marketing qualifies as a form of viral or word-of-mouth marketing." The goal of Friends with Benefits is to take social media, social media marketing, viral marketing, and word-of-mouth marketing and answer "so what" and "what now?"
What I like about this book is that it is not a book on Twitter or Facebook. It answers what and why with a how that is comprehensive and includes geekier-but-essential topics such as RSS, corporate blogging, and even social media news releases. The real value of the book kicks in in chapter 3, "Flagging a Ride: Finding the Right Bloggers and Communities" when the book goes into the explicit details surrounding blogger discovery, blogger prospecting, how to choose the right blog and blogger based on their type (personal, topical, or corporate) and popularity (size matters), including how best to judge bloggers and blogs using various analytics and metrics tools like [...], Alexa Ranking, Google PR, and Technorati Rank. And from more instinctual reviews such as checking out Google Trends, mentions on Google, the number of RSS subscribers on Feedburner, mentions on blogrolls, popularity on Twitter/Facebook/FriendFeed, frequency of posting, volume of comments, professionalism, etc.
Chapter 4 addresses Netiquette, something that a lot of books give very little lip service to -- a small sacrifice to Internet protocol. Friends with Benefits offers quite a solid list of lessons in nettiquette: Listen first, take baby steps, make friends, lay your cards on the table, bloggers aren't journalists, your reputation precedes you, don't be a social media spammer, and don't fib -- probably the most serious list I have found, and one that I have learned needs to be taken dead-seriously. I tried to suggest my favorites, but they're all important to consider, although making friends -- spending time together outside the office, if you will -- is probably one of the most important because when you reach out to anyone for help, especially when it is earned media (meaning you're not paying these bloggers -- or anyone -- to write about you or your client), they're going to ask, "who the hell are you?" and "do I know you?" If you're nobody they know, people are more likely to not make decisions that are compassionate or human, they're more likely to just assume that you're not much better than a bot -- don't let them.
Chapter 5 deals with the social media pitch. Make it compelling, relevant, timely, exclusive, personal, brief, comprehensive, conversational, linked, access, and offers an incentive (or gift, in our parlance). This is exactly the list I would have written -- this is the list my team would have written, too. There are also warning about blogola (payola) and other untoward things not to do, including best practices in follow-up. In fact, the value-add of this list is amazing and with a little help you could very well use Friends with Benefits as a play-book for your burgeoning (or suffering) social media practice -- and the only reason I am proud instead of threatened is that my company actually offers all the doing of the work for our clients and not just social media consulting. That said, this book is going to put a hell of a lot of social media experts (SME) out to pasture when their bosses read this book and learn that their director of social media doesn't know what he's doing. I recommend this book to all the SMEs out there -- read this before your boss does.
Chapter 6 is titled "Measuring Success: How to Monitor the Web." This chapter answers quite a few questions about defining success and return on investment (ROI), the holy grails of social media marketing and the reason why too many companies who need SMM are hesitant to take the next step, boldly. What's smart about this chapter is that Barefoot and Szabo tell it like it is: you need to ask your client and yourself how you define success. Are you interested in brand-building? Growing traffic? Conversion to sales? Social media mentions? Increased buzz? How are you going to do this? Monitoring? Listening? The issue of managing expectations is also raised. Unlike banner ads, that turn on or off like a tap, social media marketing can be a slow-burn. Being "realistic" and "humble" are recommended. Then, after discussing what success could be, Friends with Benefits discusses web monitoring and how to keep track of your successes and failures and then how to follow-up. Following up is key. Moving the relationship forward it key, too. Bloggers -- indeed everyone -- hates being used and there are too many examples of a win, a success, and a post not being followed-up with a neighborly thank you in the form of a private email or a public comment. Remember how your momma told you to be polite and to write a thank you note? Well, come on! Make momma proud.
Chapter 7 addresses risk. And there are risks, such as the campaign not getting off the ground, blogger backlash, the crowd talks back, you get rejected, your initiative dies on the vine, you put all your eggs in social media and your other channels shrivel, not being proactive (or staying in front of it), you will be measures, someone gets cold feet in the organization and the campaign is killed, or even get too much success too soon and you collapse -- #fail -- under its weight. Good advice at the end: proceed with caution, not cowardice." In my experience, campaigns fail from lack of commitment -- from fear and cowardice. Before you get out there to engage, you had better be willing to commit: be brave.
Chapter 8 deals with damage control and crisis management and is short and sweet, dealing with how to deal with crises with a useful crisis management primer. There's too much stuff in there that I can't be pitch here but they do recommend that it is essential to keep head of the crisis: create a crisis response document, create a response blog and social media platform (and reputation) right now instead of after the crisis occurs (though it is never too late) and be willing to engage and not hide down at the bottom of the spider hole.
I am going to go through the rest of the book faster because I really believe that the most important book comes in the first 8 chapters. Chapter 9 reminds us that MySpace is still amazingly relevant with about 125 million users worldwide and needs to be respected and the members can and should be engaged if appropriate. Same thing with Chapter 10 on the subject of Facebook, offering case studies, including a case study my firm took part in: Sharp's [...] campaign on Facebook done for Lowe NY. Chapter 11 deals with [...] and other video-sharing sites. And Chapter 12 briefly addresses microblogging and Twitter. Each of these chapters are brief primers, dealing a little bit with applications, with widgets, with culture and protocol, and a little about marketing.
To me, chapters 8-12 are throw-aways. If you're looking for a book on Twitter marketing, there are better more comprehensive guides. To avoid chapters 8-12 would have been too much of an omission and social networks systems are too sexy right now to leave out; however this book is invaluable and there's nothing like it out there in terms of a realistic portrayal of what works and what doesn't. This books teaches you to measure twice and cut once and to trains the reader up on the culture, the expectations, and protocol of the social web. Folks online are not numbers or clicks or even consumers, they're people and they're having -- and have had -- lots of parties, socials, and get-togethers before you ever got there and you need to be very respectful of the them and their current conversation and when and if to interrupt.
This book isn't out yet. You'll have to wait as I reviewed an advance galley of the final book. What I would do is pre-order the book -- it is sure to be something you will consume and maybe keep to yourself as your very own competitive advantage. Now that I see that the book was produced by No Starch Press I kick myself again -- I pitched them on this book three years ago. Oh well, like I said at the beginning of this post, the best man and woman won.
The reason is that I have a distaste for spammy marketing. You know, "get 4 gazillion Facebook followers!" and all that sort of thing. The sleazy Internet marketers have really turned me off.
On the other hand, I am reminded of a young women who does Tweets for a few local businesses here. She announces restaurant specials, provides links of interest for the people who follow her husbands computer repair business, and just does amusing reminders every now and then. I follow her tweets because I want to know about the things she posts. It's not annoying - she's doing it the right way, and that's exactly the sort of thing that this book suggests.
There's nothing spammy here, nothing that makes me uncomfortable (and I'm more than a little squeamish on this subject). Anyone with a business, whether it's Big Business or just you working out of your living room, can benefit from the advice in this book. No sleaze, just practical advice about how to market well using social media.
This would be a great introduction for anyone who can't imagine why Twitter, Facebook et al. could be good for business, but it will also be useful for fine tuning the efforts of those who are already using the Web to enhance their marketing.
In addition to explaining how the reader might go about getting social network ready, the authors go about explaining some very interesting points about "netiquette." I've been around the web for a long time and this particular section was of interest to me. It confirmed many of my own hard earned beliefs and went onto point out a few new ways in which I might change what I do so that I avoid unintentionally put off others. Since the point of Social Network is to provide value to others, it makes no sense to offend.
There is a significant amount of information on "damage control." One of the most important things to remember is that whether or not we are active on the web, the web can be very active on us! The authors point out that unless you are watching what's being said about your company or you as an individual, you may be blindsided by customer issues (rightly or wrongly accusing your company) that are being blogged about in a very public manner. So guidelines are given for how to monitor the web not only for news about you, but to measure success for any marketing campaigns you might run.
Each of several of the major social networking sites has a chapter of its own to explain how it got started, who is using it and how it works. Blogs and how to find them, My Space, Facebook, YouTube and other video sharing sites, and of course Twitter are all covered. In addition, the authors cover the "Power of Crowds" and why Social Media Marketing is what we need to be doing if we want to reach the maximum numbers of people. They cover the social news phenomenon (the serious Bloggers and their relationship to the fourth estate), Flickr and why we should care about their existence.
In short, this is the book many of the business folks I've met have been waiting for. It will ease them into understanding why Social Network Marketing is critical to many businesses going forward and helps them understand a medium about which many of them are still quite ignorant. Ignorance is fine, it can be fixed - and this book will quickly get you on the right path.
material out there on Social Media. There's a lot of
cheerleading about the free advertising and the engagement
with customers, but not enough acknowledgement of the
enormous investment of skilled man-hours many social media
tactics require to bear fruit.
Social Media boosters may be aware that real marketers want
to know what the ROI will be, and to please us they have
some convenient, practiced answers. The truth is you cannot
realistically outsource your company's social media branding
to people earning $2 an hour who don't have a reason to care
if your company looks stupid. If you go for the bottom-rung,
quantity-over-quality approach to social media you'll get a
messy result. The other alternative, as in most advertising,
is to put the right MONEY into social media. Since
intelligent employees who "get it" must be paid, and since
social media is a time-consuming type of marketing, you
won't be getting free advertising the way you're hoping.
This book is excellent. My expectations were low, because
much of what I read on social media marketing hypes the free
advertising and avoids addressing the labor-intensity of it.
This book is a breath of fresh air because it addresses real
problems that can and will occur in social media marketing
and how to deal with them.
Now that I've had my rant, I'll just recommend the book with
a 5 star (a rating I'm getting stingier and stingier with).
That means it's really useful stuff.
So you know you need to get involved in social media marketing. How? "Friends with Benefits: A Social Media Marketing Handbook" is a great resource to begin with. Throughout the book, I definitely got the sense that the author's are speaking from experience. Many of the suggestions seem carefully thought out, ones that the authors tried themselves.
The first few chapters help you to understand what social media is and why it's important. Then the book dives into a discussion of how to enter communities, develop relationships with bloggers, and successfully build social capital with your target market. I thought the advice on how to contact bloggers about your products without seeming like a spammer was particularly helpful.
The author's also included chapters on online repuation management, metrics (i.e., measuring your online marketing success), MySpace, Facebook, video marketing, Twitter, and "participating in online communities" (info on using social news sites, social bookmarking sites, etc.).
One of the things I most appreciated about the book was the authors' frankness about the pitfalls of social media marketing. Don't get me wrong: the authors don't waste chapters expounding the dangers of social media marketing. (As I mentioned, the biggest danger is doing nothing about social media.) Rather, they make sure to point out some common mistakes along the way. Avoid these mistakes, and you'll save yourself from having some enormous headaches later on.
If you're looking for some solid information on how to begin your social media marketing efforts, "Friends with Benefits" will not disappoint. Even if you already have experience in this area, you're sure to find useful bits of wisdom.
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