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Peacocks, Chameleons, Centaurs: Gay Suburbia and the Grammar of Social Identity Paperback – Oct. 1 2003
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What does it mean to be a gay man living in the suburbs? Do you identify primarily as gay, or suburban, or some combination of the two? For that matter, how does anyone decide what his or her identity is?
In this first-ever ethnography of American gay suburbanites, Wayne H. Brekhus demonstrates that who one is depends at least in part on where and when one is. For many urban gay men, being homosexual is key to their identity because they live, work, and socialize in almost exclusively gay circles. Brekhus calls such men "lifestylers" or peacocks. Chameleons or "commuters," on the other hand, live and work in conventional suburban settings, but lead intense gay social and sexual lives outside the suburbs. Centaurs, meanwhile, or "integrators," mix typical suburban jobs and homes with low-key gay social and sexual activities. In other words, lifestylers see homosexuality as something you are, commuters as something you do, and integrators as part of yourself.
Ultimately, Brekhus shows that lifestyling, commuting, and integrating embody competing identity strategies that occur not only among gay men but across a broad range of social categories. What results, then, is an innovative work that will interest sociologists, psychologists, anthropologists, and students of gay culture.
- ISBN-100226072924
- ISBN-13978-0226072920
- Edition1st
- PublisherUniversity of Chicago Press
- Publication dateOct. 1 2003
- LanguageEnglish
- Dimensions20.47 x 12.5 x 1.52 cm
- Print length272 pages
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In this first-ever ethnography of American gay suburbanites, Wayne H. Brekhus demonstrates that who one is depends at least in part on where and when one is. For many urban gay men, being homosexual is key to their identity because they live, work, and socialize in almost exclusively gay circles. Brekhus calls such men "lifestylers" or peacocks. Chameleons or "commuters," on the other hand, live and work in conventional suburban settings, but lead intense gay social and sexual lives outside the suburbs. Centaurs, meanwhile, or "integrators," mix typical suburban jobs and homes with low-key gay social and sexual activities. In other words, lifestylers see homosexuality as something you are, commuters as something you do, and integrators as part of yourself.
Ultimately, Brekhus shows that lifestyling, commuting, and integrating embody competing identity strategies that occur not only among gay men but across a broad range of social categories. What results, then, is an innovative work that will interest sociologists, psychologists, anthropologists, and students of gay culture.
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- Publisher : University of Chicago Press; 1st edition (Oct. 1 2003)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 272 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0226072924
- ISBN-13 : 978-0226072920
- Item weight : 314 g
- Dimensions : 20.47 x 12.5 x 1.52 cm
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What Brekhus has done, very effectively, in this book is expose the world of a very different gay America, that of the suburban gay male. The peacocks, chameleons and centaurs referred to in the title denote three broad categories of gay men and the way in which they choose to live their lives. Peacocks are used as a reference point to begin discussion. They are those seen as "typically gay" in much of America, living in enclaves in urban centers and viewing gay or queer as a noun, something they are at an essential level. Chameleons treat gay as more of a verb and are sometimes referred to as "lifestyle commuters." They live in predominantly straight suburban areas and blend in with the local culture, traveling elsewhere to "be gay." This may include weekend trips to the city or further removed events where gay men gather. Their behavior is very different in environments where they are surrounded by other gay men than it is in their suburban communities. For centaurs, gay is an adjective, one of many which describe them and perhaps not terribly important in the overall scheme of things. They might see themselves for example, as a white suburban accountant, active in their local community, who also happens to be gay.
What I find most refreshing about this book is the way in which it breaks beyond the boundaries of the urban gay community, to explore a suburban gay life you don't hear much about, while still recognizing the significance of the interrelation between these worlds. Brekhus explores both the intersections of and conflicts between people who share one particular trait in common, but choose to express it in very different ways. I think it will be an eye-opening read for those who see gay culture as monolithic. This books helps open a window on the sometimes conflictual question of what it means to be gay in America and offers some valuable insights. I was particularly impressed with the way in which the author manages to communicate the opinions and attitudes of the individuals he interviewed in the writing of this book. This, like any good work of sociology, benefits from conveying the humanity of the subjects.
I highly recommend this book for anyone seeking a broader understanding of gay culture.

