How to Get the Girl - Ignore and Score: Dating Mindsets Explained - How to Attract and Date Beautiful Women Paperback – Feb 15 2011
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From the Author
I wrote this book because there was a long time of my life when I was very confused, frustrated and lonely. But soon after my divorce I spent 9 years dating, testing, experimenting, exploring, and learning about women and dating.Here's a painful truth: today's typical guy will never CHOOSE the woman he REALLY wants.Why? It's simple: most guys don't realize that you can LEARN about attraction, flirting, and sexual intimacy! Pain may be ahead for you if you choose to rethink your attitudes and beliefs about women, dating, attraction and relationships because changing your attitudes and behaviors is hard to do! We rarely allow ourselves to question our own beliefs, but that's EXACTLY what you have to do if you REALLY want to understand what makes women choose one guy over another... and it's NOT what you think.This is not a journey for the weak. Questioning what you take for granted and trying new things outside of your comfort zones just might be the hardest thing you can do, but I believe this capacity to change is what truly makes a man GREAT!And if you're brave enough to buy a book like this, then you're already on a journey that most men will never take.On this journey, you will no doubt encounter some surprises, like:
- Nice guys without personal boundaries DO finish last;
- Putting her on a pedestal will NOT get you the girl;
- Tension IS necessary for attraction;
- Dating is not all about her expectations; your expectations should count MORE to you;
- Seduction is a FUN game of tug-of-war;
- Body language and tone of voice constitute 93% of communication; what you actually say accounts for the other 7%;
- Your self-esteem and life passions are tantamount to getting the girl;
- A woman may reject or resist you BUT can still WANT you − you just have to know when to keep pursuing and when to move on.
About the Author
Robert Belland is a Multimedia Specialist and Entrepreneur who currently resides in Edmonton, Canada.
He currently spends half his time running and managing his successful NewMedia company BOBAIR MEDIA Inc. while also trying to help his fellow man with the mysteries and frustrations of women and dating.
He was encouraged to write his first book IGNORE and SCORE from the many readers of his weekly Dating Advice blog: FullofHateAndReadyToDate.com
Most Helpful Customer Reviews on Amazon.com (beta)
Despite the misleading title, this book is NOT about manipulating women. It about understanding not only the dynamics of dating, but also about understanding ourselves. What he really means by "ignore" is not to ignore the girl, but to ignore the things in ourselves that are stopping men from being unsuccessful with women - things like insecurities, fears, and low self-esteem. He makes it clear how these will hinder any relationship we want to have. Understanding ourselves is the first step. He also explains the dynamics of dating and attraction. Just like learning social skills necessary at work for success, this book explains how do to the same thing when trying to meet women. So many guys, especially good guys, get in the way of actually meeting women. This book teaches how to be yourself and still have success with women.
What this book ISN'T is how to manipulate and trick girls into getting into bed with you. If that's what you're looking for, then this book isn't for you. If you want to learn to improve yourself, enjoy dating more, and feel more confident about yourself and with women, then this is a great place to start.
Also check out his website at "fullofhateandreadytodate.com". It has a lot of useful information. And just like the title of his book, don't be tricked by the title. "Full of hate" isn't referring to what you think it is.
They push you to play these games.