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Loving: A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s-1950s Hardcover – Oct. 14 2020
Loving: A Photographic History of Men in Love, 1850-1950 portrays the history of romantic love between men in hundreds of moving and tender vernacular photographs taken between the years 1850 and 1950. This visual narrative of astonishing sensitivity brings to light an until-now-unpublished collection of hundreds of snapshots, portraits, and group photos taken in the most varied of contexts, both private and public.
Taken when male partnerships were often illegal, the photos here were found at flea markets, in shoe boxes, family archives, old suitcases, and later online and at auctions. The collection now includes photos from all over the world: Australia, Bulgaria, Canada, Croatia, France, Germany, Japan, Greece, Latvia, the United States, the United Kingdom, Russia, and Serbia. The subjects were identified as couples by that unmistakable look in the eyes of two people in love - impossible to manufacture or hide. They were also recognized by body language - evidence as subtle as one hand barely grazing another - and by inscriptions, often coded.
Included here are ambrotypes, daguerreotypes, glass negatives, tin types, cabinet cards, photo postcards, photo strips, photomatics, and snapshots - over 100 years of social history and the development of photography.
Loving will be produced to the highest standards in illustrated book publishing, The photographs - many fragile from age or handling - have been digitized using a technology derived from that used on surveillance satellites and available in only five places around the world. Paper and other materials are among the best available. And Loving will be manufactured at one of the world's elite printers. Loving, the book, will be up to the measure of its message in every way.
In these delight-filled pages, couples in love tell their own story for the first time at a time when joy and hope - indeed human connectivity - are crucial lifelines to our better selves. Universal in reach and overwhelming in impact, Loving speaks to our spirit and resilience, our capacity for bliss, and our longing for the shared truths of love.
- Print length336 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Publisher5 Continents Editions Srl
- Publication dateOct. 14 2020
- Dimensions22.89 x 3.48 x 0.01 cm
- ISBN-108874399286
- ISBN-13978-8874399284
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From the Publisher
An excerpt from Loving by Paolo Maria Noseda
If I embrace you, do not be afraid. If I embrace you, then accept me as I am; take me with you and transform yesterday into today; do not allow tomorrow’s doubt to interfere between us. “Loving” is a gift for those who are not capable of suffocating their emotions or are afraid of being overwhelmed. It is the force of he who fears neither derision, nor criticism, as he has grasped the certitude of his own being as something Human and True. An embrace is a human who talks of sentiment and negates not the present.
Hope is kindled from an embrace, and as much as it is humanly possible to speak of certainty, no one can know their own beauty or perceive a sense of their own worth until it has been reflected back through the mirror of another loving, caring human being.
Photo below by: Bill Westmorland
Meet Hugh Nini and Neal Treadwell
We have been together for nearly thirty years. According to us, we’ve been married since 1992. There wasn’t a ceremony with friends and family. It was just something we did on our own and it included exchanging rings. None of the subjects in our photos had the legal option of marriage, they, like us in 1992, did have the private, personal option.
These photos have taught us something we instinctively understood, but hadn’t yet formed into a thought: the human heart has never conformed to the strictures of society as it stumbles awkwardly through something it doesn’t immediately understand. The heart will always find its way to the light, and in this case, into daylight. Until this collection, we thought that the notion of us as a loving couple was “new.” What we have learned from our collection is that we’re not new. We, and other couples like us, both male and female, are a continuation of a long line of loving couples who have probably existed since the beginning of time.
Love is love no matter what and in the end it's just universal.
A note from the collectors Hugh Nini and Neal Treadwell
Our collection reveals to the world, and even to us, for the first time and voluminously, that feelings of love, attachment, or longing between two people are the same—regardless of the gender make-up of the couple. Their images evoke as powerful a sense of love and humanity as has ever been filmed, or written about, or acted out on a stage. They appear in many varied contexts that repeat across time and global geography. They pose together in the bow of a boat, on a tree branch, on a bicycle, at the beach, in a forest, leaning against a car, and even in, or on, a bed. From a social perspective, the range is extensive as the images reflect back nineteenth-century working class figures, fashionably dressed businessmen, university students, and soldiers and sailors of all ages.
It spans a century of time between the 1850s and the 1950s, and hits many notes in a rich chord. Thematically, it represents pure love. Photographically, it documents, from nearly its beginning, the first one hundred years of photo taking. One can also see the evolution of fashion, hairstyles, and societal norms as they relate to these subjects. The result is a romantic depiction of a special category of human beings, in all their diversity, that has been shown to be overwhelming for some, but certainly eye-opening for all. The intensity of their expressions, the purity of their passion, the simplicity of their emotions all serve to communicate a message as old as time, but from an unexpected, and heretofore hidden, source. Loving is a book that is intended to usher in a new sensibility, a fresh humanism of love. Rather than categorizing individuals, the collection brings us all together, “accidentally,” under one—if we may—“umbrella.” It shines new light on the universality of the most written about, enacted, or filmed emotion—love. Its message is for everyone.
Experience this, "love letter to the world, a powerful depiction of love between two people." – Hugh Nini & Neal Treadwell
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The "first selfie” of a romantic male coupleA couple, dating from around 1900, placed a camera on a dresser in front of a mirror and photographed their reflection using what appears to be the Faries Shutter Tripper. Below their picture, the two men wrote: “In the mirror.” |
The first “umbrella couple” photoOne unexpected recurring theme, beginning sometime in the mid-1800s and continuing into the late 1920s, is that posing together under an umbrella was a signal that two men were romantically involved. |
One of oldest photos from 1860This photo has a tintype dating from around 1860 and shows one of the men wearing a ring on his little finger. There is a sprinkling of various other photos where the men are wearing a ring, or rings. But it isn’t until you get to the American military from World War II that you begin to see lots of wedding rings—and even a few bracelets. |
"There is an unmistakable look that two people have when they are in love. You can’t manufacture it. And if you’re experiencing it, you can’t hide it." – Hugh Nini & Neal Treadwell
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A compelling photo from approximately 120 years agoThe couple is holding a preprinted message, and looking to us, the viewers. Each held the opposite edge of a sign that reads: “Not Married But Willing To Be.” They posed for that photo in a very different world than the one we live in today. |
"I Do" photograph, circa 1900This photo appears to be one of the first documented marriage between two men. The two well-dressed young men sharing an umbrella. One is placing a wedding ring on the other’s finger. A third man, acting as the officiate, stands opposite them with his right hand in the air in the “I declare” position, and what appears to be a Bible in his left hand. |
World War II soldiersSome photos depict a relationship that is only subtly evident, such as this one of two WWII soldiers stationed in Austria. Had the photo been discovered during their lifetimes, the soldiers could have plausibly claimed to be “just buddies” posing for a photo. However, a companion photo to this one, on page 110 of LOVING, leaves no doubt as to the romantic nature of the soldier's relationship. |
Product details
- Publisher : 5 Continents Editions Srl (Oct. 14 2020)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 336 pages
- ISBN-10 : 8874399286
- ISBN-13 : 978-8874399284
- Item weight : 1.84 kg
- Dimensions : 22.89 x 3.48 x 0.01 cm
- Best Sellers Rank: #16,844 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #4 in LGBTQ2S+ History Books
- #4 in LGBTQ2S+ History (Books)
- #5 in Lifestyle Photography
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About the authors

Born June 1964 in Stamford, a small farming community in west Texas, Neal grew up in the cattle industry working for the family business, Bowie Livestock Commission Co. He also participated, very briefly, in the rodeo circuit as a bull rider. After graduating from High School, Neal attended Midwestern State University working toward an Art Degree. After his university years he worked in the “C” industries: Cattle, Clothing, and Cosmetics. Ultimately, though, he left his cowboy boots behind and moved into the retail world of clothing working for a prestigious couture clothing store, “David Murray’s”, as a floor manager and assistant buyer in Wichita Falls, TX. Seeking a broader horizon, Neal moved to Dallas where he was introduced to the world of cosmetics. He has now worked in the cosmetics industry for over 30 years with brands such as Bobbi Brown, Nars, Bare Minerals, and Artis.
Neal met his husband, Hugh Nini, in March of 1992. Though Hugh and Neal consider themselves to have been married for 28 years, they took the earliest available opportunity to legally establish their union in 2006 when the state of Massachusetts became the first state in the US to pass marriage equality.
In the late 1990’s Neal & Hugh started collecting photographs purely by accident. The first photograph came from an antique store in Dallas. The photograph was of two men in a loving embrace mixed within random photos of a Dallas neighborhood from the 1920s. Our collection of over 2800 vintage photos of romantic couples spanning the 100 years between the 1850s and 1950s is the basis for our book.
LOVING: A Photographic History shines a new light on the most written about, dramatized, or filmed emotions – love.
The pages of our book portray love, but also courage – the courage that it took to memorialize that unmistakable look that occurs between two people in love.
LOVING: A Photographic History celebrates a loving past – a past that points towards the future. It’s message is for everyone. It’s universal.
Photo of Neal by Bill Westmoreland

Hugh Nini was born in Beaumont, TX, in 1955, the second of seven children. He grew up in Houston, TX, and later owned and operated a ballet school, the Denton Ballet Academy, for thirty-three years before moving to New York City in 2012. Though ballet is his greatest love and chosen career, his first love was the French Horn, where he enjoyed great success as Principal Horn in the UNT Symphony under the direction of Anshel Brusilow. After leaving classical music behind and turning his full attention to ballet, his students immediately, and consistently, began achieving success on both national and international levels. Beginning in 1988 he founded, and served as Artistic Director for twenty-five years, the Festival Ballet of North Central Texas. In addition to the more than 30 repertory ballets, Nini has choreographed two full length ballets; The Snow Queen and The Nutcracker. His production of The Nutcracker was among sixteen other ballet companies’ Nutcrackers to compete in the Dallas Dance Council’s “Best Nutcracker” competition. It swept the awards with thirteen out of sixteen “Bests” including Best Nutcracker.
Currently, he works as a private ballet coach in Manhattan and is on the faculty of the Joffrey Ballet. In his spare time he enjoyed showing his, and his husband’s, Irish Setters at AKC dog shows and at the Irish Setter Club of America’s National Specialty. Post championships and their showing days, their red heads, Ryan, Scarlet, Streeter, and Reba, served full time sofa surfers at home in Dallas. Hugh considers his wonderful husband to be the second luckiest guy in the world. Meeting, falling in love with, and marrying Neal, makes him the luckiest guy in the world.
In the late 1990’s Hugh and Neal started collecting photographs purely by accident. The first photograph came from an antique store in Dallas. The photograph was of two men in a loving embrace mixed within random photos of a Dallas neighborhood from the 1920s. Our collection of over 2800 vintage photos of romantic couples spanning the 100 years between the 1850s and 1950s is the basis for our book.
LOVING: A Photographic History shines a new light on the most written about, dramatized, or filmed emotions – love.
The pages of our book portray love, but also courage – the courage that it took to memorialize that unmistakable look that occurs between two people in love.
LOVING: A Photographic History celebrates a loving past – a past that points towards the future. It’s message is for everyone. It’s universal.
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For me, I never thought I'd ever see gay couples very well represented in images of the past; I always knew that men loved other men; but given the minefield of discrimination and legal troubles, I never expected so many photographs existed. To see this collection was a revelation, pointing out again that I 'stand on the shoulders of giants'.
The book is beautifully put together, it has little in the way of description for each photograph on the pages, though there is an appendix. The truth is for many of these men, their stories will be lost to time. For me though, the images are beautiful, sometimes haunting, often familiar emotions play out through the pages; playful, resolved, hopeful, in love!
I had to show several friends (straight and LGBTQ2S), some of these pages... we were all amazed to see so much love shouting out from the past!
This is an amazing collection and though it is a tad expensive it is a book I will treasure always!
Love it seems, has always been love.
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El empastado también muy bueno.
Las fotografías muy bellas.






