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This 20th-anniversary edition of the extraordinary New York Times bestseller features a new introduction from the author!
"Stiffed is a brilliant, important book.. Faludi's reportorial and literary skills unfold with breathtaking confidence and beauty... She goes a long way toward eliminating the black and white, good and evil, male and female polarities that have riven the sexes in the past three decades..." –Time
In 1991, internationally renowned feminist journalist Susan Faludi ignited a revival of the women’s movement with her revelatory investigative reportage: Backlash was nothing less than a landmark, uncovering an “undeclared war” against women’s equality in the media, advertising, Hollywood, the workplace, and government—a war that is still being fought today.
Stiffed may be even more essential than Backlash to understanding the cultural riptides that led to Trumpian America. Here, Faludi turns her attention to the so-called “Angry Male” politics plaguing the nation. Through deeply researched, nuanced, and empathetic character studies of distressed industrial workers, laid-off aerospace engineers, combat veterans, football fans, evangelical husbands, suburban and inner-city teenage boys, and Hollywood and porn actors, Stiffed goes beyond the easy explanations of male misbehavior—that it’s driven by chromosomes or hormones—to lay bare the powerful social and economic forces that have shattered the postwar compact defining American manhood. Faludi’s vivid storytelling illuminates the historic and traumatic paradigm shift from a “utilitarian” manliness, grounded in civic and communal service, to an “ornamental” masculinity shaped by entertainment, marketing, and performance values.
Read in the light of Trumpian politics and the #MeToo movement, Faludi’s analysis speaks acutely to our present crisis, and to a foreboding future. Stiffed delivers a searing portrait of modern-day male America, and traces the provenance of a gender war that continues to rage, unabated.
- Print length672 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherWilliam Morrow Paperbacks
- Publication dateSept. 19 2000
- Dimensions13.49 x 3.4 x 20.32 cm
- ISBN-100380720450
- ISBN-13978-0380720453
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“A groundbreaking, 600 page treatise that shines feminism’s insights into various corners of masculinity in a way that hasn’t been done before . . . Stiffed is eye-opening enough to change the way we understand each day’s news.” — Boston Sunday Globe
“Faludi masterfully weaves larger essays with case histories and personality profiles. She connects the general to the specific and enlivens her argument with a host of haunted voices.” — Washington Post Book World
“Susan Faludi’s Backlash . . .[is] the most important book on women in recent decades . . . Stiffed is even better than Backlash. It is a significant and serious work.” — New York Review of Books
“The worst thing about Stiffed: The Betrayal of the American Man is that you immediately want to run around grabbing people by the lapels and beseeching them, “Read this book! Now! I’ve got to talk about it . . . ” — San Diego Union Tribune
“[Susan Faludi’s] ear knows how to listen; her heart is made of sympathy; her mind is always changing... Brilliant book. ” — John Leonard, New York Newsday
“In this monumental and surprising book, sure to make a tremendous impact on thoughtful people, [Faludi] overlooks no part of the national landscape . . . As in her Pulitzer-Prize-winning Backlash, Faludi accuses society, and documents her claims. Read Stiffed. You’ll never forget it.” — Harriete Behringer
“[Stiffed] is the product of six years of aggressive reporting and an admirable knack for bringing the results to life. No one will ever put this book down for lack of vivid scene setting or compassionate observation.” — The New York Times Book Review
“[Stiffed is] a work of astonishing compassion . . . It issues a dare for both men and women who’ve long been dunned into passivity to do something significant to change their lives, to reject the values of a society that would prefer for them to seek easy answers.” — Seattle Weekly
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One of the most talked-about books of last year, the Pulitzer Prize-winning author of Backlash now explores the collapse of traditional masculinity that has left men feeling betrayed. With Backlash in 1991, Susan Faludi broke new ground when she put her finger directly on the problem bedeviling women, and the light of recognition dawned on millions of her readers: what's making women miserable isn't something they're doing to themselves in the name of independence. It's something our society is doing to women. The book was nothing less than a landmark. Now in Stiffed, the author turns her attention to the masculinity crisis plaguing our culture at the end of the '90s, an era of massive layoffs, "Angry White Male" politics, and Million Man marches. As much as the culture wants to proclaim that men are made miserable--or brutal or violent or irresponsible--by their inner nature and their hormones, Faludi finds that even in the world they supposedly own and run, men are at the mercy of cultural forces that disfigure their lives and destroy their chance at happiness. As traditional masculinity continues to collapse, the once-valued male attributes of craft, loyalty, and social utility are no longer honored, much less rewarded. Faludi's journey through the modern masculine landscape takes her into the lives of individual men whose accounts reveal the heart of the male dilemma. Stiffed brings us into the world of industrial workers, sports fans, combat veterans, evangelical husbands, militiamen, astronauts, and troubled "bad" boys--whose sense that they've lost their skills, jobs, civic roles, wives, teams, and a secure future is only one symptom of a larger and historic betrayal.
About the Author
Susan Faludi is a Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and the author of Backlash: The Undeclared War Against American Women, which won the 1992 National Book Critics Circle Award for Nonfiction. A contributing editor for Newsweek and a former reporter for The Wall Street Journal, she has written for many magazines, including The New Yorker, The New York Times, Esquire, Double Take, and The Nation. She lives in Los Angeles.
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- Publisher : William Morrow Paperbacks; Reprint edition (Sept. 19 2000)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 672 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0380720450
- ISBN-13 : 978-0380720453
- Item weight : 567 g
- Dimensions : 13.49 x 3.4 x 20.32 cm
- Best Sellers Rank: #842,576 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #550 in Gender Studies on Men
- #552 in Feminist Criticism
- #2,211 in Feminist Theory (Books)
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Susan Faludi won the Pulitzer Prize in 1991 for excellence in journalism and won the National Book Critics Circle’s nonfiction award for Backlash upon its original publication. She is also the author of The Terror Dream, Stiffed, and In the Darkroom, a finalist for the 2017 Pulitzer Prize in biography. A former reporter for The Wall Street Journal, she has written for The New Yorker, The New York Times, Harper’s, and The Baffler, among other publications.
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(1) It fails to address the central stream of feminist thought flowing directly from Susan B. Anthony and Elizabeth Cady Stanton and the original Women's Convention of 1848 together with the Declaration of Women's Rights and Women's Suffrage which ended in the granting of Women's Suffrage with the 19th Amendment in 1920, but failed to result in real equality due to the failure to enact an Equal Rights Amendment. The Central Stream re-emerges again with the movement for the passage of the Equal Rights Amendment in the 1970s, and after the passage of several Constitutional Amendments, the ERA is passed by all but the three states necessary, Susan B. Anthony is on a Dollar Coin, but then the Republican Party changes against ERA and the ERA fails. This failure of the ERA to pass should really be the central and starting point of any reasonable discussion of feminism or why men do not treat women as equal. More pertinently, Faludi does not emerge or posit a coherent political strategy for the re-passage of the ERA and its ratification and adoption by the 3/4 of the states necessary.
(2) The book is bogged down in literary critical theory muddles which mask and mystify in Marxian/Habermasian/Foucoultian fashion the central issue of the gender gap and what it means. Are men suppose to raise kids? Are men supposed to always earn more money? Are these matters culturally different depending upon the ethnicity, religion or geography of the individuals involved? For example, and if you saw My Big Fat Greek Wedding you know what I am talking about, I am from a tightly knit Greek American family from the Northeast. Family and gender roles are tightly defined by the church, by parents and by our 200 or more relatives here and around the world. There isn't a minute in our busy days when we have time to think about Simone de Bouvier or Sartre, although my husband and I are both well educated and have read all of the theory and philosophy referred to in Ms. Faludi's book. IT JUST ISN'T GOING TO CHANGE ANYTHING WE'RE DOING BECAUSE FAMILY ROLES IN A TRADITIONAL SOCIETY DON'T CHANGE BECAUSE SOME WRITER WRITES DOWN WORDS. The reason Greek and Jewish people have been around for 3500 years is a stable family structure which puts a value on kids, with defined parenting roles. If we mess around with that, we lose our ethnic and our spiritual identity.
So for these two reasons, I don't think Ms. Faludi addresses her topic adequates--the ERA and plain talk about men and women.
--Mary M. Zissimos
Faludi does a tremendous amount of leg work in interviewing everyone from male porn studs and ghetto gangsters to midwest gun huggers and fanatical football fans. The most jaw-dropping chapter is her analysis of the bullying and hazing that goes on at the Citadel. Here is a bunch of macho superpatriots who have bought into the American dream their entire lives, yet when they graduate they'll have a good chance of serving drinks at Orange Julius (through no fault of their own and much like college grads everywhere).
She does a masterful job of dissecting the after effects of the My Lai massacre, specifically how American life has treated both Lt. Calley and the heroic whistleblower. Moreover Faludi documents all sorts of bizzare behavior on behalf of virtually the entire My Lai platoon.
Stiffed is almost seven hundred pages and contains loads of information, but because it's so interesting and well written, and includes the unique dynamic of having a feminist intellectual lending her talents to the plight of the American man, it's quite an enthralling and fascinating read. I left this book thinking that Faludi's really tied it all together and has come up with a coherent, holistic and acurate picture of what's actually been going on. Stiffed is an excellent addition to Faludi's library which contains the already classic "Backlash." If you've read either one, than you owe it to yourself to read the other.
Faludi is on to something. Her subjects are not archetypes, but they are good anecdotal evidence of something going on, perhaps the inability of large groups of men to prosper and contribute in an increasingly corporate, service-oriented, image-conscious, media-influenced world. The chapters on displaced defense workers and Cleveland Brown fans were especially heart-rending.
My one criticism of this book is that the chapters on the Spur Posse and the porn star detracted from the overall thesis. I can understand the author's unwillingness to throw out good research, and the chapters were certainly interesting, but they weakened the overall thesis. She should have restricted her discussion to men and groups whose ways for coping, however dysfunctional, were basically non-pathological and socially acceptable.
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Random thoughts: 1) Faludi's conclusion is that most American men are unhappy (and resistant to feminism) because their fathers - those heroes of World War II and members of the "greatest generation" - were cold, distant, and silent parents, providing little or no guidance to boys growing up in a consumer culture that rewards image over true worth. I'm sure there is some truth to this theory. But what about all of the mothers - do they make no impact on their sons? Other than in passing, Faludi makes no mention of the mothers.
2) Feminism, like motherhood, gets a pass from Faludi as a contributing factor to modern male distress. Men who criticize any aspect of the women's movement are unreasonable, delusional, or scapegoating. Yet I was struck by this assessment of feminism by one of the men Faludi interviewed: "It doesn't seem to have made anyone very happy."
3) I'm not convinced that the average American male is quite as tormented as Faludi would have us believe. But a 600-page volume of interviews with men who are basically happy and content would be an awfully dull read.
4) Faludi's final words of advice to men who are unhappy or confused by our Brave New World? "Wage a battle against no enemy." Great. That helps.
Just as I would wish the men in our lives would read her book "Backlash", it is equally important for us women to read "Stiffed".
Faludi's writing style is thorough and well documented. Her notes at the end of her books are incredibly helpful.
Like _Backlash_, _Stiffed_ says a lot of things that people don't want to hear. Unlike _Backlash_, the more recent book isn't afraid to put the blame on consumer culture. That fact is missed by virtually every negative reviewer -- yet having actually read the book, I find it hard to understand how. Reading _Backlash_ was sometimes maddening for her refusal (and it did smack of refusal) to name a culprit; that weakness is gone in _Stiffed_.
Yet still these negative reviews, most of them dismissive ("the most overrated journalist of the '90s...") in character, without any substantive criticism, proliferate. There's something here that people are afraid to hear. That makes it important for thinking people to read.

