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Product Details

  • Paperback: 372 pages
  • Publisher: Routledge; 1 edition (Nov. 1 2000)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0805836802
  • ISBN-13: 978-0805836806
  • Product Dimensions: 1.9 x 14.6 x 22.2 cm
  • Shipping Weight: 662 g
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  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #3,457,390 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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This book delves deeply and reveals to the reader a rich and new way to look at the realm of relationships. Simultaneously exploring time and intimacy creates a profound shift in our understanding of how people relate. In a modern era that views time as a commodity, intimacy is often lost as relationship suffers. Joel Bennett provides a brilliant approach to a very important subject--well worth any reader's time.

Stephan Rechtschaffen, MD
Author, Time Shifting: Creating More Time to Enjoy Your Life; Cofounder and CEO,

Bennett has done an extraordinary job of combining three forms of reflection to treat the topic of intimacy. The integration of three themes--quantitative psychology research, transpersonal depth psychology, and temporality/transcendence--constitutes the unique contribution of this book. Time and Intimacy: A New Science of Personal Relationships presents a hypothesis for further reflection in psychology, and it organizes a whole field of research for study. Most important, it deals sensitively with a very important topic.
Robert Cummings Neville
Dean, School of Theology, Boston University

Joel Bennett's Time and Intimacy talks about intimacy in a way that recreates the feeling of intimacy, and recapitulates his vision of an intimate interaction through the structure of the book itself. Just as intimate interactions provide a sense of transcending time even as they can only be understood within a temporary trajectory, Bennett's prose, by refusing linearity and traditional scientific discourse, recapitulates the felt sense of an intimate interaction through its poetic style. Time and Intimacy is a book that can be opened anywhere and enjoyed, as it is composed of many loosely woven strands pulled together graphically and sometimes metaphorically. When it is opened spontaneously and absorbed in bursts, with full attention given to the language itself, it can be appreciated like poetry. Unlike poetry, however, Bennett's work has woven within it references to the latest research on close relationships. For readers who believe that the structure of the text should speak to the subject matter of that text, there is much experimentation with textual structure to be discovered in Time and Intimacy. Language alternates in unpredictable ways between the poetic and the philosophical, between the scientific and the transpersonal, between the objective and the subjective. Much as an intimate conversation itself might, the book invites the reader to transcend the ordinary boundaries of academic disciplines and to think about intimate experience in language that goes beyond ordinary discourse.

Karen Prager
University of Texas, Dallas

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HASH(0xa551f09c) out of 5 stars Quite insightful into types of intimacy and their association with time Jan. 11 2007
By S. J. Snyder - Published on
Format: Paperback
This book has valuable insight for anyone wishing to explore the varieties of intimacy that make up the fabric of human life and how these intimacies can be developed on a personal, intrapersonal and interpersonal level.

With exercises and checklists, this is the type of book that lends itself to careful reading, journaling, reflection, meditation or other insight.
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HASH(0xa551f54c) out of 5 stars A Graduate Student Perspective Oct. 28 2001
By Richard C. Ortloff - Published on
Format: Paperback
I found the book Time and Intimacy to be a surprising combination of scholarly research, practical relationship advice, and an uncommon sharing of personal insight and disclosure. As a graduate student I found the volume valuable to me as a research text. As human being I found the book life affirming, remarkably encouraging and personally instructive. Thank you Dr. Bennett for your contribution not only to science, but also to the common good.