She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman Hardcover – May 13 2004
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From Publishers Weekly
Dispelling the widely held myth of genital penetration as the apogee of sexual pleasure, Kerner, who holds a doctorate in clinical sexology, offers this witty, well-researched manual for "consistently leading women to orgasm" through cunnilingus. Loaded with practical anatomical information (the clitoris has 18 distinct parts, and more nerve fibers than any other part of the human body) and graphic line drawings, the book also touches on the less mechanical, more psychological aspects of oral sex, including the three assurances every woman needs from her lover to feel comfortable: (1) "you enjoy it as much as she does"; (2) "there's no rush"; and (3) "Her scent is provocative, her taste powerful: it all emanates from the same beautiful essence." Since studies show the average woman takes about 20 minutes to reach her first orgasm during a typical sex session, while men take a mere four minutes, Kerner advises men to delay their own climax and make oral sex "coreplay" ("the substantive phase in which sexual tension builds, culminates and then releases itself through the female orgasm"), instead of foreplay. Breaking down six stages of coreplay, from the "first kiss" to orgasm, Kerner speaks to both beginners and more seasoned lovers. His candor concerning his own bout with sexual dysfunction adds a compassionate tone and credibility to this decidedly pro-female methodology.
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“Required reading for all men who are dating and all women who are wondering why they’re not satisfied.” (Cindy Chupack, writer/executive producer of Sex and the City)
“Take note, guys. This book is your secret weapon.” (Jauretsi Saizarbitoria, Jane Magazine)
“Here comes a book that puts men in their places - smack dab in between women’s legs!” (Cake)
“An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!” (Playgirl)
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Kerner succeeds at giving his audience the important resources and facts to know and doesn't rush in building up to the techniques and the action. He guides us through (and the 18 parts of the clitoris, that's right 18! Most of which you can't see). I suspect that even if you are a self-proclaimed expert you will learn from She Comes First and if you're a beginner this book will be of great help. Kerner talks about the clitoris as more than a love button and describes society as "Ill-cliterate".Read more ›
I did not find this book to be written in a way that makes the reader want to continue on. It does have some helpful advice throughout but is difficult to want to keep reading for most of it.
This book will guide you deeply on the ins and outs you can't learn by watching porn, or talking in the locker room. For wetness sake! This book offers a cunning cunnilinguist manifesto, cites Marx, Rabelais, Kundera, Taosim, Shakespeare and Nabokov for the literary lover, has precise drawings for the curious cunnilinguist and even a cheat sheet for the harried lover. What have you to lose from reading a book on pleasuring a woman? Your innocence?
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A great book! Guys, pick this one up. The reading is enjoyable, witty and very interesting. You can read it in parts but the author combines everything you learn together quite... Read morePublished 7 months ago by imogen
Very well written by a professional. Easy to read and understand. It does actually help :)Published 16 months ago by Dominic Papiccio
Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men is a better book. This one is too... dry. A bit boring and it feels like I am in a conversation, but being talk at. Would not recommend. Read morePublished 19 months ago by Lori
This is just the best book I have red on how to pleasure your woman with your tongue. It is specific and fun to read. Read morePublished 24 months ago by Majie H. Lavergne