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She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman Hardcover – May 25 2004

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  • Hardcover: 240 pages
  • Publisher: William Morrow (May 25 2004)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0060538252
  • ISBN-13: 978-0060538255
  • Product Dimensions: 14 x 2.2 x 21 cm
  • Shipping Weight: 386 g
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars 76 customer reviews
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #333,241 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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From Publishers Weekly

Dispelling the widely held myth of genital penetration as the apogee of sexual pleasure, Kerner, who holds a doctorate in clinical sexology, offers this witty, well-researched manual for "consistently leading women to orgasm" through cunnilingus. Loaded with practical anatomical information (the clitoris has 18 distinct parts, and more nerve fibers than any other part of the human body) and graphic line drawings, the book also touches on the less mechanical, more psychological aspects of oral sex, including the three assurances every woman needs from her lover to feel comfortable: (1) "you enjoy it as much as she does"; (2) "there's no rush"; and (3) "Her scent is provocative, her taste powerful: it all emanates from the same beautiful essence." Since studies show the average woman takes about 20 minutes to reach her first orgasm during a typical sex session, while men take a mere four minutes, Kerner advises men to delay their own climax and make oral sex "coreplay" ("the substantive phase in which sexual tension builds, culminates and then releases itself through the female orgasm"), instead of foreplay. Breaking down six stages of coreplay, from the "first kiss" to orgasm, Kerner speaks to both beginners and more seasoned lovers. His candor concerning his own bout with sexual dysfunction adds a compassionate tone and credibility to this decidedly pro-female methodology.
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“Required reading for all men who are dating and all women who are wondering why they’re not satisfied.” (Cindy Chupack, writer/executive producer of Sex and the City)

“Take note, guys. This book is your secret weapon.” (Jauretsi Saizarbitoria, Jane Magazine)

“Here comes a book that puts men in their places - smack dab in between women’s legs!” (Cake)

“An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!” (Playgirl)

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