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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Our Sunday Visitor, Inc. (Jan. 21 2014)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 128 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1612787878
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1612787879
  • Item weight ‏ : ‎ 150 g
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 13.97 x 0.74 x 21.59 cm
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Anita
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent, funny and bang on!
Reviewed in Canada on October 20, 2013
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It is so refreshing to read a book on this subject that is so direct and so honest. Simcha does an excellent job, as always, of cutting right to the point without candy-coating the tough realities. I appreciate very much her wisdom and willingness to share it. I recommend this book to all married couples, regardless of age or stage....we can all be reminded of our purpose in marriage....to LOVE...even when it hurts.
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5.0 out of 5 stars So happy this book exists!
Reviewed in Canada on November 7, 2018
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Every married couple considering, practicing or avoiding NFP should read this book! It’s hilarious, honest and steeped in wisdom. You won’t regret it!
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Brian
5.0 out of 5 stars Refreshingly honest, real, and faithful.
Reviewed in Canada on January 8, 2015
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Refreshingly honest with a sense of humor and realism but faithful to church teaching. A good and easy read. Some practical things for married life beyond things related to NFP. Worth it.
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CM
5.0 out of 5 stars A must read for anyone practicing or thinking about practicing NFP
Reviewed in Canada on May 23, 2014
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This books is fantastically honest. No sugar-coating; just plain truth and great thought-provoking questions. Everyone can and will benefit from this guide. Read it. Now.
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RenLady
4.0 out of 5 stars a much-needed book on this topic.
Reviewed in Canada on November 10, 2013
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It's about time that somebody who actually uses nfp write about the struggles involved and how to deal with them (or at least, how to laugh about them and know you're not alone). This book is both insightful and hilarious.
My only complaint is that a good deal of the material in this book is not new for anyone who reads the author's blogs. However, it's nice to have it all in one place.
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Gilberto Rivera
5.0 out of 5 stars NFP: It doesn't give you rainbows and unicorns.
Reviewed in the United States on February 11, 2014
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I picked up this book after listening to an interview with the author on Al Kresta's radio show, and it was well worth the $5 investment.
The book itself is a collection of blog posts and magazine articles, adapted and edited into a cohesive book form. It goes through many of the common problems couples will face, and suggest ways in which these issues can begin to be worked out with humor, wit, and easy to read language.
The main selling point of this book is its brutal honesty regarding the challenge of living out not just the abstinence of NFP, but the entire lifestyle of self donative love of which NFP is only one aspect. It balances out the generally overly optimistic representation of NFP which is presented to couples when they are first introduced to the method with a very honest depiction of the struggles that accompany the use of NFP. She even tackles, though not exhaustively, that flame war starting, never ending debate on what's ok to do during phase 2.
It's not all doom and gloom however. The author is quick to remind the reader that all the touted benefits of NFP are very real and very attainable, just not as easily as one may have initially hoped. She shows how NFP, through much struggle and growth, fits into the larger Catholic understanding of marital relationships and reorders their lives towards achieving a fuller, richer union with their spouses... or the entire opposite when couples misuse NFP, as she humorously points out in one entire chapter.
Target audience is something important to keep in mind. If NFP is working well for you, you probably will not get much out of this book, though it does contain some helpful high level insights on discernment, relationship issues from a Catholic perspective, and suffering as an act of love. Still a worthwhile read in my opinion.
If you are struggling with NFP but doing ok, this book will make you feel like a superstar, a hero of virtue! You may get some helpful encouragement and some good perspective on how to continue the growth in your married relationship.
If you despise NFP and wish you'd never heard those awful 3 letters, congratulations, you are the target audience. You will find a sympathetic voice, and validation for all your complaints and struggles. You will also find encouragement in your decision, reassurance that your difficulties are neither uncommon nor insurmountable, and actionable steps to help make the process more bearable and ultimately fulfilling.
To finish off, I will mention a few things that, although minor, I found a bit off putting.
Portions of the book are written as if addressing an exclusively female audience. In fact one chapter contains some useful advice for women to help their husbands during times of abstinence but nothing for husbands because the author expects the (female) reader to have a list of things to request of her husband already.
Throughout the book there's a presumption that the wife is the "keeper of the chart" and sole master of all things charting, while husbands anxiously await the proverbial "green light." My understanding has always been that NFP should be a shared exercise and the husband should ease the burden as much as possible given that some aspects will, by necessity, be borne by the wife. Perhaps the author's depiction is more in line with reality, but even so, it seems like a missed opportunity to encourage husbands to take a more active role in the process.
Finally, the book generalizes, likely out of necessity, the emotional workings of men. It presumes a need for 'touch' dependent affection from men which, while true for a majority of men, is not so for all, and the subject receives more nuanced discussion in a book such as Chapman's "The 5 Love Languages."
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SDonnelly
5.0 out of 5 stars a refreshing read :)
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on February 1, 2014
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Being relatively new to NFP I can not express enough how much I enjoyed reading this frank and honest book on the highs and lows of what it entails. It encouraged me to talk to my hubby about the difficult parts and has genuinely helped us grow closer in our bid to use nfp. Thank u!!
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Katie Ann Titus
5.0 out of 5 stars NFP meets real wife
Reviewed in the United States on October 23, 2013
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This is the book I've been waiting for and wanting all my married life. And 12 years into that blessed vocation, I finally got it! "Sinner's Guide" was a book that absolutely had to be written. I was worried it might have to be me... and I'm not mellow enough to tackle something this controversial in book form yet. Three cheers for Simcha! :)

Managing somehow to be absolutely inspiring while remaining plainly hilarious, employing the most refreshing honesty coupled with the most charitable fairness, Mrs. Fisher addressed all of the major issues of the "joys" of NFP that, prior to this book, I'd only heard whispered late at mom's nights out with cocktails.

I ordered this book on a Saturday, and immediately drove to a "new" playground so my four kids would be distracted as my husband and I read it together. As they wearied of that playground, we drove to another. Three in total.

I haven't smiled this much about NFP... ever.

It's not even that any of the info was new to us. Both hubby and I have majors in theology (from an orthodox Catholic university to boot). It's simply that now there's a book publicly stating the collective private worries, fears, and misgivings of a couple generations of well-meaning, practicing Catholics. Married folks who want to be holy and "do the right thing," but found that "doing the right thing" sometimes made them feel anything but holy. A pair of disgruntled malcontents perhaps, but not holy.

Good Catholic gal that I've always been, I had written papers on the glories of NFP since high school. Upon getting engaged (and not a moment before), I dutifully signed up for the local NFP class. Unbeknownst to me, I was taught a variation of the rhythm method instead. And six months of considerable carefulness into marriage, while studying for the degrees we planned to use to earn a living, I had a positive pregnancy test.

"Betrayed" doesn't begin to describe how I felt. I had done everything "right," and suddenly I was a mom at 23, when I'd hoped to first work on marriage and saving money (we had nothing) and curing some health issues. While I never regretted our beautiful baby, I very much resented the timing, as our carefullly laid plans of getting a home and jobs were thrown to the wind. We hurridly finished off half our masters' degrees, and a month later had our baby at 32 weeks gestation. I took another NFP course. But I was nursing, and the teacher we had was from the same organization I learned from before. 18 months later, again while carefully charting as best I knew how, we were pregnant again.

So we had a crash course in parenthood, and our financial situation has remained challenging to this day... I never did get back to work like I'd planned. But as Simcha illustrates in this book: by being obedient to God's will, we have been blessed in ways I would never have chosen, but would now never want to be without.

I finally found a teacher who knew the system, and had six years of "just" two kids before we expanded our family by two more. And just for good measure, I took the course one more time, and love Creighton style best of all.

But I still struggled, and at best have only come to a resigned disgust with the system. The well-meaning "encouragement" of other women of how "NFP really brings you together as a couple. Really!" did not help at all. (Particularly when such pep-talks were coming from those beyond child-bearing years, who only remembered having kids as "the best time of their lives.") Very few were willing to admit the simple truth: that NFP can be very difficult to learn, very difficult to practice, and only through God's grace and significant trial and error will a couple begin to see the elusive benefits promised at pre-Cana class.

Simcha does a spectacular job of describing how all these NFP benefits (improved communication! increased understanding! deeper appreciation!) can be true, but they don't come automatically, and can be very far from the truth in the learning stages of the game. Especially when most of us are given bright pink glasses beforehand, and only in practice find out the incredible amounts of sacrifice required to practice NFP and maintain sanity.

While I still hope further studies in fertility will someday make this system less arduous, thanks to this guide for sinners, I am again inspired to look at NFP more positively, even as the system is today.

I absolutely loved the non-judgmental nature of this book, the demonstration of the fact that you just (really!) never know someone else's situation, and so should never attempt to decide for someone else whether they should have more or less kids, that they should be "providentialist" or "NFPers." That such decisions really involve a personal, daily, (and yes, monthly) discernment of God's will.

Thank you, Simcha. Thank you for saying out loud that NFP can absolutely stink sometimes. That was utterly refreshing to hear publicly... after years of being silenced and shamed into thinking "I should be so happy with this," it was great to have someone call a luteal phase a luteal phase. On a scale of 2 to 10, I give you a 10S! :) And thank you, even more, for highlighting the heart of the whole matter: the creature's submission to the Creator's plan.

I will never forget your depiction of God's conditional will for us, as a Father who says, "Okay, let's see what we can do with the choice you've made" in a way that makes the best of it. I can't wait to see what He does with your work. Keep it up. :)
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5.0 out of 5 stars Hilarious and thought-provoking
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on December 12, 2013
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I flew through this book and enjoyed every minute of it. There's a celibate's stamp of approval! I'd recommend this to anyone looking to make theirs a holy, happy marriage and those dedicated to supporting them.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Something for everyone...no, seriously, but hilariously!
Reviewed in the United States on October 20, 2013
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I am not awesome at the New Evangelization, because like Moses, I need someone else to do the talking. Whenever I have get asked about Church teaching or why I'm only dating Actually-Practicing Catholic men by weirded out distant relations at the family reunion, i always fumble the verbal answer about the Church's beautiful vision for sexuality and wished I could have a book that I could hand them and say "Here. Read this. It's all in there."

That's why I'm delighted to finally have Simcha's book on NFP. A collection of essays (some from her regular e-columns, some that seem new), they are: Laugh-out-loud funny. Heart-stirringly empathetic. Brain-ponderingly insightful. And I'm not even married (plugs ears from all the boos and hisses). Everyone simply must read this book. Everyone.

Married couples: Duh. Simcha wrote it for you. I predict the wife or husband who did that One Thing you are not supposed to do will still appreciate her tone, which is not condemnatory of you, but the structures in place that have led to that conclusion. I can imagine the couples who are Doing It Right will appreciate her frankness and respect and awareness that Doing It Right includes people doing two entirely different things (abstaining or not). And I can even envision the One True Couples (you know who you are) swallowing back some comment. I, a single lady can opine this because that's just how good a writer Simcha is: communicating effectively an idea that everyone gets it.

Engaged couples: This book is what the NFP talk at your Premarital Hoops to Jump Through should look like. I've read the forums and helped prepare materials...if only all the witness talks and written materials were this honest and comprehensive.

Dating couples discerning marriage: Sing to me the song of my people! This is the book I want to give to my guy when we start talking marriage. NFP might be part of that, and we are of the scouting generation: let's be prepared. This useful information will help young people look more confidently at the prospect of a contraception-free marriage. To quote a show of our time": Clear eyes, full hearts, cant lose." And that, to me, is what Simcha gets in this book and helps readers to get to.

Single gals: ever end up at a wine night that has dissolved into your friends whining about the Pill and then awkward silences when it's your turn to pipe up? Encounter dinner party guests who heard that-thing-the-cardinal-screamed-about-on-tv about contraception and were demanded of an explanation about Church teaching and how can that even work? Swearing off dating, which can lead to marriage, which leads to babies, and you are deathly afraid of babies because society of the past 30 years (at least!) has formed you to be so?

THIS BOOK IS FOR YOU. FOR ALL OF YOU. Here. Read it. It's all there.
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