Sorry for my bad spelling and grammar.
First I thought not again, another women writing about men, its obvious that 99% of advice out there in books written by woman as well as columns in magazines are doing more harm than good.
She interviews men and so do others, most men lie and lie without even knowing it, they don't answer dating questions honestly especially to women and if shes hot forget it they don't know what they are saying.
So basing your life based on what men tell women = disaster, you have to watch their actions not listen to their words.
In addition most book writers are too busy making sure not to hurt someone's feeling and making sure to be politically correct and in turn it's a bunch of nonsense advice.
This author has the "I don't care" attitude and "ill say it like it is", granted this can be hurtful to many but in the long run she will turn out to be your best friend (unless you obviously think that your dating situation is so unique that nobody can give you advice).
There is a issue magazines and books never touch on, it's a very touchy issue that only men share between themselves.
In the past 15 years ive worked with 1000's of men and women, and when you hear something over and over you start noticing a pattern.
Most women if a guy sleeps with them once and never calls them the assumption is that all he wanted was a one night stand, ladies this is false, no such thing, if you did not surprise him with anything when you got naked he will call you back again and again.
The issue is most women don't understand hygiene, it's a bigger relationship killer than most think, men talk about this issue between themselves but its too nasty to talk to women, if you tell it to a girl she usually replies with "I shower 3 times a day" or "you or your friends must be dating skanks".
The shower was not intended for women, learn to take baths (unless you can stand on your hands when taking a shower or you have a good powerful hose). This is a serious issue that no one wants to touch on, summers eve is not a shower replacement.
We can look away on certain body imperfections and turning off the lights ladies can help but god still allows us to smell things when its dark.
I understand why things like this are not mentioned in books and magazines but this is the most common TRUE reason why after sex men do not call back, the next one is simply you where a lie, he expected bigger breasts or firmer butt etc but the last thing on the list is "all he wanted was a one night stand".
This is a must read book for those who are ready to really understand what it takes to find something real, its up to date with current advice not outdated things that are not valid anymore.
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John Lu
Pretty amazing
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