<Embed>
CDN$ 23.26
FREE Delivery on your first order. Details
In Stock.
Available on Kindle eBook and can be read on any device with the free Kindle App. Want to Listen? Try Audible.
Ships from and sold by Amazon.ca.
Arrives: Tuesday, Jan 26
Fastest delivery: Tomorrow
Order within 18 hrs and 15 mins
Have one to sell?
Flip to back Flip to front
Listen Playing... Paused   You're listening to a sample of the Audible audio edition.
Learn more

Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing Paperback – Illustrated, Sept. 4 2018

4.8 out of 5 stars 544 ratings

See all formats and editions Hide other formats and editions
Amazon Price
New from Used from
Kindle Edition
Paperback, Illustrated
CDN$ 23.26
CDN$ 17.08 CDN$ 18.51
click to open popover

Frequently bought together

  • Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing
  • +
  • Surfing for God: Discovering the Divine Desire Beneath Sexual Struggle
Total price: CDN$40.87
Buy the selected items together

No Kindle device required. Download one of the Free Kindle apps to start reading Kindle books on your smartphone, tablet, and computer.

  • Click here to download the iOS app
    Apple
  • Click here to download the Android app
    Android
  • Click here to download the Windows Phone app
    Windows Phone
  • Click here to download from Amazon appstore
    Android

To get the free app, enter your mobile phone number.

kcpAppSendButton


Product details

  • Publisher : The Navigators; Illustrated edition (Sept. 4 2018)
  • Language : English
  • Paperback : 288 pages
  • ISBN-10 : 1631466720
  • ISBN-13 : 978-1631466724
  • Item Weight : 295 g
  • Dimensions : 13.97 x 20.96 x 20.57 cm
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.8 out of 5 stars 544 ratings

Product description

Review

Jay Stringer’s Unwanted demonstrates a depth of insight and wisdom that I found stunning! I have been counseling men and women in the church who are battling with sexual brokenness for over thirty years and have written fifteen books on the subject. Yet I found Jay’s grasp of the subject profound, and the graphic illustrations he used to summarize various points were worth the price of the book alone. It will truly help many come out of their shame and finally find freedom. Stringer is a top gun, and I would fly with him into combat anytime! (Dr. Ted Roberts, cofounder of Pure Desire Ministries International)

As bleak as the landscape of sexual brokenness may appear, God always raises up his people to proclaim a path to healing and redemption. Jay Stringer is one of those voices. Unwanted is a courageous, insightful work that challenges us to look beyond the what into the why of our sexual sin. This book will undoubtedly equip many on the journey to freedom. (Dr. Juli Slattery, cofounder of Authentic Intimacy and author of Rethinking Sexuality)

If sexuality is anything, it’s complicated! This thing that involves our whole selves―body, mind, spirit―this thing that can compel our behavior but is also shaped by our habits. In Unwanted, Jay Stringer shines a spotlight on one important aspect of our sexual lives―our personal history, particularly the way our sexuality intersects with our brokenness over time. By inviting us to be compassionate with ourselves and curious about our story, he helps us to look beyond the shame and embarrassment that so often deaden us and toward real, authentic, healthy ways of relating to ourselves, our loved ones, our community, and even God. (Debra Hirsch, author of Redeeming Sex)

Unwanted’s breakthrough research into the origins of sexual brokenness convincingly shows why tips and techniques to combat it have failed to lead to the freedom we desire and are designed to enjoy. Unwanted is a life-giving room of grace where all of us can find relief from the heartache of sexual shame. Jay Stringer invites you to know your story and dare to believe that you will be loved more―not less―for what it reveals. The culture, including the church, has needed this book for decades. Thousands will experience God’s kindness and healing through it. (Bruce McNicol, president of Trueface)

A thorough theoretical framework and nuanced vocabulary are critical tools when dealing with unwanted sexual desires, thoughts, attitudes, and behaviors. Even with these, the journey to persevere requires real stories of personal discovery and hope. In Unwanted, Jay Stringer not only provides a set of tools to understand these matters but also offers a story and vision for those who find themselves in dark places. (William M. Struthers, author of Wired for Intimacy)

Wow. This book is a weapon for freedom and flourishing in a world bombarded with sexual pain and brokenness. If you are tired of the blame-and-shame methods filled with guilt and fear around sex, Jay offers a life-changing alternative: restored sexual wholeness and flourishing. Sex is good? Indeed. Refreshingly honest and humble, Jay refuses avoidance and despair around the most painful oppression of our time. Using a divine strategy with incredible skill, Jay enters our brokenness and finds the keys to our sexual freedom and wholeness within the depth of our pain. Get this book. Read this book. Let the healing and freedom come. (Danielle Strickland, cofounder of Infinitum)

Unwanted is, without rival, the best book on broken sexuality I have ever read. It is heartbreaking and hope-restoring, and with immense kindness, it proceeds to where most work stalls and refuses to enter. Jay’s research is groundbreaking. No one has pursued these dark waters with as much light-offering, data-bound research. Even more, Jay offers the heart of the gospel in a manner that doesn’t trivialize sin or addiction but lifts the battle up to the ambivalence we have about freedom. This book will be a classic that anchors us in brilliant research, soul honesty, and biblical reflection. (Dan B. Allender, PHD, author of Healing the Wounded Heart)

Over the past twenty-five years of ministry, I’ve witnessed many men and women floundering in a sea of hopelessness due to their own (or a spouse’s) sexual brokenness. That’s why I’m so excited about and grateful for Jay’s work in the field of sexual addiction and restoration. If you’re hungry for deep healing, or searching for practical ways to help others heal from unhealthy emotional entanglements and sexual dysfunction, Unwanted will be an incredibly sharp tool in your tool belt! (Shannon Ethridge, MA, author of Every Woman's Battle)

Jay Stringer is one of those rare leaders whose life will leave an indelible mark on generations to come. In his book, Unwanted, there’s an incredible convergence of story, science and theology that makes it so accessible it becomes transformational. It is the most impactful treatise I’ve ever read on how to understand that our pain and brokenness is actually a pathway to full healing and restoration. I’m convinced that Unwanted addresses the source of sexual brokenness in our world. If we want to see our hearts restored and dismantle the forces that seek to ruin the beauty of sex, this book will be our roadmap. (Jason Pamer, Writer and Producer)

Unwanted enters the heartache of sexual brokenness and reveals the deepest longings within us for redemption. Recognizing how evil seeks to misdirect our longings, Jay illuminates how even our sin can reveal important truths about ourselves and our unique path to redemption. Through groundbreaking research and a heart for the Gospel, Stringer invites us to the critical task of finding hope and meaning within our sexual lives. It clearly shows how Christ invites us to depth of desire, not death of desire. (Christopher West, Author of Fill These Hearts: God, Sex, and the Universal Longing)

Unwanted changes the conversation on sexual brokenness for this generation of believers. Jay Stringer engages the “why” beneath our sexual shame with groundbreaking research and the wisdom of a counselor. (Josh McDowell, author and speaker)

Sexual brokenness is the most significant and under addressed topic affecting men today. Jay’s work opens the door to a new conversation for all of us who need language to talk about it more transparently. Jay’s powerful research and clinical insights show how our earliest stories plant seeds that go on to hold tremendous power over us in our adult lives. Unwanted is going to lead you to an understanding of your life that can guide you to freedom. (James Anderson, President/CEO New Canaan Society)

From the Publisher

Customer reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars
4.8 out of 5
544 global ratings
How are ratings calculated?

Top reviews from Canada

Reviewed in Canada on November 26, 2018
Verified Purchase
Reviewed in Canada on September 4, 2018
One person found this helpful
Report abuse
Reviewed in Canada on December 9, 2019

Top reviews from other countries

Richnsoul
5.0 out of 5 stars Light at the end of the tunnel :
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on October 10, 2019
Verified Purchase
Bagobeans
4.0 out of 5 stars If you do not transform your pain, you will transmit it...
Reviewed in the United States on October 27, 2018
Verified Purchase
72 people found this helpful
Report abuse
Pam
5.0 out of 5 stars A Paradigm-Changing Book
Reviewed in the United States on September 4, 2018
Verified Purchase
27 people found this helpful
Report abuse
Nellie
4.0 out of 5 stars Great for therapists and clients
Reviewed in the United States on September 16, 2018
Verified Purchase
25 people found this helpful
Report abuse
Kindle Customer
4.0 out of 5 stars I would recommend this book
Reviewed in the United States on December 31, 2018
Verified Purchase
16 people found this helpful
Report abuse